So, marry her in the 4th year. Get things done!
...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 2:::...., The Fellowship of LDR
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Nov 9 2006, 11:46 AM
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QUOTE(quiksilver @ Nov 9 2006, 09:11 AM) true...everybody either eats too much...eats less...or dont eat at all. hmm... as for me, i see an equal case between guys and girls. however, what you said is true. girls a more easily emotional influenced than guys. Summary, our diet gets affected when we broke-up. i lost 8 kgs after my break-up with my 4 yrs gf (y here a lot break-up after 4 yrs one?) and i oso couldnt agree more..... forgiveness is the best way of recovering...healing. it takes time.....and u cant force it...but dont make an effort to do the opposite, for example...finding more n more reasons for hating ur xgf. when u can forgive and forget....u can move on...ull feel like a burden is lift off from u. well... i still stick to the gurls screwing up more in LDR than guys...and this is still based on the emotional factor..... maybe its just the gurls around me though.....i see a lot of LDRs ending unsuccessfully bcos the girl side cant handle the loneliness etc. Then again.....as i said, not all girls.....and these are girls around me oni (my frens, etc) My work is ok...bz liao.....havent spend time with my girl yet.... i mean like on a date or samting...not yet. about the 1st date...hmmm..... from what i read.....she is already ur gf? so...dont need to worry.... just be urself.....u want her to like u bcoz of urself....why wanna be someone else? if she ends-up not liking u (ur real self) then i dont think it will be a smooth relationship...u cant try to make it work after that...but its gonna be a bumpy road and probability of not ending up together is high oso. I really feel u man....i met my girl for the 1st time...was so excited and nervous.... She was afraid i wont like her...and im was afraid she wont like me... but when we look back at it....we laugh.... dont forget...ur already her bf liao... My point is...just be urself (ur adi her bf or she like u adi for the way u are) Relax and enjoy the ride. Good Luck!  hey, since it's a short time that you'll be in Malaysia, should try to spend some time with your girl. anyway, weekend will be coming soon. so you can have all the time you want with your girl  |
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Nov 9 2006, 11:49 AM
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QUOTE(blackxhawk @ Nov 9 2006, 05:19 AM) Hey guys....My girl is from sabah and im from kL...She's coming here this december 4 holiday and yeah we'r goin to meet 4 d 1st time...damn at first i was like soo xcited bout d date...now im freakingly nervous..i dun wanna flop at my 1st date.. Dun too nervous ya. Just treat it as friends go out drink tea, eat bun.   |
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Nov 9 2006, 12:42 PM
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LOL no need 4 year also can ger scr***d ler... mine only 2 months....
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Nov 9 2006, 02:00 PM
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LOL !!
shows eihter one of u not strong i think its u hehehe 2months and what she threw at u , haha u got godzilla hands also cannot catch lar... so big |
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Nov 9 2006, 08:25 PM
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QUOTE(suiteng @ Nov 9 2006, 11:49 AM) Dun too nervous ya. Just treat it as friends go out drink tea, eat bun. Haha. Friend and loved one is totally different ler. Anyway, blackxhawk, Good Luck! Gampateh. Remember, RELAX and have fun!!! QUOTE(Jcsy @ Nov 9 2006, 02:00 PM) LOL !! Trying to make fun of ppl? shows eihter one of u not strong i think its u hehehe 2months and what she threw at u , haha u got godzilla hands also cannot catch lar... so big  |
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Nov 10 2006, 01:53 AM
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Nov 9 2006, 12:46 PM) hmm... as for me, i see an equal case between guys and girls. however, what you said is true. girls a more easily emotional influenced than guys. hahahaha hey, since it's a short time that you'll be in Malaysia, should try to spend some time with your girl. anyway, weekend will be coming soon. so you can have all the time you want with your girl  just got into a fight with her...or shud i say argument? but there was no fighting...no arguments... she made a few mistakes and i cant help it, i am so disappointed it shows on my face...i dont want her to know.... she felt worried and apologized.... anyway, Miyoko.....nice plan....but nope....i wont be spending the weekend with her. im free, but not her. She cant make time for me. She has church on Sunday and youth activities on Saturday. yeah...always bz. no time for her bf.  as if im always here in Msia... i wonder how its gonna be when we are no longer LDR. sorry....kinda sad now... yeah disappointed actually..... argghhh....f**k it. |
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Nov 10 2006, 03:34 AM
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QUOTE(quiksilver @ Nov 10 2006, 01:53 AM) hahahaha What about you join her for the youth activities on Saturday, it is not bad anyway. just got into a fight with her...or shud i say argument? but there was no fighting...no arguments... she made a few mistakes and i cant help it, i am so disappointed it shows on my face...i dont want her to know.... she felt worried and apologized.... anyway, Miyoko.....nice plan....but nope....i wont be spending the weekend with her. im free, but not her. She cant make time for me. She has church on Sunday and youth activities on Saturday. yeah...always bz. no time for her bf. as if im always here in Msia... i wonder how its gonna be when we are no longer LDR. sorry....kinda sad now... yeah disappointed actually..... argghhh....f**k it. Church usually in the morning, latest in the afternoon if got gathering or meeting. Then ask her out. Try to talk to her, as you said(you taught me), being calm and tell her.  |
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Nov 10 2006, 04:40 AM
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yalor, tell her straight u wanna spend time wif her. Sometimes gal are too dumb to get the hint that u wan spend time wif them.
i still remember my first date, couldnt sleep at nite coz too nervous. Its not exactly the first time i went out wif her alone, guess that time its filled wif love so very nervous lo. Tat time we are still friend, the most suitable time to confess my feeling but i didnt. Until now she keep teasing about how 'kayu' i am  This post has been edited by radical85: Nov 10 2006, 04:42 AM |
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Nov 10 2006, 08:36 AM
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Hehe.. you guys why so "kayu" wan. Meet girl only ma.
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Nov 10 2006, 09:02 AM
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QUOTE(quiksilver @ Nov 10 2006, 01:53 AM) hahahaha hey... dont be so frustrated. well, i know you have the right to be so. however, you should understand that she loves to serve God. hmmm... how about trying to talk nicely with her and work out some time together. well, a little bit of time is always better than nothing, right? I'm sure you guess will be able to find that slot in between, right? dont be so stressed up, or else, you wouldnt be able to think. just got into a fight with her...or shud i say argument? but there was no fighting...no arguments... she made a few mistakes and i cant help it, i am so disappointed it shows on my face...i dont want her to know.... she felt worried and apologized.... anyway, Miyoko.....nice plan....but nope....i wont be spending the weekend with her. im free, but not her. She cant make time for me. She has church on Sunday and youth activities on Saturday. yeah...always bz. no time for her bf. as if im always here in Msia... i wonder how its gonna be when we are no longer LDR. sorry....kinda sad now... yeah disappointed actually..... argghhh....f**k it. |
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Nov 10 2006, 09:20 AM
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Hmm.. morning..
I've been dreaming about my ex for 3 days straight.. got sweet dreams, got sad one as well.... |
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Nov 10 2006, 10:02 AM
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hhmm jdreamer me 2.. had dreams.. when only i will forget all this .. haiz its pain
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Nov 10 2006, 10:53 AM
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QUOTE(suiteng @ Nov 10 2006, 08:36 AM) Hehe.. you guys why so "kayu" wan. Meet girl only ma. Sometimes we easily get nervous ma..When during the courting process and when ppl start to date its like so very nice and wanna see each other always but after a period of time,things will start to kelam kabut and arguments and sorts will come out..Haih..sometimes i wonder why god create relationships this difficult.. This post has been edited by max_cjs0101: Nov 10 2006, 11:14 AM |
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Nov 10 2006, 11:34 AM
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God didnt create it to be difficult. it's human who make it difficult.
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Nov 10 2006, 11:45 AM
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Nov 10 2006, 11:34 AM) God didnt create it to be difficult. it's human who make it difficult. Probably lor..Haihz..Its really heartbreaking seeing so many ppl sad and at the same time thinking of your own problems oso.Anyway,how are you guys here? |
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Nov 10 2006, 11:59 AM
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distance relationship is really not easy. i had distance relationship before for half a year. but it still ends.. is really not easy...
erm... mostly people think is because of there mus b a 3rd person but in my case, we never fight before during the time we get together. she juz wan a break up. we broke up mainly is because her mother gave her the pressure that her mother don't like me and she dont like distance relationship. besides that, she is too young for any relationship... i told my parents and they kinda ok with it... until nw, we dun really contact much... may b because i am buzy with my studies as STPM is coming and oso she is kinda bz with her new life in Kota Kinabalu ( she live in Lahad Datu before she move to KK ). but i still miss her. i duno about my feelings but i still miss her much... |
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Nov 10 2006, 12:11 PM
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QUOTE(max_cjs0101 @ Nov 10 2006, 11:45 AM) Probably lor..Haihz..Its really heartbreaking seeing so many ppl sad and at the same time thinking of your own problems oso.Anyway,how are you guys here? hey, dont relate and connect other people's problem into your own relationship. it's dangerous and unhealthy to do that.i'm fine here. how about you? |
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Nov 10 2006, 12:12 PM
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yeah miyoko it right.. dont...
what happen to the i love u, u love me , soon we become happy family..???? now its like i love u, u love me and HIM..??? |
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Nov 10 2006, 12:16 PM
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hmm... too much of unhappy story here lately. Dont get too influenced by it. tell you guys some happy story.
I'll be meeting with my bf's parents again. so miss them. this time, they are coming over, instead of me going over there. they're gonna stay in my bf's house, of course. but i'll be meeting them. Weee~~!!! |
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