Before we got together....both of us willing to drive to meet up.....1st six months of relationship....she doesnt mind at all fetch me no matter how far.....after that until now...which is about 4 years.....i am the one who do the fetching

So how ah? hehe.

I always wanna fetch my bf but heck, my driving still sucks ...

petrol naik harga...that's y

What happens is like this:

Most of the time the guy has to chase the girl. When doing so, the girl will ask the opinions of her friends, if the guy fetches her the friends will say "this is an okay guy'", but if he asks her to fetch her during that period, the friends will say "how can a guy act like this". So if he asks her to fetch, most likely no deal lo.

After he has got her, if he starts asking her to fetch, the girl will think "last time you were so nice to me but now once you have got me you are changing!" So once the bar of expectation is set, it is hard to shift.

My bf likes to drive, he doesn't complain

How ar.. what's the problem there?
Is it because you don't like to drive? Or is it because you think your petrol expenses are higher than her and that it's not fair?

Honestly I don't see any problem here. I'm not that kira about who drives/fetches who. As long as I get to the destination safely.

I can tell you, my dad doesn't drives on his own. He always gets me or my mum or my aunty to fetch him.
My bf like to drive so he will come and fetch me when we go out. But when we go on road trips, both of us takes turn to drive. And when I go to his house, I'll definitely drive on my own.

Is it really bothers you, talk to her about it. Have you talk about this to her?

I dont mind at all to fetch and drive actually. But sometimes have to give and take lor. I tried talked to her bout this before and she said im being too 'berkira' if u know what that means.

Disagree
If gals want equality, then be treated with equal... Gentleman to girls are pre-historic culture. Except to gf/wife/mum/sis... LOL

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Added on February 2, 2011, 6:05 pmThen say "grow up"

This post has been edited by arthurlwf: Feb 2 2011, 06:05 PM

Lol. Yea I get what you mean.
And I also agree that she should put in some effort in driving and fetching you instead of letting you do all that.

If my guy does all that, I'll feel that I have made him into my personal driver, which isn't a nice thing to feel.

I guess you can't do much since she thinks that you are being kira with her. All the best TS

Tumpang thread.... What if, U have a car and u like to fetch your gf who doesn't own a car but suddenly she want to buy a car but don't know anything about car including driving?? Should u feel relief, worry, supportive or how?

p/s: Sorry if out of topic a little bit

Maybe the guy can let her drive while he sit next to her. After awhile, should get used to it.

Driving is a necessity these days.

well my two cents is, if its for dinner then the guy better fetch cuz its dangerous for girls to drive at night alone, alot of rempit-following cases..but if its in the morning, the girl should drive herself..

Even commitment involve?? For example married couples? Should both husband and wife each, own a car?
Or should shared one family car, and the husband fetch his wife everyday?

You are a good girl.

Then you should be the one to fetch guy.. Will have totally the same reasons as well

You're right

You have a point there.

Nope. guys don't prefer driving but instead they are forced to sometimes. You can drive your car to his house and let him drive your car as well

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Added on February 16, 2011, 3:56 pmI agree with you.

This post has been edited by g_kw2: Feb 16 2011, 03:56 PM

fetching the girl means more time interacting in da car maaaa...

normally the girls come fetch me if the destination is along the way. But they would let me drive.

save petrol mah...what or to drive two cars since can car pool...save the environment...you can ask her to drive next time instead of you just be quiet there...hehe

really kah ?

but sometimes i very scare sit in your car T-T

haha...your gf so cute...

Er. How is she going to drive if she doesn't know how to drive?
I assume she would know how to drive if she already has a driving license.

I guess what you can do is teach her how to drive safely. Sometimes she just wanna don't wanna be so dependent on you.
I find it REALLY frustrating when I don't have a car to drive.