As per topic, how do you define successful man?

my friend dumped her bf because she think he have no future ... My friend was a "school flower" or prettiest gal back in secondary high, and today she is still pretty and working in CIMB management trainee..

Feel free to comment...


updated:

apparently, my friend dumped him cause he always laze around, couldnt bother to find a job after graduate.... have no idea what he wants or wat to achieve in life other than, enjoying life (like those college kids)... no offence to college kids, cause you are still studying, you do deserve to enjoy life for now....

so yeah, if were my friend, i also will dump him...


This post has been edited by siew14: Mar 19 2013, 08:36 PM

Wah, CIMB Management Traineee must be Quite Preety and with excellent academic results. Salary above average for the age group. So she feels that she is better than her bf / bf not good enough for her.

She is entitled to do so, we all have choices. So ask her to choose someone who can fit her criteria but be careful of karma, she can also get dumped next time.

Obviously, the girl have a strong future. Management Trainee in CIMB. That's a strong threshold.

I will describe a successful man as in financial stable and have a stable career. Earn a lot or less is just a number. Able to use the money wisely is an important issue. That's what I consider a successful. Also, able to maintain a good relations with friends and love ones are criteria for a successful man. That's what in my mind

trainee only, already put high status.

not even fully employed...

If she think she`s that good, prove it.

A successful man is always the man with deep pockets. But of course, with brains and attitude to keep the money growing and has the balls to kick any female leech out from his life.
Btw ts your friend may dump the man who she perceives as a loser, but any more 'successful' man that knew her case will perceive her as a sperm depositary aka human toilet.

Fixed. Don't say something so rude in the morning. Not good for health and reputation.

Thank you. Thank you. I'll be here all week.

In that case, pls edit your earlier post. Its very offensive and can be considered as inciting violence.

Karma will hit back one day. Nothing against anyone though

i know a few girls like ur friend, think they so great and mighthy, marry money & power so they can show off.

remind her that flowers have short life spans. she marries for money & status, he marries for her beauty. ten years down the line, when she has wrinkles, cellulite, love handles, spider veins etc, let's see if he still loves her.

If the guy really is useless and unambitious, I can't really blame her. At the same time, she shouldn't be too picky because it's going to get harder to find a partner as the years progress especially after leaving school. The guy doesn't necessarily need to be rich (although it helps), just compatible, loving and has ambition. Lastly, she needs to remember that beauty fades and she's just a trainee.

Most probably not, but always remember that our court system are getting more women oriented by time. Went through Tropicana City Mall on Sat just to see many bays were changed into pink with 'Ladies only' label. In this growing feminism now, women are sacred creatures while we men are disposables.

So if the rich bugger wanted to trade up, he will think twice or else he will be risking his hard earned money over that wrinkly, cellulite ridden bag of bones because she knew that she can still get him to pay after a divorce.

This post has been edited by MishimaZ: Mar 18 2013, 10:33 AM

Like the cat lady in the simpsons? Hehe

i guess for guys that are afraid of women cashing in after divorce, dont get married in the first place! it is a modern world, nothing bad about wanting to live a bachelor's life.

i agree about the growing trend of feminism. but how a women takes it is individual. i do not believe i am sacred and i do not believe men are disposable. My father is a man, my brothers are men, my husband is a man and i value them as much as i value my own life.

however i do believe that in certain segments of society women do not have the same bargaining power as a gal like me and they do need some extra protection. By certain segments i mean the poor, where women are brought up without education, without the freedom to choose and without self worth.

Well if the girl dump the bf for future reasoning then good luck on her fortune telling la.

As far as I am concern, bf & gf need to tag team together to be successful.

Milf
Some pipul are suitable for you and some are not right for you. A rich man maybe poor someday and a poor one can be rich someday. Likewise, a rich may remain rich and poor remain poor. Anything goes.

In all my life I've done really crazy and stupid stuff,however your dear friend just took the crown..

fixed.

A successful man should be without any financial woes and a partner who back him up in times of needs.
If her ex is successful than her one day, i think she will cry and regret one day she made a stupid decision by dumping him.

wont 1 la, by the time the ex sucessful she already marry to 1 dato that going to die soon. waiting to split harta riao