QUOTE(whatwhatwhat @ Mar 31 2011, 06:20 PM)
now at night cannot fvck anymore..i feel sad for u TS..
ts should take some rest 
Just broke up with my 7 yrs gf, don't really feel sad......
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 Mar 31 2011, 06:41 PM
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Mar 31 2011, 06:45 PM
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gud luck finding new gf bro...
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Mar 31 2011, 06:56 PM
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QUOTE(tempxyz @ Mar 30 2011, 10:25 PM) Just broken up with my 7 yrs gf. Live in my house for 5-6 yrs, seldom hlp with house work (I think only help less than 20 times in 7 yrs), we ware planning to get marry this yr, thus I've spent around 130K to upgrade our hse and she doesn't spend anything. Moreover after arrive home always ask me to do misc task (sitting there ask me go down stairs take water, etc...), and I always pick up her mess. She just went HK, said want to look for our wedding ring as its cheaper there, I'm not rich so I told her you can get anything 2000 and below, whereas for mine, just around 100+ enough (as I don't really care about jewelry), but she didn't manage to find it. Just came home frm HK yesterday, and today as usual she left her things everywhere after using it, I just said 'haiyo why you so 'mou sau mei' (always didn't put back things after you use it), she replied 'why you always complain me, best we seperate',then she packed her stuff and went home today.....funny though I don't feel that sad, infact thinking if I ended up marrying her it may not be good for me also (a person who live in my hse for free and never contribute anything, still complaining regularly, and never supported anything I do), well it's ok if she goes........but nd to find new g/f again also sien, well better focus on my job, nowadays girls all 'ada wang, ada amoi', you wanna get girls like in the movie, that'll be with you during sunny and rainy day and support whatever you do? forget it i guess.... Hey should I said congra to you? 7 years, not too long and not too short. Besides, she kept taking advantages on you, but I'm sure there must be something that can keep you two together for these 7 years. When we end up a long relationship, we always feel hesitate to start a new one. It's like everything is gone and need to start being single again, do things alone again. It didn't sound too bad. Start our own life, doing things we like to do, watching movies we like, hang out with your friends..things go normally. Later on, feeling better, and here we start to look for new relationship again. It's life! It's not every girls like that, like money only. Well, I can't deny, many of them, yes. But most of them just want to have a comfortable living style. I 'm sure one day you will find the one for you or maybe "she" finds you. Good luck |
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Mar 31 2011, 08:29 PM
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it's all not about maths in a relationship in a relationship.
it's not like how much u should get from how much u contributed to the relationship. during the years, the contribution that u mentioned is given willingly, right? if so, should there be any ground to blame at? and if there's a formula for the "equivalent contribution in a relationship", then we're owing a lot of debts with our parents already ;-) fully committing urself into work may be a good choice for u now, but mind u about the emptiness that u may encounter. after all u have been living with ur ex for years, so it takes time for u to adapt urself  what's urs will be urs, relationship breakup is generally caused by the difference of personalities or the conflict in the lifestyle or Because of one does not fulfill one's expectation. just make sure u'll live ur life with no regret, then u'll have my support, TS |
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Mar 31 2011, 11:11 PM
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your gf like that also can together so long ....... geng
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Mar 31 2011, 11:16 PM
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great move, focus on ur job better.
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Mar 31 2011, 11:18 PM
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move on, like i did.
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 Apr 1 2011, 12:03 AM
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hahaha FINALLY a tred in cupid corner that has a fuking happy ending
 n less depressing 2 read too  btw right move dude...this biatch aint worth your lifetime 2 fondle with...so big kudos 4 this happy break up hahahaneways here we got single club...come over n post your introductions 2 the single kakis ya Added on April 1, 2011, 12:05 am QUOTE(blessingyu @ Mar 31 2011, 11:16 PM) great move, focus on ur job better. he already mention in the first page lor btw, how old are u and her?  QUOTE not young lo my friend, I'm 30 already... lemme guess the gf age » Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « This post has been edited by skylinelover: Apr 1 2011, 12:05 AM |
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Apr 1 2011, 02:37 AM
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lucky guy..
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Apr 1 2011, 05:00 AM
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wah, really gt such person? hermmm....ok...
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Apr 1 2011, 10:22 AM
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My house under reno too... so now... stay alone. To laugh or to cry?
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Apr 1 2011, 10:24 AM
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TS, really wise move.. 10 pok u!!!
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Apr 1 2011, 11:36 AM
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QUOTE(areankim @ Mar 31 2011, 11:18 PM) move on, like i did. Yup I believe u can  |
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Apr 1 2011, 12:51 PM
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now u got more money for urself, ur own house and ur own career
no worries girls will come easily geh  have fun!!! |
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Apr 1 2011, 01:20 PM
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All I can say is You've met the wrong gal.You deserve someone much better than her. If she loves you, she's willing to compromise. If she treasures the 7-year-relationship, she wont pack and leave u behind. Move on !
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Apr 1 2011, 01:28 PM
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QUOTE(skylinelover @ Apr 1 2011, 12:03 AM) hahaha FINALLY a tred in cupid corner that has a fuking happy ending wa you psychic, it's 25 (you're damn close) n less depressing 2 read too btw right move dude...this biatch aint worth your lifetime 2 fondle with...so big kudos 4 this happy break up hahahaneways here we got single club...come over n post your introductions 2 the single kakis ya Added on April 1, 2011, 12:05 am he already mention in the first page lor lemme guess the gf age » Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « |
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Apr 1 2011, 01:48 PM
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hahaha damm
 i cant bliv i really can bcum psychic hohoho nah...neways how i can guess almost correct is actually like this...from my observations n other frends break up stories,,,most immature girls with attitude problems that causes so many break ups r known 2 happen in the stage between early n mid 20s...girls will only understand the real true love cycle by the late 20s bcoz they dy experience enough painful break up in the past that they r not willing 2 take risk again jumping around random boys just 2 ride on big monster koks n that creates another issue 4 the insecure guys dy which is y most career driven girls older than 26 prefer 2 stay single 4 ever hahaha http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1792493 cheers This post has been edited by skylinelover: Apr 1 2011, 01:51 PM |
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Apr 1 2011, 05:35 PM
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QUOTE(ahcheap @ Apr 1 2011, 11:36 AM) Yup I believe u can yup, nothing much I could do anyway, plus its not that I don't have other stuff do. so far feeling ok, only at night time abit lonely, just watch some comedy to cheer me up and before you know it, I'll get sleepy and just go to sleep, but she still kept appearing in my dream, hm...hopefully when time comes I'll be able to get her out of mind forever...Added on April 1, 2011, 5:36 pm QUOTE(ahcheap @ Apr 1 2011, 11:36 AM) Yup I believe u can yup, nothing much I could do anyway, plus its not that I don't have other stuff do. so far feeling ok, only at night time abit lonely, just watch some comedy to cheer me up and before you know it, I'll get sleepy and just go to sleep, but she still kept appearing in my dream, hm...hopefully when time comes I'll be able to get her out of mind forever...This post has been edited by tempxyz: Apr 1 2011, 05:36 PM |
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Apr 1 2011, 06:21 PM
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QUOTE(tempxyz @ Mar 30 2011, 10:25 PM) Just broken up with my 7 yrs gf. Live in my house for 5-6 yrs, seldom hlp with house work (I think only help less than 20 times in 7 yrs), we ware planning to get marry this yr, thus I've spent around 130K to upgrade our hse and she doesn't spend anything. Moreover after arrive home always ask me to do misc task (sitting there ask me go down stairs take water, etc...), and I always pick up her mess. She just went HK, said want to look for our wedding ring as its cheaper there, I'm not rich so I told her you can get anything 2000 and below, whereas for mine, just around 100+ enough (as I don't really care about jewelry), but she didn't manage to find it. Just came home frm HK yesterday, and today as usual she left her things everywhere after using it, I just said 'haiyo why you so 'mou sau mei' (always didn't put back things after you use it), she replied 'why you always complain me, best we seperate',then she packed her stuff and went home today.....funny though I don't feel that sad, infact thinking if I ended up marrying her it may not be good for me also (a person who live in my hse for free and never contribute anything, still complaining regularly, and never supported anything I do), well it's ok if she goes........but nd to find new g/f again also sien, well better focus on my job, nowadays girls all 'ada wang, ada amoi', you wanna get girls like in the movie, that'll be with you during sunny and rainy day and support whatever you do? forget it i guess.... Skipping all the replies, congratulations!Added on April 1, 2011, 6:30 pmGone through the replies, so...... QUOTE(yupio @ Mar 31 2011, 02:09 PM) @tempxyz Just because you are a loser doesn't mean TS is a loser.same ending with me...different storyline though....for me its 11 yrs...not 7 yrs....and u know what....many blame it on coz we dated too long n didn't get married....shouldn't date too long.....i somewhat agree to this point coz i also observe some of my buddies reaching the same conclusion...but they're better off...they found a new one n tied the knot...now live happily... for 7 yrs and u could tolerate is coz TS only mentioned the negative part....omitted the positive part or good points of her...sure have some good points wan otherwise won't wait for 7yrs....no matter how tolerant a person u are... maybe not now...for now u feel free...happy due to good riddance...give u few months down the road...u will feel empty, sad, lonely..the thought of missing her comes back to haunt u....prolly by then u open up another thread here with different topic but then like u and me...at this age, with work commitments and all...is kinda hard to start going thru all the courting, dating stuffs.....for me, it's kinda tiring or lazy d....too bad this is not something that can buy off the shelf......is the thinking that ocassionally comes to mind lol.... good luck in finding a better one soon....i sincerely hope so. @spanker best place is to search in the origin which is in vietnam itself....could arrange a trip for 3 of us eh....if TS also interested....i'd like an opportunity to..urm...observe...if the claims of many are true. But then again, he should have kicked her out years ago, not waiting for her to break up with him. This post has been edited by xecton: Apr 1 2011, 06:30 PM |
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Apr 2 2011, 12:33 PM
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QUOTE(yeongyunsee @ Apr 1 2011, 01:20 PM) All I can say is You've met the wrong gal.You deserve someone much better than her. If she loves you, she's willing to compromise. If she treasures the 7-year-relationship, she wont pack and leave u behind. Move on ! +100 Good luck TS. It will take awhile to forget her. Concentrate on your work and hang out with your friends.  |
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