ts, imo, 7 years is a long time for a relationship
so if u ask me its quite sayang ended this way
how come only after 7 years then u realized this?
could have seen it earlier, no?

is your investment worth it after all?

I smell the cougars creeping up here.

But on a serious note, you definitely deserve better. This time try your luck with a person as competitive as you, perhaps that would work out with your compatibility.

Just broken up with my 7 yrs gf. Live in my house for 5-6 yrs, seldom hlp with house work (I think only help less than 20 times in 7 yrs), we ware planning to get marry this yr, thus I've spent around 130K to upgrade our hse and she doesn't spend anything. Moreover after arrive home always ask me to do misc task (sitting there ask me go down stairs take water, etc...), and I always pick up her mess. She just went HK, said want to look for our wedding ring as its cheaper there, I'm not rich so I told her you can get anything 2000 and below, whereas for mine, just around 100+ enough (as I don't really care about jewelry), but she didn't manage to find it. Just came home frm HK yesterday, and today as usual she left her things everywhere after using it, I just said 'haiyo why you so 'mou sau mei' (always didn't put back things after you use it), she replied 'why you always complain me, best we seperate',then she packed her stuff and went home today.....funny though I don't feel that sad, infact thinking if I ended up marrying her it may not be good for me also (a person who live in my hse for free and never contribute anything, still complaining regularly, and never supported anything I do), well it's ok if she goes........but nd to find new g/f again also sien, well better focus on my job, nowadays girls all 'ada wang, ada amoi', you wanna get girls like in the movie, that'll be with you during sunny and rainy day and support whatever you do? forget it i guess....

I don't see having a gf/wife as an investment, they're not listed in my balance sheet. I'm mean this is suppose to be for life, everyone's gonna die 1 day, but it's a wonderful thing that you'll have someone with you throughout the journey (good and bad times) before the day comes, really make your life worthwhile...

You really deserve a better one after all you have done and she never appreciate and take thing for granted. Respect you for enduring her attitude for the past 7 years, it's  give and take.

Hopefully your "don't feel sad" feeling is not temporary ... sudden release burden but when time goes, you will feel she is somehow important because the 7 years relationship there is sweet and happiness in between will appear in your mind.

yeah, i know, hopefully when it comes, it wouldn't be too painful....

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Added on March 31, 2011, 12:40 amWow, I don't really post alot, but god never thought even strangers in low yat forum can give such great support! it does really helps you guys, thank you thank you and thank you. Hope all of you all have someone that you hold dear, someone that you'll work your heart out and push yourself over the limit just to see that person smile, that my friends is one of the sweetest thing you can get....

I cried after reading your post TS...  All i can say is " she deserve it!"

Just broken up with my 7 yrs gf. Live in my house for 5-6 yrs, seldom hlp with house work (I think only help less than 20 times in 7 yrs), we ware planning to get marry this yr, thus I've spent around 130K to upgrade our hse and she doesn't spend anything. Moreover after arrive home always ask me to do misc task (sitting there ask me go down stairs take water, etc...), and I always pick up her mess. She just went HK, said want to look for our wedding ring as its cheaper there, I'm not rich so I told her you can get anything 2000 and below, whereas for mine, just around 100+ enough (as I don't really care about jewelry), but she didn't manage to find it. Just came home frm HK yesterday, and today as usual she left her things everywhere after using it, I just said 'haiyo why you so 'mou sau mei' (always didn't put back things after you use it), she replied 'why you always complain me, best we seperate',then she packed her stuff and went home today.....funny though I don't feel that sad, infact thinking if I ended up marrying her it may not be good for me also (a person who live in my hse for free and never contribute anything, still complaining regularly, and never supported anything I do), well it's ok if she goes........but nd to find new g/f again also sien, well better focus on my job, nowadays girls all 'ada wang, ada amoi', you wanna get girls like in the movie, that'll be with you during sunny and rainy day and support whatever you do? forget it i guess....

But but... you wont feel lonely at night meh ?
Sleeping with the girl you loved for so long, every morning wake up the first you see is her sleeping beside you, that's just so sweet.

Really waste lar, why those girls 身在福中不知福  !!

i bet the first thing he does after waking up is to clean the toilet, clean kitchen, make breakfast and coffee, do laundry etc.

now he is free, no need to do all those shit!