you make it sound like she gets not fun out of it at all. its a 2 way thing. not 1 way.

btw, TS,

Its good to know that you are looking at the positive side of things. And you are right. Its definitely better to breakup that get a divorce. A breakup, however bad it is, is still just a breakup. But a divorce is a completely different story, however peaceful it may be.

wishing you the best in your future.

*although ada wang ada amoi is definitely true, don't look for one who is just after you wang.