when she comes beggin for you, i bet ur gonna take her back.
Just broke up with my 7 yrs gf, don't really feel sad......
Just broke up with my 7 yrs gf, don't really feel sad......
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Mar 31 2011, 02:36 AM
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when she comes beggin for you, i bet ur gonna take her back.
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Mar 31 2011, 07:49 AM
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Wah, TS you can stand her attitude for 7 yrs?! salute
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Mar 31 2011, 07:55 AM
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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Mar 31 2011, 02:26 AM) why dont you marry me then, sayang. he still have to do it.. but its for himself lai gerenttee to wash your taifu for you, cook for you, massage you and hug you to sleep every night Added on March 31, 2011, 2:27 am i bet the first thing he does after waking up is to clean the toilet, clean kitchen, make breakfast and coffee, do laundry etc. now he is free, no need to do all those shit! |
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Mar 31 2011, 08:43 AM
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QUOTE(tempxyz @ Mar 30 2011, 10:25 PM) she replied 'why you always complain me, best we seperate',then she packed her stuff and went home today she left u bro.u forget one thing, she let u fvck for 7 years. |
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Mar 31 2011, 09:39 AM
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QUOTE(tempxyz @ Mar 30 2011, 10:25 PM) Just broken up with my 7 yrs gf. Live in my house for 5-6 yrs, seldom hlp with house work (I think only help less than 20 times in 7 yrs), we ware planning to get marry this yr, thus I've spent around 130K to upgrade our hse and she doesn't spend anything. Moreover after arrive home always ask me to do misc task (sitting there ask me go down stairs take water, etc...), and I always pick up her mess. She just went HK, said want to look for our wedding ring as its cheaper there, I'm not rich so I told her you can get anything 2000 and below, whereas for mine, just around 100+ enough (as I don't really care about jewelry), but she didn't manage to find it. Just came home frm HK yesterday, and today as usual she left her things everywhere after using it, I just said 'haiyo why you so 'mou sau mei' (always didn't put back things after you use it), she replied 'why you always complain me, best we seperate',then she packed her stuff and went home today.....funny though I don't feel that sad, infact thinking if I ended up marrying her it may not be good for me also (a person who live in my hse for free and never contribute anything, still complaining regularly, and never supported anything I do), well it's ok if she goes........but nd to find new g/f again also sien, well better focus on my job, nowadays girls all 'ada wang, ada amoi', you wanna get girls like in the movie, that'll be with you during sunny and rainy day and support whatever you do? forget it i guess.... how come sound like my story (but not the end part that she chaos....)?!!!! |
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Mar 31 2011, 10:05 AM
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Mar 31 2011, 10:38 AM
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move on TS...girls are not everything.
u might think that 7 years of relationship end up like this might be a waste,everything,money,time spend with her all gone. but hey,if those thing could ex-change with your own happy life...why not rite? p/s: sorry for my poor england |
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Mar 31 2011, 10:42 AM
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QUOTE(tempxyz @ Mar 30 2011, 10:25 PM) Just broken up with my 7 yrs gf. Live in my house for 5-6 yrs, seldom hlp with house work (I think only help less than 20 times in 7 yrs), we ware planning to get marry this yr, thus I've spent around 130K to upgrade our hse and she doesn't spend anything. Moreover after arrive home always ask me to do misc task (sitting there ask me go down stairs take water, etc...), and I always pick up her mess. She just went HK, said want to look for our wedding ring as its cheaper there, I'm not rich so I told her you can get anything 2000 and below, whereas for mine, just around 100+ enough (as I don't really care about jewelry), but she didn't manage to find it. Just came home frm HK yesterday, and today as usual she left her things everywhere after using it, I just said 'haiyo why you so 'mou sau mei' (always didn't put back things after you use it), she replied 'why you always complain me, best we seperate',then she packed her stuff and went home today.....funny though I don't feel that sad, infact thinking if I ended up marrying her it may not be good for me also (a person who live in my hse for free and never contribute anything, still complaining regularly, and never supported anything I do), well it's ok if she goes........but nd to find new g/f again also sien, well better focus on my job, nowadays girls all 'ada wang, ada amoi', you wanna get girls like in the movie, that'll be with you during sunny and rainy day and support whatever you do? forget it i guess.... You don't feel sad or anything because deep inside, you KNOW you made the right choice.Added on March 31, 2011, 10:45 am QUOTE(uest91 @ Mar 31 2011, 12:03 AM) Even if you buy a wife from Vietname, she will appreciate you more like my relative's friend. This one I agree 100%. I also wanna get a Vietnamese hawt wife actually, but I dunno where to find.He bought a wife from Vietname, very kind and good, take care of the man and family very well. This post has been edited by spanker: Mar 31 2011, 10:45 AM |
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Mar 31 2011, 11:06 AM
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QUOTE(dvinez @ Mar 31 2011, 09:43 AM) hahahaha, this you no need say. That's why TS no feel sad.btw, that girl not worth la. So ignorant, a lot prob sure will come sooner. Later your parents also sad because of her attitude then your headache some more. Now you are busy with work & house work, later got kids how? I scare you'll go 14th floor. Added on March 31, 2011, 11:06 am QUOTE(spanker @ Mar 31 2011, 11:42 AM) You don't feel sad or anything because deep inside, you KNOW you made the right choice. from agent.Added on March 31, 2011, 10:45 am This one I agree 100%. I also wanna get a Vietnamese hawt wife actually, but I dunno where to find. This post has been edited by shinkawa: Mar 31 2011, 11:06 AM |
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Mar 31 2011, 11:11 AM
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congratulation and good luck !
These days gals think life is theirs,where as it should be "OURS" .. always must compromise .. compromise... |
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Mar 31 2011, 11:15 AM
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U will realise one day and say to urself "Thank God I didnt marry her".
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Mar 31 2011, 11:37 AM
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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Mar 31 2011, 02:26 AM) why dont you marry me then, sayang. hahaha not to that extend, I only do them on weakends. Anyway with or without gf still nd to do is't it??i gerenttee to wash your taifu for you, cook for you, massage you and hug you to sleep every night Added on March 31, 2011, 2:27 am i bet the first thing he does after waking up is to clean the toilet, clean kitchen, make breakfast and coffee, do laundry etc. now he is free, no need to do all those shit! |
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Mar 31 2011, 11:37 AM
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QUOTE(dvinez @ Mar 31 2011, 08:43 AM) you make it sound like she gets not fun out of it at all. its a 2 way thing. not 1 way.btw, TS, Its good to know that you are looking at the positive side of things. And you are right. Its definitely better to breakup that get a divorce. A breakup, however bad it is, is still just a breakup. But a divorce is a completely different story, however peaceful it may be. wishing you the best in your future. *although ada wang ada amoi is definitely true, don't look for one who is just after you wang. |
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Mar 31 2011, 11:40 AM
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It's a good decision but it took you 7 years to make that happen?
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Mar 31 2011, 11:41 AM
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Mar 31 2011, 11:54 AM
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Mar 31 2011, 02:09 PM
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@tempxyz
same ending with me...different storyline though....for me its 11 yrs...not 7 yrs....and u know what....many blame it on coz we dated too long n didn't get married....shouldn't date too long.....i somewhat agree to this point coz i also observe some of my buddies reaching the same conclusion...but they're better off...they found a new one n tied the knot...now live happily... for 7 yrs and u could tolerate is coz TS only mentioned the negative part....omitted the positive part or good points of her...sure have some good points wan otherwise won't wait for 7yrs....no matter how tolerant a person u are... maybe not now...for now u feel free...happy due to good riddance...give u few months down the road...u will feel empty, sad, lonely..the thought of missing her comes back to haunt u....prolly by then u open up another thread here with different topic but then like u and me...at this age, with work commitments and all...is kinda hard to start going thru all the courting, dating stuffs.....for me, it's kinda tiring or lazy d....too bad this is not something that can buy off the shelf......is the thinking that ocassionally comes to mind lol.... good luck in finding a better one soon....i sincerely hope so. @spanker best place is to search in the origin which is in vietnam itself....could arrange a trip for 3 of us eh....if TS also interested....i'd like an opportunity to..urm...observe...if the claims of many are true. |
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Mar 31 2011, 02:14 PM
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Mar 31 2011, 05:09 PM
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yes it's true..vietnam girls are cute. My ex-company, they boss went to vietnam for business but end up got a mistress. The boss is married and looks like a decent guy. But I guess all men can't stand the temptation of a cutie Vietnamese girl.
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If what you said about her is true, then I'm happy for you.
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