If it's on the way, then yea. Save petrol, save the environment.
But if it's not, I'd rather drive myself. More convenient and more flexible. Can go off anytime.

If with my bf, I prefer to fetch him.

Don't think so leh. Guys usually prefer to drive than let their gf fetch.

I think that's bullshit as well. =.=

How ar.. what's the problem there?
Is it because you don't like to drive? Or is it because you think your petrol expenses are higher than her and that it's not fair?

Honestly I don't see any problem here. I'm not that kira about who drives/fetches who. As long as I get to the destination safely.

I can tell you, my dad doesn't drives on his own. He always gets me or my mum or my aunty to fetch him.
My bf like to drive so he will come and fetch me when we go out. But when we go on road trips, both of us takes turn to drive. And when I go to his house, I'll definitely drive on my own.

Is it really bothers you, talk to her about it. Have you talk about this to her?

Lol. Yea I get what you mean.
And I also agree that she should put in some effort in driving and fetching you instead of letting you do all that.

If my guy does all that, I'll feel that I have made him into my personal driver, which isn't a nice thing to feel.

I guess you can't do much since she thinks that you are being kira with her. All the best TS

Er. How is she going to drive if she doesn't know how to drive?
I assume she would know how to drive if she already has a driving license.

I guess what you can do is teach her how to drive safely. Sometimes she just wanna don't wanna be so dependent on you.
I find it REALLY frustrating when I don't have a car to drive.

Few things to consider...
Is she going to get a new car or 2nd hand car?
Recommended 2nd hand car so if so happen scratch or accident (touch wood), you guys won't be so heart pain over it.

Is she working? Is her work place far? Are you fetching her? Is it on your way?
Does she need you to fetch her when she wants to go out with friends? I think it depends on how much she needs to use the car. Whether she wants to be dependent on you for fetching her or not. Like in my case for example, I'm always on the go and busy doing my own stuff running here and there, I wouldn't want to burden my partner to send me here and there so it would be best if I can get a car of my own asap.

Put it this way, assuming you two live together now, do you think that if you have two cars at home, will both the cars always be used? Or only one (yours) always out while the other one put at your car porch become white elephant? Also remember, buying a car is easy, but can you both maintain the extra car?

But if she is getting around with her motorcycle on her own nowadays.. maybe it's a good idea to invest in a car because it would definitely be safer for her to be in a car then on a motorcycle.

Just my 2 cents.

Why not? My dad don't drive, my mum fetches him around.

I let my friend drive my manual car before. Keep on engine die only. I think got almost twenty times from Subang to Shah Alam.

I have a friend who gave up on a girl because she lives wayyy deep inside Klang. Lol.

My bf is in Klang and I'm in Shah Alam. I drive to his house if we're going to hang out in Klang. He'll pick me up on the way if we're heading to Subang/KL.

According to him, yes. She was quite hard to get also la. So it just made everything not worth it after all.

And that's not a reason to not drive manual car. I still can drive my manual car after I've been driving auto car for few months. Actually I've been forced to drive manual car until I finish my P license. Reason being it's still better to know the basics of driving a manual car. Just in case you go to some oversea place for holiday and they only have manual cars for rental. Also, for convenience, don't need other people to fetch me if there's only a manual car available.

And to add on to that, manual car driving has more 'feel'. Feels more like 'driving a car' than driving an auto car. I still prefer manual. Auto no fun wan.