I am a buddhist. My gf a christian.

We never think of this until lately.

How do we get married ?

Any opinion is welcome

I dunno about this one...

But some couples I know - they married in both ways as well. Unless families restriction... that one is hard...

i got one classmate b4 , his father is hindu , mother is christian , each respect each.

just go register la
is only that if one party is not christian
then cannot married in church

i cannot go church and marry.

she cannot go temple and marry.

so how !!!

Go to Registrar of Civil Marriages.

Fill in form. Pay a fee. Wait 30 days.

Get witnesses. Sign papers.

Done.

+1

Simple as well.

as per ur thread, she follows u. Religion same wise. Unless u can denounced ur religion.
actually i think religion is just an excuse for some folks.. my ex boss married. he is a buddhist n his home has the 4-face buddha.. his wife is an angelican christian.. but they are loving each other just like normal couple.

this is legal process.

what i mean is after that.

After that you are legally married. How u want to carry out ur ceremony is up to u.

If both parties cant compromise, no point getting married.

after that the ceremony depends on you la
you want to do the traditional ceremony like at home serve teas to parents
or you want go hotel treat makan
or you want do it in resort
or whatever la

why cannot get married?

But seriously - you can do both.

If your other does not mind at all, at least can experience two different weddings. I have seen couples do that. Its the question of if your other approve... and also, families...

Don't worry. Your gf will slowly brainwash you to Christian

I think marry in church is dream for most of the Christian girl.
Is hard to accept by Christian girl if they got to kneel down and serve tea for their mother and father in law, and hold joss sticks to pray her husband's ancestors.
But I think is not a big deal for Buddha guy to marry in church. (Think positively, you can save the "Ping kam" money for your honeymoon too.)

Marry with both ceremonies.

Winrar!

u not kisstian?
for sure u will go to hell

It depends a lot on the christian side espcially on the family on whether they can accept.

But as others said, she will most likely brainwash you to christianity.

if she is staunch christian and u nid to convert, good luck cos if not when she marry u, she is marrying the devil n she will go to hell. u dunno.

if she is easy-going and relative/friends that pressure the convert etc.. congratulation

Not to say something bad, but from wht is saw, most of the christian keep asking people join christian like keep pulling to their religion. for me actual all religion is good 1, no matter hindu, buddist or what, as long as wont harm people, good to people then good d. i remember i got read an article state that world best religion is Buddist.

If ur gf really love u she wont care. if her parent really love their children, the most important thing is is the guy is a good guy or bad guy this only the most important thing. If a religious people an is a big bandit this consider good oso?

TS, i feel you, I been through that path also.

I teach you what to do: you go back and ask your gf, does she sure she will FOREVER put her faith in God and will not turn backslide?

Ask her, if you accepted Christ now, and one day after married, you don't want to become a christian already, does that mean she will divorce you?

Ask her, does she know there are many pastors that actually got affairs with another women? I mean, these are famous pastors in U.S.

When you have finally known what does love mean, you will love him entirely, love him for who he is. Love covers all sins.