Just broken up with my 7 yrs gf. Live in my house for 5-6 yrs, seldom hlp with house work (I think only help less than 20 times in 7 yrs), we ware planning to get marry this yr, thus I've spent around 130K to upgrade our hse and she doesn't spend anything. Moreover after arrive home always ask me to do misc task (sitting there ask me go down stairs take water, etc...), and I always pick up her mess. She just went HK, said want to look for our wedding ring as its cheaper there, I'm not rich so I told her you can get anything 2000 and below, whereas for mine, just around 100+ enough (as I don't really care about jewelry), but she didn't manage to find it. Just came home frm HK yesterday, and today as usual she left her things everywhere after using it, I just said 'haiyo why you so 'mou sau mei' (always didn't put back things after you use it), she replied 'why you always complain me, best we seperate',then she packed her stuff and went home today.....funny though I don't feel that sad, infact thinking if I ended up marrying her it may not be good for me also (a person who live in my hse for free and never contribute anything, still complaining regularly, and never supported anything I do), well it's ok if she goes........but nd to find new g/f again also sien, well better focus on my job, nowadays girls all 'ada wang, ada amoi', you wanna get girls like in the movie, that'll be with you during sunny and rainy day and support whatever you do? forget it i guess....

This post has been edited by tempxyz: Mar 30 2011, 10:28 PM

already spent a bit loh, buy car I sponsor 4K, her birtday presents (laptop - 2K, psp - can't remember how much I bought 2 yrs ago, jewelry-few K, paying for her misc debt she owe to friend, etc....), the most expensive gift she bought for me for my b'day is a box of ferrero roche chocolate (guess its my fault,as i'm not a materialistic person, every time she ask I just say no need lah, save money...), too much pampering end up up like that.. hai...

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Added on March 30, 2011, 10:52 pmmmm... dunno woh, she seems happy, moreover she's the 1 that have the opportunity to travel everywhere (but mostly on her own expense), I never have the opportunity to travel at all due to commitment not to her only but also to my own family....

This post has been edited by tempxyz: Mar 30 2011, 10:52 PM

ya...i guess i know what you mean, in actual fact I didn't say anything at all, she's the one who say wanna break up, i just keep quite but said well if you wanna go home, just drive carefully.mmm.....too much pampering i guess....right now I just wanna stay single for awhile and focus on my job 1st....

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Added on March 30, 2011, 10:57 pmnot young lo my friend, I'm 30 already...

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[quote=munkeyflo,Mar 30 2011, 10:55 PM]TS, you're better off without her.
Money can earn back, don't feel so sad about the money spent on her.

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yeah, i guess you're right, not too sad on the money though, also not too sad that she left, but sad and wondering why on earth that you've saved everything and mostly buy things for ppl around you, treat you nice, never ask you spend anything on the house, never ask you do house chores (but did highlight to her that since she's living here, pls hlp abit if can), hlp her out when she needed hlp, and after 7 yrs and ended up like that. Make me feel that most girls are just with you when you are doing ok, but just leave you when are doing not ok.....

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Added on March 30, 2011, 11:05 pm[quote=leo_gaga,Mar 30 2011, 10:58 PM]

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Added on March 30, 2011, 10:52 pm
mmm... dunno woh, she seems happy, moreover she's the 1 that have the opportunity to travel everywhere (but mostly on her own expense), I never have the opportunity to travel at all due to commitment not to her only but also to my own family....

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OK, understood. Is she a pretty girl?
Anyway you can just go ahead to focus your career.

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not very pretty, just regular cute type...

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Added on March 30, 2011, 11:14 pmBut tks to all on your support, it really helps, hope every 1 is living their life to the fullest!

This post has been edited by tempxyz: Mar 30 2011, 11:14 PM

ya it is quite long. I'm a very chin chai person, alot of things I can accomodate, as long its not anything too major. Did highlight to her a few times about that, I guess that's why she says why I always complain, did hope that she'll help out abit as I'm feeling I'm in a 1 man show in this relationship....oh well....

I don't see having a gf/wife as an investment, they're not listed in my balance sheet. I'm mean this is suppose to be for life, everyone's gonna die 1 day, but it's a wonderful thing that you'll have someone with you throughout the journey (good and bad times) before the day comes, really make your life worthwhile...

ya....this I really need to leave it to a powerful cupid, it'll be difficult for me to meet new girls, work work work.....

yeah, i know, hopefully when it comes, it wouldn't be too painful....

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Added on March 31, 2011, 12:40 amWow, I don't really post alot, but god never thought even strangers in low yat forum can give such great support! it does really helps you guys, thank you thank you and thank you. Hope all of you all have someone that you hold dear, someone that you'll work your heart out and push yourself over the limit just to see that person smile, that my friends is one of the sweetest thing you can get....

This post has been edited by tempxyz: Mar 31 2011, 12:40 AM

ya, honestly I do feel that its a bit pity, but as I said I'm not too sad, thus I don't really hate her for leaving....well think on the bright side, now everything lunch dinner I don't need to pay double.

hahaha not to that extend, I only do them on weakends. Anyway with or without gf still nd to do is't it??

wa you psychic, it's 25 (you're damn close)

yup, nothing much I could do anyway, plus its not that I don't have other stuff do. so far feeling ok, only at night time abit lonely, just watch some comedy to cheer me up and before you know it, I'll get sleepy and just go to sleep, but she still kept appearing in my dream, hm...hopefully when time comes I'll be able to get her out of mind forever...

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Added on April 1, 2011, 5:36 pmyup, nothing much I could do anyway, plus its not that I don't have other stuff do. so far feeling ok, only at night time abit lonely, just watch some comedy to cheer me up and before you know it, I'll get sleepy and just go to sleep, but she still kept appearing in my dream, hm...hopefully when time comes I'll be able to get her out of mind forever...

This post has been edited by tempxyz: Apr 1 2011, 05:36 PM

It's not my personal blog (In fact I don't even have a blog), but just to give the updates. At the end she apologised, said she was having pressure at work, hence the sudden outburst when I complained her not being tidy. Well since this is our 2nd big fight in 7 yrs, and again I'm pretty chin chai, as long she's happy I'm o.k. She came back just yesterday. Still between the days, the encouragement I received frm each and everyone here genuinely help me get by, I would like to say thank you from the bottom of my heart, to each and everyone who reply to this thread.

This post has been edited by tempxyz: Apr 9 2011, 01:41 AM