actually its not a problem to fetch someone if u are going somewhere along the way but its so not convenient to fetch sometimes for me im straight forward just say no.
what kinda gentlemen should one be to be able to bring a gal to anywhere they wish to? those dudes have to do their stuff dy if u ladies think its a must for guys to fetch even its not convenient and it was broad daylight and coming with the excuse of being dangerous is stupid excuse

like it or not gals if u dun learn to do things on ur own and be dependent dun expect others to do whatever stuff u wanted becoz in this world nth comes free

^True.

The same applies to friends but sometimes i don't know how to say no when my friend ask me to fetch her and it's not along the way.

once a bunch of college fren tat stayed in hostel wanted to go sushi king bonanza...asked me to fetch

i said not free.... then later they asked my crush to ask me fetch them to sushi king

i wonder what will happen if i agreed back then

This post has been edited by tzxsean: May 25 2011, 01:04 AM

^Thank God you did not agree to it. Once you fetch them, there will be more coming.

yea...of course i abit unsettled when my crush using her manja voice to ask me fetch them

but i still stood firm on my decision

actually im free

just tat im not interested to fetch them

i wanted to rest at home

Good you didn't fall for their trap (:

I think if the guy asks the girl out on their first date, the guy should fetch her. After that for casual outings or 2nd, 3rd date it's ok to go with diff cars. As for me when I didn't have any car before this of course I expected the guy to fetch me all the time. Now when I already have a car, I'd drive on my own because easier and more convenient for both parties if don't live anywhere near.

As for friends, sometimes when they ask me to fetch them, if I'm driving along the way can lah. Before this it was so hard for me to turn them down but they pijak my kepala, so now I know when to say NO.

According to him, yes. She was quite hard to get also la. So it just made everything not worth it after all.

And that's not a reason to not drive manual car. I still can drive my manual car after I've been driving auto car for few months. Actually I've been forced to drive manual car until I finish my P license. Reason being it's still better to know the basics of driving a manual car. Just in case you go to some oversea place for holiday and they only have manual cars for rental. Also, for convenience, don't need other people to fetch me if there's only a manual car available.

And to add on to that, manual car driving has more 'feel'. Feels more like 'driving a car' than driving an auto car. I still prefer manual. Auto no fun wan.

Well, I do not ask guys to fetch me except when I have no public transport to take or we are going to go out until late at night which I find dangerous if I take public transport home. It is sweet for a guy to fetch the girl back from work though if she works really late or just to meet her

yes because of parking purposes...or when staying out late drinking

but only if convenient for the guy to fetch me.

1. If its a date, of coz the general concenseus is bf fetch. Coz more gentleman look ma. But if going college, working, pls drive by yourself

2. If outing late, bf should drive coz many rape/rob cases happen when the girl is driving alone

As a guy and also as a gentleman ..
Fetching a girl is something very normally all the guy will do ..
Like me i always fetch my ex even she own her transportation to work day and night caught in the heavy traffic jammed but in the end you only will feel sweet and worth it ...

Quite a few of my guy friends have forgotten how to drive manual

Who don't wanna be fetch... all like to become boss. For as guy must loh to fetch gal. Unless guy no car.

girls driving scares me.

Guy drive girl ride, girl enjoy or scared.

ya, my housemates wanted to go pasar malam but lazy to take de bus.
ask me to ask mah crush 2 drive us.
but i dun wan...coz i didnt like da guy (though he was willing 2 drive us)
later if he drive us, i nid to hang out w/ a guy i dun rike den how?!
while mah frenz happy happy eat & shop at pasar malam