+1

people getting controlled by religion does not know what they are doing at all...they just follow blindly....

To be asking about this problem means you are not even mature enough to think on your own nor you know why you are into that religion in the first place.

Once you have registered with registrar of marriage, you are already legally married. Going to church or temple is just a ceremony. You can opt not to do that at all. Why? Scared god will send you to hell for not getting HIS consent? You will be in separate hell anyway..one is buddhist hell and another christian hell...