agree... we are here to discuss and see how to over come it..and not siding one party only...

Ask yourself, can you convert to Christian. If not, then be ready to break up. Even if she can accept, her family and relatives WILL NOT accept you. Do you want a marriage without blessing? It's awful. Just to tell you, this happened to me once before, and I ended up with the latter option I gave to you.

Xtians.... don't play play with them...

they r like a group of zombies wanna feast on you just that they look like humans....

once masuk trap, forever menyesal

Absolutely. Marriage must be blessed by God; otherwise, it is against God's law.
I witnessed many relationships are broken down because of cross-marriage.
People think what I say is evangelical and I do admit that. But what I say is also true.
Christians values are to put God and Jesus Christ first in their life; you will soon find a lot of values clashes and find understanding each other hard. How can this marriage be a blessed one?

Why do you both hv to be refrained by religious?

i seen this situation before...the girl go ahead with the marriage... once a child is born, all is being forgiven..and now the guy is the father in law best friend...even sayang the son in law more then the daughter..

although religion play a part too but not in many cases...i also seen cases that the hubby is a buddisth, the wife is a christian...he is so supportive on the wife church activity and the wife also respect him on his buddisth activity...so is all based on mutual respect

damn, i'm under Guan Yin...I can't marry christian women without converting? Darn...

Buddisth is not a religion, is a way of life...is up to you...

still can get married in church just that it wouldn't be a full blessing only..

isnt it a sin to curse a marriage between to loving soul?

take that

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Added on May 9, 2011, 4:19 pmno need convert ler...

This post has been edited by ImUrDaddY: May 9 2011, 04:19 PM

then weird lo, got Guan Yin altar and christian cross at my house. Can i marry xtian girl at hotel/restaurant?

This post has been edited by areszues92: May 9 2011, 04:25 PM

you can marry christian girl in any location

I guess only way is marry liao, tolerate each other. She pray to Guan Yin no need burn josstick, I burn, but i have to go church every sunday lo. My children then how? What will their religion be?

she is not hardcore xtian. her family is free thinker.

but my family is hardcore buddhist.

cham

I don't like christian like you. You are very judgmental.

You are one of the Christian that do NOT look like Christ.

Initially I just wanted to type 1-line paragraph and leave it as it is but to avoid causing more misunderstandings, I would elaborate a little bit more.

Don't you think you shouldn't push others to accept Christ before you first accept them as who they are? If you yourselves do not show love and accept them as who they are, who are you to ask them to believe Christ? It's just like: hey why are you using company's photostat machine to print your personal document? It's a kind of stealing - but you yourselves are using company phone to make personal phone calls.

And I REPEAT, love human, not sins.

This post has been edited by debbieyss: May 9 2011, 05:42 PM

Christian that do NOT look like christ? I bet barely anyone looks like Christ. hahaha. im not even sure what Jesus himself looks like.
But thats just him opinion la. cut him/her some slack.

To Ts: I believe you may still have your wedding in a church although you are a non christian. i mean if her church allows that. different types of churches uphold different types of.. what do we call this.. laws? As for being a christian, its totally up to you. according to the bible, accepting christ is totally up to you. its not like muslim, if you marry a muslim you MUST be a muslim.

so my advice is just keep an open mind. as long as you love her and she love you... why not?
but the bible say do not be unequally yolked too. i will never get that verse.

I mean the character, not the outward appearance, ok.

This post has been edited by debbieyss: May 9 2011, 05:51 PM

oh you mean christ-like? noones perfect like him. so yeah.

This post has been edited by blinkindik: May 9 2011, 05:53 PM

I find no words to explain to you.

And you yourselves do not know which side you are supporting. Here you support TS to marry the gf, the other hand you ask TS not to "unequally yoked".

I'm just emphasizing Angelina to accept one another, not to be so judgmental and push them to accept Christ, is it that hard to understand? You are nit-picking my words, you aren't reading the meaning between the lines.