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 Marriage between Buddhist and Christian, How ?

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GentleGiant
post May 9 2011, 02:01 PM

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its all depends on both parties....if both party love each other, they will not make religion as issue. (but muslim diff case, you must convert)...

some parents will come into the picture and make a big hoo ha... just take it easy..sit down with her and discuss about this..if you really seriously planning to move on and marrying her...
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post May 9 2011, 02:07 PM

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QUOTE(RapidFlow @ May 9 2011, 02:04 PM)
Xtians... mostly are narrow minded pest that wanna convert people into like them.... cannot question anything etc.
they even convert those deathbed patients....

Resistance is futile... u will b assimilated.
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we cannot say christians are like that...somes are not...
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post May 9 2011, 02:15 PM

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seems like here is getting more like religious talk...

then angela..why not you learn about buddisth principles too ??
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post May 9 2011, 02:21 PM

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QUOTE(RapidFlow @ May 9 2011, 02:18 PM)
Evangelical pest spotted

prepare to be assimilated to become the narrow minded non questioning drone.
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agree... we are here to discuss and see how to over come it..and not siding one party only...
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post May 9 2011, 03:24 PM

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QUOTE(Angela Lee @ May 9 2011, 03:13 PM)
Absolutely. Marriage must be blessed by God; otherwise, it is against God's law.
I witnessed many relationships are broken down because of cross-marriage.
People think what I say is evangelical and I do admit that. But what I say is also true.
Christians values are to put God and Jesus Christ first in their life; you will soon find a lot of values clashes and find understanding each other hard. How can this marriage be a blessed one?
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i seen this situation before...the girl go ahead with the marriage... once a child is born, all is being forgiven..and now the guy is the father in law best friend...even sayang the son in law more then the daughter..

although religion play a part too but not in many cases...i also seen cases that the hubby is a buddisth, the wife is a christian...he is so supportive on the wife church activity and the wife also respect him on his buddisth activity...so is all based on mutual respect
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post May 9 2011, 03:34 PM

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QUOTE(areszues92 @ May 9 2011, 03:32 PM)
damn, i'm under Guan Yin...I can't marry christian women without converting? Darn...
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Buddisth is not a religion, is a way of life...is up to you...smile.gif
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post May 9 2011, 04:30 PM

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QUOTE(areszues92 @ May 9 2011, 04:22 PM)
then weird lo, got Guan Yin altar and christian cross at my house. Can i marry xtian girl at hotel/restaurant?
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you can marry christian girl in any location
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post May 9 2011, 06:39 PM

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QUOTE(heron @ May 9 2011, 06:29 PM)
Ts just go & ask either temple for the marriage arrangement or church?

As i'm a Christian myself and i did go to temple for marriage registration then only i go for a church blessings.

I didn't force my hubby into become a christian as we can't force our partner to convert just for the sake of marriage.

Normally Temple & Church allow for mixed marriage.

Last time when i was in KL, my hubby register at Then Hou Temple and then i ask for blessing at any Roman Catholic Church i choose.

Most of my friend also hv done it without any problem. Just ask properly which temple u are choosing or church ur gf were.

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Roman Catholic can accept mixed marriage as long both of them go through the wedding course. but for protestant or angelican or etc, i do not know...
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post May 9 2011, 06:40 PM

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QUOTE(blinkindik @ May 9 2011, 06:33 PM)
so we can be a Buddhist and a muslim at the same time? ahhh. interesting.
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you can be a muslim and learn about buddistism... or be a buddisth and learn about quran...
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post May 9 2011, 06:59 PM

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QUOTE(blinkindik @ May 9 2011, 06:44 PM)
this thing got me thinking. why must we be oblige to have a religion? to think about it maybe religion is a system of belief. something the human race believe in to explain what their knowledge cannot comprehend. hence believing in a higher being.
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agree....we are in a religion so that we could be guided to be the right path but we cannot be controlled by it...

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