Good move and lucky you TS!
Just broke up with my 7 yrs gf, don't really feel sad......
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 Apr 3 2011, 09:11 AM
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Apr 3 2011, 05:03 PM
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not all girls are like that..
there are still girls who will be with you be it sunny or rainy days one lar! |
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Apr 3 2011, 05:06 PM
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QUOTE(babe_himesan @ Apr 3 2011, 06:03 PM) not all girls are like that.. o'reilly? ? ?there are still girls who will be with you be it sunny or rainy days one lar!  i tot those kind of girls edi extinct jor~ |
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Apr 3 2011, 05:26 PM
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QUOTE(tempxyz @ Mar 30 2011, 10:25 PM) nowadays girls all 'ada wang, ada amoi', you wanna get girls like in the movie, that'll be with you during sunny and rainy day and support whatever you do? forget it i guess.... wah.. sounded insulting.. well, my ex bf was very pampering also.. for every meal, every spending.. he insist to spend for me.. I pulak insist to pay myself.. I would say not all the girls out there is as bad as what you think.. so, Good luck in your "new phase" of life..  |
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Apr 5 2011, 07:25 PM
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QUOTE(babe_himesan @ Apr 3 2011, 05:03 PM) not all girls are like that.. u mean u leh? muahahahahahathere are still girls who will be with you be it sunny or rainy days one lar! |
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Apr 5 2011, 08:10 PM
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You did a wise thing there, TS.
One thing though.. You hooked up with her when you were 23 and she was 16? |
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Apr 6 2011, 12:35 PM
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QUOTE(cala99 @ Mar 31 2011, 10:05 AM) So u r envious of TS? haha.. no wo... things are getting better now... ^^ |
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Apr 6 2011, 02:02 PM
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QUOTE(Flo_2010 @ Apr 3 2011, 05:26 PM) I would say not all the girls out there is as bad as what you think. Not all, most. Just accept lah, women are materialistic manipulators. I don't know why you women so sepakat always see a need to defend the entire female species even though the statement is true. It's been taught from generation to generation from mothers to daughters to "find a rich husband". Just because 5% of women aren't materialistic you want to disprove that statement meh?This post has been edited by spanker: Apr 6 2011, 02:03 PM |
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Apr 6 2011, 04:15 PM
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QUOTE(spanker @ Apr 6 2011, 02:02 PM) Not all, most. Just accept lah, women are materialistic manipulators. I don't know why you women so sepakat always see a need to defend the entire female species even though the statement is true. It's been taught from generation to generation from mothers to daughters to "find a rich husband". Just because 5% of women aren't materialistic you want to disprove that statement meh? LOL.. Apa marah-marah.. we go to date.. then i can prove not all is like that..  |
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Apr 6 2011, 10:02 PM
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QUOTE(Rascal Stitch @ Apr 3 2011, 05:06 PM) o'reilly? ? ? got money, even its snowy, she will stick to you like superGlue la i tot those kind of girls edi extinct jor~  |
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Apr 6 2011, 11:21 PM
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I am sad reading your story.
Somehow i just wonder how come nice people fails in relationship? Why god never let 2 good people love each other, then there won't be so much hurts and tears and time wasting.... sigh... |
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Apr 6 2011, 11:28 PM
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TS your situation almost like me. I share mine with u later cos now need to complete my work. I break off for 1 and half month d.
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Apr 7 2011, 10:57 AM
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Thank god TS you managed to save yourself from eternal doom.Good job bro.
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Apr 7 2011, 11:20 AM
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marriage is about to spend the rest of your life with her...
if even there is a single thing that u think ur partner dun want to change and u dun like it u better leave her coz u r going to sufer the rest of your life. true story |
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Apr 7 2011, 04:28 PM
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QUOTE(Flo_2010 @ Apr 6 2011, 04:15 PM) LOL.. Apa marah-marah.. we go to date.. then i can prove not all is like that.. It's not that I don't believe you. You can prove YOU are not like that, but you can't prove that NOT ALL are like that. And just because you are not like that, doesn't mean most are not. Wanna confirm, then after I date you, you can intro more of your girl friends to me lor, see whether they want me or my $$$Added on April 7, 2011, 4:29 pmoh shit... did I just tell the internet i'm loaded? crap.... This post has been edited by spanker: Apr 7 2011, 04:29 PM |
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Apr 7 2011, 05:27 PM
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QUOTE(tempxyz @ Mar 30 2011, 10:25 PM) Just broken up with my 7 yrs gf. Live in my house for 5-6 yrs, seldom hlp with house work (I think only help less than 20 times in 7 yrs), we ware planning to get marry this yr, thus I've spent around 130K to upgrade our hse and she doesn't spend anything. Moreover after arrive home always ask me to do misc task (sitting there ask me go down stairs take water, etc...), and I always pick up her mess. She just went HK, said want to look for our wedding ring as its cheaper there, I'm not rich so I told her you can get anything 2000 and below, whereas for mine, just around 100+ enough (as I don't really care about jewelry), but she didn't manage to find it. Just came home frm HK yesterday, and today as usual she left her things everywhere after using it, I just said 'haiyo why you so 'mou sau mei' (always didn't put back things after you use it), she replied 'why you always complain me, best we seperate',then she packed her stuff and went home today.....funny though I don't feel that sad, infact thinking if I ended up marrying her it may not be good for me also (a person who live in my hse for free and never contribute anything, still complaining regularly, and never supported anything I do), well it's ok if she goes........but nd to find new g/f again also sien, well better focus on my job, nowadays girls all 'ada wang, ada amoi', you wanna get girls like in the movie, that'll be with you during sunny and rainy day and support whatever you do? forget it i guess.... TS u sounds like 1 of my friend, is your sir name TAN?btw i am sad to heard that 7 years relation just end up like that.... so sayang.. but if u think you did the right thing, just do it, you will find a better one This post has been edited by davve: Apr 7 2011, 05:30 PM |
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Apr 7 2011, 05:32 PM
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I guess it ain't that bad after all! Good luck in your search for a new gal! All da best!
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Apr 7 2011, 08:46 PM
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QUOTE(tempxyz @ Mar 30 2011, 10:25 PM) Just broken up with my 7 yrs gf. Live in my house for 5-6 yrs, seldom hlp with house work (I think only help less than 20 times in 7 yrs), we ware planning to get marry this yr, thus I've spent around 130K to upgrade our hse and she doesn't spend anything. Moreover after arrive home always ask me to do misc task (sitting there ask me go down stairs take water, etc...), and I always pick up her mess. She just went HK, said want to look for our wedding ring as its cheaper there, I'm not rich so I told her you can get anything 2000 and below, whereas for mine, just around 100+ enough (as I don't really care about jewelry), but she didn't manage to find it. Just came home frm HK yesterday, and today as usual she left her things everywhere after using it, I just said 'haiyo why you so 'mou sau mei' (always didn't put back things after you use it), she replied 'why you always complain me, best we seperate',then she packed her stuff and went home today.....funny though I don't feel that sad, infact thinking if I ended up marrying her it may not be good for me also (a person who live in my hse for free and never contribute anything, still complaining regularly, and never supported anything I do), well it's ok if she goes........but nd to find new g/f again also sien, well better focus on my job, nowadays girls all 'ada wang, ada amoi', you wanna get girls like in the movie, that'll be with you during sunny and rainy day and support whatever you do? forget it i guess.... First, im agree with you. 7 years arent a short period, it takes time, look forward to your career first! When time comes, u will meet the girl.Second, i do believe there are girls which don't put money at the first place. All i can say is, u haven't met the right one. all the best |
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Apr 9 2011, 01:40 AM
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It's not my personal blog (In fact I don't even have a blog), but just to give the updates. At the end she apologised, said she was having pressure at work, hence the sudden outburst when I complained her not being tidy. Well since this is our 2nd big fight in 7 yrs, and again I'm pretty chin chai, as long she's happy I'm o.k. She came back just yesterday. Still between the days, the encouragement I received frm each and everyone here genuinely help me get by, I would like to say thank you from the bottom of my heart, to each and everyone who reply to this thread.
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Apr 9 2011, 01:47 AM
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Good thing she broke off. For her to only give u a box of ferroro roche for ur birthday says a lot.
Added on April 9, 2011, 1:49 am QUOTE(tempxyz @ Apr 8 2011, 12:40 PM) It's not my personal blog (In fact I don't even have a blog), but just to give the updates. At the end she apologised, said she was having pressure at work, hence the sudden outburst when I complained her not being tidy. Well since this is our 2nd big fight in 7 yrs, and again I'm pretty chin chai, as long she's happy I'm o.k. She came back just yesterday. Still between the days, the encouragement I received frm each and everyone here genuinely help me get by, I would like to say thank you from the bottom of my heart, to each and everyone who reply to this thread. I think u just want a guy to sayang u. Nothing wrong with it. U have reached a reasonable level of success and would like some appreciation. If ur gf does not give it, better find someone else. U have a house. It is power.This post has been edited by Fall guy: Apr 9 2011, 01:49 AM |
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