QUOTE(razorboy @ Oct 25 2011, 11:44 AM)
you are in a position that you're able to let the weights do the talking. I have a thick skin. But guys that just start out, they are always concerned about this kind of things. In the gym, unless you're confident to hold your own, the newer guys will always succumb to wanting to looking macho, lift heavy ass weight without any concern. I've always had problems with my shoulder to begin with, so I had to find out and understood a lot about training safely. And I've been thick faced all my life. but i'd be lying if my ego never once came into mind.
hmm, after a moment to reflect, i would agree to this. the new guys in the gym have this mentality where they have to fit in. hell, when i first started i was doing random things on machines, not even daring to step on the freeweights area.
to actually enter a free weights area where everyone else is doing more weights than you and still be confident enough to hold up on your own is pretty courageous imo. especially if you are a female.
i got lucky. i was literally dragged into the free weights by my gym buddies when they saw me fooling around with the machines. if it werent for them, progress for me would be much slower than it is atm.
and to those trying to be macho by doing heavy ass weights without proper form, dont. there are people who will lift heavier than you, with better form, and with more reps. always. its how you look that matters, not the weight you lift.
of course this doesnt apply to powerlifters, lol.