if you don have financial issue, no family issue... go for both ceremonies...

i'm not sure about others
but my family mostly christian
and during wedding ceremony also have to kneel down and serve tea one lor
serving tea is a tradition
nothing to do with religion one

my family a lot of uncles aunties married non-christian
but no problem one
so it really depends on the individual
some of my cousins go to church
some don't

This post has been edited by amy_jacinth: May 9 2011, 11:56 AM

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.. uncles aunties from old generation.

new generation very picky now. everything also sin sin sin.. sinner.. repent. the L.O.M. will cast upon you his wrath and all non-believers if u dare to step foot in the church as a sinner.

going to church or not is one thing. when the topic of marriage comes, all the best to your family and extension families ya

but uptil now still no problem for my family

don't know, but after joining LYN only i realised the people outside got so many problems
all these while my life very peaceful one
didn't know people got so many problems one

says the girl born with a silver spoon in mouth, spoiled since young and never hold any true responsibility and/or commitments. i'd like to welcome u to the real world but i prefer to see u stir in the pot while it's boiling - way more fun that way.

do check back with me later this year once u find a real job.

erhmm.. the whole family christian? or only she? (sry dint really read the whole posts)
you hv to consider both side parents yours and her's, what type of ceremony they prefer? best if they say up to both of you. that narrows down the problem.

and u cannot enter church meh? church wedding are nice too..i dont remember need to go temple pun? if got also is pray at your house ma.i hv frens couple where either 1 is christian & another is buddhist.. no issue also.if the gal/guy cant hold jossstick then just bow down laaa. including me no issue at all.. dun use religion as an excuse.. it's who can bertolak ansur.


p/s sometimes it's best both of you decide what's best and what you guys want.. some aunties/uncles love to kepo kepo and add fire...

I don't think you understand what this phrase means.

nothing impossible .. unless u / her were muslim

Born into a wealthy family.. go to 14th floor now pls

People who have had peaceful family relations are not necessarily wealthy.

hahaha agree

wei.. u wan the meaning right? kns. go bk 2d hole u crawl out from. kthxbye.

No problem at all

TS think too much .... just do it .... you can pray as normal she can still go to church on Sunday .. you also can join to Church as well ... and she also can visit temple

Praying to ancestor is just a respect to the elderspraying to respective god subject to individual believe

If your gf is a conservative thinking Christian. She will eventually ask you to join her church service. I bet she wants to get marry in church. You better ask her opinion on this la. She will be the one to answer this question sooner or later. Find a fine day, sit down and joke with her about her marriage plan. lol

its all depends on both parties....if both party love each other, they will not make religion as issue. (but muslim diff case, you must convert)...

some parents will come into the picture and make a big hoo ha... just take it easy..sit down with her and discuss about this..if you really seriously planning to move on and marrying her...

Xtians... mostly are narrow minded pest that wanna convert people into like them.... cannot question anything etc.
they even convert those deathbed patients....

Resistance is futile... u will b assimilated.

we cannot say christians are like that...somes are not...

You must learn about Christian principles and become a Christian.
The first thing you should do is to learn about the Bible and believe in Jesus Christ.
Receive Jesus' love first and save your spirit so that you can go to Heaven.
This is very important !

seems like here is getting more like religious talk...

then angela..why not you learn about buddisth principles too ??

Evangelical pest spotted

prepare to be assimilated to become the narrow minded non questioning drone.