Okie, it can be funny in the beginning but when u tend to overdo it, it might gets annoying, be it joking or not.

Anyway, its my bad to share my happy moments with u guys, probably a mistake.

Joking nia la..Aiyo..Who started it say sorry now..

No, dont have to. Im fine with it now. Cheers.

hehe... my gal gal coming back for my convo... but next year is her convo.. i'm not very sure if i will be abe to attend her convo since my work need me to travel alot... erm.... dont know when this LDR will turn to SDR..... mayb bring her together to travel with me? hahaha

LDR....

so close yet so far

3 more months we meet about 6 months once or a year twice....

So nice, I didnt attend her convo, no $$$ to fly that time.. I wan SDR also...


Agree...

aikz,its not ur fault to share ur happy moments here...im glad that u can share it out wif us....sometimes there r some ppl keep on looking for some1 to share her thoughts n problems oso no ppl listen tat 1 lagi teruk lar....i always been looking for ppl hope i can really get a close and good friend cos i do really nid some1 to talk to...no matter about my relatinoship or career or watever...but i just nid some1 to talk to but yet no1 there.....u r lucky cos u can share here wif so many ppl .... should appreciate it.....yes some ppl may b jealous or watever but y care so much?just b urself,continue share here,cos i wil lb ur listener

Morning to all...

Morning~~~

ah... another bored morning ...

Dear areankim,
Such a long time didnt see you post up anything here. So sweet your gal gal! You should be extremely happy on that day since she is willing to attend your convo. Try your best to make it to her convo cause I believe your presence will be the best convo present for her. Just have faith in your heart and sooner or later, your relationship will sure turn to SDR. Good luck!

my bf also didnt attend my convo last time, but i understand lah... money matters mah... cos gotta spend on air tickets, hotel and etc.

LDR, so far yet so close

HELLO EVERYONE, josephtan83 IS BACK

same also lah..

so close yet so far, so far yet so close...

in the end, mah also far...

GOD Bless LDR couples

I want DDR2..Oops..I meant Dekat distance relationship too...

hello everyone... how are you all? friday liao. this weekend can meet my dear dear liao yesterday got a bit conflict, well, not conflict actually, kind of misunderstanding in our communication and caused by my attitude lah... but we resolved it there and then. now, still happily in love. anyway, some point to ponder ---> i think, there really isnt any need to quarrel in a relationship. when there's any conflict, better if we talk in a low tone and control our emotion, then to shout and blame at each others. well, this is from my experience lah... my bf have always be on the patient and calm side will i sometimes can be explosive. well, from his advice, i try to change my explosive attitude and it works good for both of us. well, sometimes, i will accidentally explode lah... like yesterday, but i really thanks him for being patient with me and guide me when i did wrong. he never shout at me before. when i explode, he would try to calm me down. really love him a lot. guess, sometimes girls are just emotional, especially when it's that time of the month.

^

Well it's gets kind of frustated in a LDR sometimes ... it's hard on both parties so it helps in controlling your emo. Quarelling is sometimes unavoidable ... the MOST important thing is that you don't explode out some harsh words ... when they come out it's NO WAY of getting them back. Try to be rational sometimes ... it's hard that you seldom see each other, it's even herder when you realise that it'll be kinda permanent (until THE time comes la)

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dont compare. i use to have a weakness that my bf point to me, which is, i always wanna win, no matter it's my fault or not (well, i still have it now, but i'm improving on it). i just wouldnt wanna lose and i will become very defencive and my word is kind of rude. after he pointed this, i'm working hard to improve this. now, whenever i have the urge to act that way, i will keep on reminding myself that no point if i win the battle if i lose the essense of relationship. therefore, i will try to change my attitude, for both my own good and my bf's too. however, there will still be the time that i would have exploded and need my bf to remind me that i'm acting that way again. however, both of us knows that changing an attitude needs time. reading lots of self-help book on this matter do help a lot. well, maybe you really gotta take time and talk with your girl and explain to her very very nicely. as i tell you, i use to be defensive when people point out my weakness, even my bf. but always he stay calm and control his temper and explain to me nicely and slowly. i guess, the way he speaks and send the message to me triggers my inner instinct to tell myself that my kind of attitude will not bring any positiveness to me, so i decided to change. of course, with his help. therefore, i really treasure him a lot, because, he taught me a lot, i grew a lot from our relationship, and i certainly matures from here. therefore, i love him very much i wish you all the best also, ok? slowly, and hope she will get the light after some time.