1) If the define "no future" as mean by the bf low ambition, then a lot of guys will be out. As many gals holding high positions nowadays.

2) If the define "no future" as mean by good guys characters such as financial control/saving, then I understand why she dump her bf.

My definition of successful man is:
A) Have good stable career and able feed the family, wife, to-be-children(good financial condition, does not have to be rich)
B) 2C(Caring for each other, Compatibility with each other)

Flower will fade with time. As long as both gal/guy care for each other and tolerate, relationship will last.
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder
If the rich guy does not do Donald Trump prenuptial agreement, then it should be good for the woman to enjoy.

dear all,

thanks for the strong response..... 

the purpose of creating this thread is to reflect my ownself actually..... i m still single and would like to date a chick with brain (like my friend in this thread for example), my belief are so long both of us can clique/click (i dunno how to spell it), can make her happy - not in monetary- then we are good to proceed to next level of relationship.... in fact, seems like I need the another factor, or most important factor, be a succesful person, which i m not  for now since i m just a freshie  who just started to work in a SME currently... 

dear all,

thanks for the strong response..... 

the purpose of creating this thread is to reflect my ownself actually..... i m still single and would like to date a chick with brain (like my friend in this thread for example), my belief are so long both of us can clique/click (i dunno how to spell it), can make her happy - not in monetary- then we are good to proceed to next level of relationship.... in fact, seems like I need the another factor, or most important factor, be a succesful person, which i m not  for now since i m just a freshie  who just started to work in a SME currently... 

you may say, " please pee and look at yourself in the pee" or who do you think you are or do you deserve this kind of gal?    well, i m just prefer and wish to date this kind of chick la.... i bet you do right??? not just me... xD

will provide more detail about my friend later, gona dig her news more... 
still live with parents, earn less than you , but trying his best to save money, and climbing up corporate ladder, is that ok with u? or is that consider a guy with good prospect????  not a succesful man yet... 
she felt she deserves better because of her beauty and intellectual.... what you say?
CIMB managmenet trainee yo, hard to enter ler.... and yes she is pretty, but sorry no drillz cause abit dangerous...

how is their life now? are they happy with it or they are just faking it? or you have no idea at all???

I think they are happy with the money and the comfort but i also think that most are insecure cos they opted to be tai tais.

lets put her situation in your shoe, will u dump your bf if you find him not going to be succesful ?

No i wouldnt. I chose my hubby over a rich boy when i was choosing a bf. best decision of my life.

or he is struggling to become succesful, but yet you already accomplished , like can afford to buy a house, earn more than him , etc-etc....

Until recently, we have both been struggling to survive in the adult world. But it was worst for him cause he needs to financially support his parents too.

dear all,

thanks for the strong response..... 

the purpose of creating this thread is to reflect my ownself actually..... i m still single and would like to date a chick with brain (like my friend in this thread for example), my belief are so long both of us can clique/click (i dunno how to spell it), can make her happy - not in monetary- then we are good to proceed to next level of relationship.... in fact, seems like I need the another factor, or most important factor, be a succesful person, which i m not  for now since i m just a freshie  who just started to work in a SME currently... 

you may say, " please pee and look at yourself in the pee" or who do you think you are or do you deserve this kind of gal?    well, i m just prefer and wish to date this kind of chick la.... i bet you do right??? not just me... xD

Successful men defned as edison chen

Successful must be leng chai like SC's Apek.

dear all,

thanks for the strong response..... 

the purpose of creating this thread is to reflect my ownself actually..... i m still single and would like to date a chick with brain (like my friend in this thread for example), my belief are so long both of us can clique/click (i dunno how to spell it), can make her happy - not in monetary- then we are good to proceed to next level of relationship.... in fact, seems like I need the another factor, or most important factor, be a succesful person, which i m not  for now since i m just a freshie  who just started to work in a SME currently... 

you may say, " please pee and look at yourself in the pee" or who do you think you are or do you deserve this kind of gal?    well, i m just prefer and wish to date this kind of chick la.... i bet you do right??? not just me... xD

will provide more detail about my friend later, gona dig her news more... 
still live with parents, earn less than you , but trying his best to save money, and climbing up corporate ladder, is that ok with u? or is that consider a guy with good prospect????  not a succesful man yet... 
she felt she deserves better because of her beauty and intellectual.... what you say?
CIMB managmenet trainee yo, hard to enter ler.... and yes she is pretty, but sorry no drillz cause abit dangerous...

I was thinking to reply this!!! A successful man must be LENG ZAI!!!

Also must have 3 boob?

not all girls dig that. 
you don't need to be a director to get a girlfriend nor you need to be rich to get one. But if you had shown any disrespect towards them, well, good luck be foreveralone.

if you want to date a model, can. Be sure to gauge yourself first. If you are not competent enough to date such people, then what you can do is DREAM ON.
Seriously get a gf which ask you to be loyal, sincere and be yourself is much more simpler. Despite all those behavior matching between you and your partner, and you still manage to get along, well that time you will know that she is the one.

you are a dude isnt it ? 

can you please elaborate more for (1) & (2)???

My definition of successful man is:
A) Have good stable career and able feed the family, wife, to-be-children(good financial condition, does not have to be rich)
B) 2C(Caring for each other, Compatibility with each other)

Guess, I've done that a few times already but they annoyed me. What other choice did I have?

cos they won't give you things you demanded from them? or practically they are just b!tches..?

Well sort of. 1 of them was hogging all the lab work which I wanted to do as well

attention seeker..