ofc la ............

Its hard to find gentleman nowadays, because the girl themselves had kill most of the gentleman. Whether intentionally or unintentionally.

Think again, most gentleman are Mr. Nice Guy, then the truth is Mr. Nice Guys rarely get girls. Girls just treat them as doormat, or being weak & emotional person. After hurt & being dump they will realise & feel stupid, so not worth to be good guy thus gentleman which at the end you may suffer alone. Girls will just keep demanding, last time the classic a guy requirement is 5 C's, too bad now become more specific the 5 B's.
The world is changing, so as the gentleman & nice girl is dying.

Sadly I'm one of the classic case which when thru that process. Being dump, reject and ignore all because I'm being gentleman, too nice & too caring.
Although may still fetch girl(potential gf or close friend), but please dun think to take for granted.

each capable being must carry their own weight.

Haha. I guess Im the rare 1

Last time before I met my current bf.
I always go out with monorail to meet my guy friends.
They wanted to fetch me but I refuse, I dont want to let them know where I live and I think it's dangerous
(Kena a guy say wanna fetch me back home but end up goin back to his home luckily his dad came back and his dad forced to send me back home )

But some of them want to fetch me home bcuz they are worry about my safety.

I like driving. But since the bf drives the hour up to campus to see me, when he's here, I drive.

yalor.... they very lazy

me too~~lol

This post has been edited by vivienne85: Jan 29 2011, 11:34 AM

yeah//so that he wont go and pick other gals after he drops u off

Okay. I must get my driving license ASAP

At least you realise it , some here continue to be one.

Indeed... so stop being a fool. If you are good, girl will come to you. So why so serious to gal, if not suitable just break up. Plenty of nice & pretty girls out there.

I think,

This "your money is my money, my money is my money" thing has to stop. Ladies earn too nowadays, not like last time where mostly only men earns.

Banks don't charge higher interest for women too.

Decades ago you would have to educate girls on their rights but nowadays you need to educate guys to prevent them from being used by girls. How times have changed.

I don't see how this is related to relationship issues

It's totally depends..
some guy will fetch girl..
but some girl will fetch guy...
anyways.. my gf and i will vice-versa of it..

This post has been edited by brahamcook88: Jan 31 2011, 11:55 AM

guys born to be driver?? hehehe

Mee too

this situation is hard to say..probably depends on the person u're going out with..this situation is similar to like..'why not the girl proposes to the guy'.. guys fetching girl from home seems to be a 'tradition' thing.. cause you're the MAN.. imagine other people looking at you in the car thinking..'why is the girl driving? have the guys lost their macho-ness?' usually guys who are very well-manered and manly,will always offer to fetch the girl..as for me,if me and the other guy are just friends..i would just offer to meet him in one place and i drive myself there...or if we stay nearby we can always take turn to drive each other to the place..

if i have a boyf..i would do it vice-versa way..*but would prefer if he could be the one who find me*..its more romantic i guess..

This post has been edited by wyonneh: Jan 31 2011, 01:14 PM

erm i prefer to be fetch but depends on situation...sometime I do fetch guys or even I will drive to the place myself to meet with the guy!

[quote=spanker,Jan 28 2011, 12:39 PM]
She wants to see how much of a doormat you are before dumping you turn into a rag. Believe you me, it won't be long before she asks you to pay for her meals/movies/bills etc.
On the positive side, she asked you to fetch her from her house, meaning she might invite you into her bedroom sometime in the future. Might be worth the investment.

u took the wrods right out of my mouth.......