QUOTE(furryfluffy @ May 9 2011, 11:15 AM)
Go to Registrar of Civil Marriages.
Fill in form. Pay a fee. Wait 30 days.
Get witnesses. Sign papers.
Done.
yup.Fill in form. Pay a fee. Wait 30 days.
Get witnesses. Sign papers.
Done.
Marriage between Buddhist and Christian, How ?
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May 9 2011, 06:22 PM
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May 9 2011, 06:27 PM
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QUOTE(debbieyss @ May 9 2011, 06:01 PM) And you yourselves do not know which side you are supporting. Here you support TS to marry the gf, the other hand you ask TS not to "unequally yoked". i believe you misunderstood me. please read again. mystand is the exactly same as your except that i am against judging others. as we ourselves are not perfect so who are we to judge others.I'm just emphasizing Angelina to accept one another, not to be so judgmental and push them to accept Christ, is it that hard to understand? You are nit-picking my words, you aren't reading the meaning between the lines. also, please note: i said. i will never understand that verse and NOT we should follow what it says. This post has been edited by blinkindik: May 9 2011, 06:32 PM |
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May 9 2011, 06:29 PM
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Ts just go & ask either temple for the marriage arrangement or church?
As i'm a Christian myself and i did go to temple for marriage registration then only i go for a church blessings. I didn't force my hubby into become a christian as we can't force our partner to convert just for the sake of marriage. Normally Temple & Church allow for mixed marriage. Last time when i was in KL, my hubby register at Then Hou Temple and then i ask for blessing at any Roman Catholic Church i choose. Most of my friend also hv done it without any problem. Just ask properly which temple u are choosing or church ur gf were. Good Luck This post has been edited by heron: May 9 2011, 06:31 PM |
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May 9 2011, 06:33 PM
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May 9 2011, 06:37 PM
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QUOTE(debbieyss @ May 9 2011, 06:01 PM) And you yourselves do not know which side you are supporting. Here you support TS to marry the gf, the other hand you ask TS not to "unequally yoked". I'm just emphasizing Angelina to accept one another, not to be so judgmental and push them to accept Christ, is it that hard to understand? You are nit-picking my words, you aren't reading the meaning between the lines. |
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May 9 2011, 06:39 PM
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QUOTE(heron @ May 9 2011, 06:29 PM) Ts just go & ask either temple for the marriage arrangement or church? Roman Catholic can accept mixed marriage as long both of them go through the wedding course. but for protestant or angelican or etc, i do not know...As i'm a Christian myself and i did go to temple for marriage registration then only i go for a church blessings. I didn't force my hubby into become a christian as we can't force our partner to convert just for the sake of marriage. Normally Temple & Church allow for mixed marriage. Last time when i was in KL, my hubby register at Then Hou Temple and then i ask for blessing at any Roman Catholic Church i choose. Most of my friend also hv done it without any problem. Just ask properly which temple u are choosing or church ur gf were. Good Luck |
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May 9 2011, 06:40 PM
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QUOTE(areszues92 @ May 9 2011, 04:35 PM) I guess only way is marry liao, tolerate each other. She pray to Guan Yin no need burn josstick, I burn, but i have to go church every sunday lo. My children then how? What will their religion be? u pray ur guan yin she pray her jesus la ... then u can accompany her go sunday church ma.. doesnt mean u go u are christain ma... ur kid sure follow u laa u father ma zzz |
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May 9 2011, 06:40 PM
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May 9 2011, 06:44 PM
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this thing got me thinking. why must we be oblige to have a religion? to think about it maybe religion is a system of belief. something the human race believe in to explain what their knowledge cannot comprehend. hence believing in a higher being.
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May 9 2011, 06:59 PM
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QUOTE(blinkindik @ May 9 2011, 06:44 PM) this thing got me thinking. why must we be oblige to have a religion? to think about it maybe religion is a system of belief. something the human race believe in to explain what their knowledge cannot comprehend. hence believing in a higher being. agree....we are in a religion so that we could be guided to be the right path but we cannot be controlled by it... |
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QUOTE(GentleGiant @ May 9 2011, 06:59 PM) agree....we are in a religion so that we could be guided to be the right path but we cannot be controlled by it... +1people getting controlled by religion does not know what they are doing at all...they just follow blindly.... To be asking about this problem means you are not even mature enough to think on your own nor you know why you are into that religion in the first place. Once you have registered with registrar of marriage, you are already legally married. Going to church or temple is just a ceremony. You can opt not to do that at all. Why? Scared god will send you to hell for not getting HIS consent? You will be in separate hell anyway..one is buddhist hell and another christian hell... |
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May 9 2011, 07:19 PM
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QUOTE(debbieyss @ May 9 2011, 04:31 PM) I don't like christian like you. You are very judgmental. I am not being judgmental. Rather I feel like I am being judged You are one of the Christian that do NOT look like Christ. Initially I just wanted to type 1-line paragraph and leave it as it is but to avoid causing more misunderstandings, I would elaborate a little bit more. Don't you think you shouldn't push others to accept Christ before you first accept them as who they are? If you yourselves do not show love and accept them as who they are, who are you to ask them to believe Christ? It's just like: hey why are you using company's photostat machine to print your personal document? It's a kind of stealing - but you yourselves are using company phone to make personal phone calls. And I REPEAT, love human, not sins. I am not pushing people to accept Jesus Christ, but let them know about Christian doctrines. How can a man love someone without knowing the other person's religion? If you do not want to accept Jesus, then Jesus won't stop you, but certainly he loves you. People underestimate how much Jesus loves them |
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May 9 2011, 07:26 PM
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1) I love christianity and buddhism and what they teach.
2) I didn't love so much was some of the hypocrites that keep pushing ppl to believe in them.. I didn't sign up for this. Everyone has their right to believe in what they want. Don't keep on saying yours is right others is wrong.. to be honest all are right! not a single religion tells u to do wrong things in this life.. btw, I'm christian on paper LOL! But I'm more inclined to buddhism to be my way of life now I enjoy going to temples, seems to bring me more peace than .... P.S: coz u know why; or see item 2) above dont tase me bro! |
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May 9 2011, 07:30 PM
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QUOTE(blinkindik @ May 9 2011, 05:44 PM) this thing got me thinking. why must we be oblige to have a religion? to think about it maybe religion is a system of belief. something the human race believe in to explain what their knowledge cannot comprehend. hence believing in a higher being. Human beings are being created to love God foremost. This is the fundamental principle of life, fulfilling the purpose of Creation.When a person deeply truly realises how great God is, he/she cannot stop talking about it (e.g., the majesty of His Creation) God is our Creator who gave us birth so we a human being must honor Him. This is a simple truth that needs no explanation. Marriage is a blessing of God as a gift - it is joy in the Lord. It needs the permission of God. It is okay to be rejected by people, but if I am rejected by God, my life is meaningless. |
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May 9 2011, 07:35 PM
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May 9 2011, 07:40 PM
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QUOTE(NelsonBoy @ May 9 2011, 09:56 AM) I am a buddhist. My gf a christian. And more importantly, God cannot accept this marriage. We never think of this until lately. How do we get married ? Any opinion is welcome It is written clearly in the Bible. The reason why I am mentioning this is for the girl's concern. If you do not convert, she will bear guilt for marrying you for the rest of her life. Because it is against God's will in accordance with Christian Principles. If you really love her, you will need to consider her as a whole. |
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May 9 2011, 07:41 PM
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QUOTE(Angela Lee @ May 9 2011, 07:40 PM) And more importantly, God cannot accept this marriage. Oh oh, there goes my marriage to xtian women...It is written clearly in the Bible. The reason why I am mentioning this is for the girl's concern. If you do not convert, she will bear guilt for marrying you for the rest of her life. Because it is against God's will in accordance with Christian Principles. If you really love her, you will need to consider her as a whole. |
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May 9 2011, 08:00 PM
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QUOTE(GentleGiant @ May 9 2011, 06:39 PM) Roman Catholic can accept mixed marriage as long both of them go through the wedding course. but for protestant or angelican or etc, i do not know... well, they will accept the mixed marriage but the children will have to be a Roman Catholic. I was in the same situation as TS and in the end the relationship was broken because my parents were against it. Mine is just an example of how things go wrong..someone else may have a different ending. |
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May 9 2011, 08:07 PM
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May 9 2011, 08:07 PM
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If you wan to get married you get married. Whats the problem?
I got friends from different faith that got married. One go to church another doesn't. As long as they dun force each other, so there is no problem |
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