dont compare. i use to have a weakness that my bf point to me, which is, i always wanna win, no matter it's my fault or not (well, i still have it now, but i'm improving on it). i just wouldnt wanna lose and i will become very defencive and my word is kind of rude. after he pointed this, i'm working hard to improve this. now, whenever i have the urge to act that way, i will keep on reminding myself that no point if i win the battle if i lose the essense of relationship. therefore, i will try to change my attitude, for both my own good and my bf's too. however, there will still be the time that i would have exploded and need my bf to remind me that i'm acting that way again. however, both of us knows that changing an attitude needs time. reading lots of self-help book on this matter do help a lot. well, maybe you really gotta take time and talk with your girl and explain to her very very nicely. as i tell you, i use to be defensive when people point out my weakness, even my bf. but always he stay calm and control his temper and explain to me nicely and slowly. i guess, the way he speaks and send the message to me triggers my inner instinct to tell myself that my kind of attitude will not bring any positiveness to me, so i decided to change. of course, with his help. therefore, i really treasure him a lot, because, he taught me a lot, i grew a lot from our relationship, and i certainly matures from here. therefore, i love him very much i wish you all the best also, ok? slowly, and hope she will get the light after some time.

hello ppl,im here again.....
long time din post here dy..quite tired for this few days.....today pancing during work again and nearly faint cos really lack of sleep for this whole week.....tonite must sleep early !!!  

Actually, I had a quarrel with my gf yesterday. Well, Im not a person who love to go out or something and Im not good in social skill as well. Then yesterday's afternoon, her friends asked us to go out yum cha. I was forced by my gf to go with them. So yea, when we arrived I only realised that Im the only guy there. So, the girls were like talking about their cosmetic stuffs lah, fingernails lah, yoga, this and that.

Im a guy, u dont expect me to join in those talks right ? Therefore, I sat still, looking at my gf, hinting her that I wanted to go back. She was not really happy about it. Its like, she wanted me to join in their talks. Fine, I tried but well.. some of them do ignored me. Okie.. I dont keep it in heart. I turned back to my gf and continue talking to her. After everyone finish their food, I paid the bill and we left the cafe.

Then, in the car, from their conversations, I only knew that my gf went to sing K with her friends which she never told me (before this she never goes to those places). I was definitely mad because as for me, its kind of disrespect me. I mean, at least she should let me know about it. Instead of knowing those through her friends, I prefer that she tells me herself but then... Sigh..

Anyway, she apologized after everyone went back. So.. hmm.. yea, we're okie now. She took this morning's flight back to KL.

LDR, I signed back in.

hello ppl,im here again.....
long time din post here dy..quite tired for this few days.....today pancing during work again and nearly faint cos really lack of sleep for this whole week.....tonite must sleep early !!!  

May I know the situation for those student who study engeneering programme at Australia?

Is they busy until can't msn or make a short call?

And will they busy until suddenly forget your birthday b'coz of assignment?

May I know the situation for those student who study engeneering programme at Australia?

Is they busy until can't msn or make a short call?

And will they busy until suddenly forget your birthday b'coz of assignment?

May I know the situation for those student who study engeneering programme at Australia?

Is they busy until can't msn or make a short call?

And will they busy until suddenly forget your birthday b'coz of assignment?

^well, i think there are possibility that he forgot after someone pop up while he's typing the birthday message. well, anything can happen mah... as long as he apologize after that, is ok liao lorr...

engineering is on of the busy course mah... actually, whatever course also will be busy one lah... ask her to talk with him lorr... moreover, different uni, different one mah...

Maybe... sometimes honey forget our anniversary too. All you have to do is give some hint. It's not about hoping for your other half to remember your birthday or anniversary etc.

I have a friend who cannot manage dates. Always forget special dates. So his gf will keep on reminding him starting a week before their anniversary. Dear ar.. 6 more days to our anniversary.. then dear ar.. 5 more days.. etc.. Then he will remember.

Remember, relationship only work if you understand each other and try to fill in each others demerits. Not about hoping for your other half to change. You compromise, don't hope.