1) If the define "no future" as mean by the bf low ambition, then a lot of guys will be out. As many gals holding high positions nowadays.

2) If the define "no future" as mean by good guys characters such as financial control/saving, then I understand why she dump her bf.

My definition of successful man is:
A) Have good stable career and able feed the family, wife, to-be-children(good financial condition, does not have to be rich)
B) 2C(Caring for each other, Compatibility with each other)

Flower will fade with time. As long as both gal/guy care for each other and tolerate, relationship will last.
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder

If the rich guy does not do Donald Trump prenuptial agreement, then it should be good for the woman to enjoy.

1) If the define "no future" as mean by the bf low ambition, then a lot of guys will be out. As many gals holding high positions nowadays.
Many policies and laws are tailored towards women currently. More women study at universities compared to guys. There is one thread on CC that ask about whether women consider guy education level first before entering the relationship with guy. Ambition is the key here, if the guy does not make plan for future(such as prepare for marriage after in a stable relationship), I wont be surprise gal will dump such guy for other better guy out there. Planning for both gal/guy future together, such as buy house, etc.

2) If the define "no future" as mean by good guys characters such as financial control/saving, then I understand why she dump her bf.
There is a saying that goes "My money is my money, your money is my money." If guy cannot even feed his own other half, what will make the guy able to feed the whole family? The guy does not have to be rich, just good at saving money time and again. Also caring and trust each other. See below for good guys characters.



This post has been edited by Ketchum: Mar 19 2013, 09:50 AM