QUOTE(n00b13 @ Sep 30 2010, 04:02 PM)
I ROFL at this comment! Yes TS, life is still long, if you don't let go even if you're already suffering, there will be no chance for a better one!
DOTA and LOVE, DOTA and LOVE, which would you choose??
|
|
Sep 30 2010, 05:24 PM
|
![]() ![]() ![]()
Junior Member
446 posts Joined: Feb 2007 From: Malaysia |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Sep 30 2010, 05:32 PM
|
![]() ![]() ![]()
Junior Member
325 posts Joined: Jul 2007 |
QUOTE(joyceanne @ Sep 30 2010, 02:16 AM) Well. I will just make it short. don't you get it? you're not attractive to him..it up to you .. you want to stay with him or not..if you are hot women..he will put the game aside...He loves me actually just now he loves dota too. I think. All these times I thought I should do something for him. But I'm very tired dy. Very very tired dy. I don't have the courage to let go. Coz he is the only guy I dated before. It's hard to find someone we really fell in love with. Love is not about money, not about the look. It's about the feelings. I think that's the reason I fell into him. I'm afraid if I let go, I wouldn't meet someone. It's hard. Anyways, thanks fr all the replies. I just registered in this forum yesterday and I found that this forum is really a nice place to visit when I'm very down. Thank you. I shall let go. He wants computer. Not a gf. Thanks a lot people. Thank you so much. Inreally appreciate all the replies very much. It's not only the words. It's all about the support and courage you guys gave me. Thank you. Once again, thank you so much. * of course "Love is not about money, not about the look. It's about the feelings"... because you have no choice but rely on the feeling... you're not a hot women if you're hot women..you will probably think love is about money...because you do value yourself as a A grade in beauty that you willing to dump this game freak guy.. that life This post has been edited by atombom123: Sep 30 2010, 05:40 PM |
|
|
Sep 30 2010, 05:50 PM
|
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
Senior Member
713 posts Joined: Nov 2008 |
You should put your foot down harder on him. You don't like the game, yet you're willing to sit next to him and watch him play?
OKay personally, I enjoy playing DotA very much, and I genuinely do, not because some guy pressure me into it. But I also know that not all girls enjoy it. And when I go to Cyber Cafes, I often see girls sitting next to their BFs, watching blindly as he plays, obviously she was bored. And I always think... What the hell? If you don't like it, at least go surf the net or something. I always think it's stupid for girls to blindly watch their BFs play... Cuz it's damn boring to watch other people play DotA wan k, especially if you're not part of the game...! As for your case, you should really put your foot down and tell him how you feel. If he refused to listen still, then it's okay to walk out. |
|
|
Sep 30 2010, 06:21 PM
|
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
All Stars
15,856 posts Joined: Nov 2007 From: Zion |
QUOTE(ace.princess @ Sep 30 2010, 05:50 PM) You should put your foot down harder on him. You don't like the game, yet you're willing to sit next to him and watch him play? got play GG? OKay personally, I enjoy playing DotA very much, and I genuinely do, not because some guy pressure me into it. But I also know that not all girls enjoy it. And when I go to Cyber Cafes, I often see girls sitting next to their BFs, watching blindly as he plays, obviously she was bored. And I always think... What the hell? If you don't like it, at least go surf the net or something. I always think it's stupid for girls to blindly watch their BFs play... Cuz it's damn boring to watch other people play DotA wan k, especially if you're not part of the game...! As for your case, you should really put your foot down and tell him how you feel. If he refused to listen still, then it's okay to walk out. |
|
|
Sep 30 2010, 06:26 PM
|
![]()
Newbie
0 posts Joined: Sep 2010 |
Don't walk out. Talk to him out of this.
you guys don't understand she got no friends and relative in Perth. If she really walk out she'll be lonely. I know she will make friends in no time but still she'll be loner and it looks pathetic |
|
|
Sep 30 2010, 06:34 PM
|
![]() ![]()
Junior Member
94 posts Joined: Aug 2010 From: Lands From Afar |
I'm coming to Australia next year, can you pay for my studies too?
Anyways, I figure its probably because he doesn't have anybody close to him in Perth apart from you. So he plays DOTA to compensate for that. Simple case, but sadly very true for the majority of people. They get hooked on something because there is nothing else that fulfills the same need. |
|
|
|
|
|
Sep 30 2010, 06:37 PM
|
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
Senior Member
1,142 posts Joined: Jan 2005 |
Hm..i think you have to talk to him this time nicely. If it doesn't work out, better you leave the game and say gg to him. 2 years is nothing, you see some people married for decade still divorce and they can still move on. As there is one saying "can pick up, can put down" if not the "weight" on your shoulder will get heavier and heavier in the end you are the one who suffer
|
|
|
Sep 30 2010, 06:37 PM
|
![]()
Junior Member
40 posts Joined: Sep 2009 From: under the moonlight |
QUOTE(joyceanne @ Sep 30 2010, 03:16 AM) Well. I will just make it short. short statement is shortMe and my bf been together for like 2 years. He is very into Dota. When we were back in Malaysia, when his mom and dad are at home, he didnt play that much. And even if he play, im beside him watching or sleeping. sometimes, i slept on his gaming sofa n he will carry me to room once he done playing. To see him, to spend time with him, I learnt to play. sometimes when i died or feed the game, then he is very unhappy. most of our arguments came from his games. His temper is not that good, that's the problem. We came Perth. and now, its getting worse. He woke up around 4pm, then eat then go campus play dota til 430am. Sometimes i follow him. but sometimes if there are classes next day 8am then I will stay at home. But i feel so boring staying at home. and I dont like waiting the door to be opened. I cried almost everyday. I talked to him. I tried to make him happy. Things are still the same. I even told him "if you continue to behave like that, Im sorry. Im not the girl suitable for you." He continues playing. I couldnt stand it anymore. what else can I do? i say leave him.there's a lot of fish in the sea |
|
|
Sep 30 2010, 06:43 PM
|
![]() ![]()
Junior Member
94 posts Joined: Aug 2010 From: Lands From Afar |
QUOTE(ayanami_tard @ Sep 30 2010, 06:37 PM) Sir, I believe she has invested in this fish:QUOTE(joyceanne @ Sep 30 2010, 03:16 PM) Every guys would experience the study stage. He couldn't pay the expenses becoz he is not from a rich background. His parents can only pay his fees. So I pay lo. But I hope he can wake up from his game and realize his parents ane me work hard to give him a better future. That's why I need help to seek for solution. If she thinks there is still some returns, better not sell yet. Capital also cannot get back liao. |
|
|
Sep 30 2010, 06:43 PM
|
|
VIP
6,758 posts Joined: Jan 2003 From: Sunway |
i only read ur scenario and situation, but i believe, he tried his best to pull u back but he keeps on doing his same mistake
the sane choice would be to leave him, try to not think about dota and live your life healthy. really, i dont understand why guys like these even have a chance to begin with. some nice people, in the end would look at the other end of the fence while the guy mistreats the girl, so damn unfair indeed |
|
|
Sep 30 2010, 06:52 PM
|
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
Senior Member
4,852 posts Joined: Aug 2006 |
Talk to him, TS.
Seems like he is heavily addicted to DotA. You have to do something to let him know that gaming isnt the only thing he have to be concern with. He needs to be concern with you too, and his daily life. I am a gamer myself, but i believe that there is a limit in these gaming addictions. It's alright to get totally addicted for once in a while, but never for long term. I can get totally addicted to a new game once in a while, but I will snap out of it after like a few days to 1 week. |
|
|
Sep 30 2010, 06:53 PM
|
![]()
Junior Member
40 posts Joined: Sep 2009 From: under the moonlight |
|
|
|
Sep 30 2010, 06:54 PM
|
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
Senior Member
4,852 posts Joined: Aug 2006 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Sep 30 2010, 06:57 PM
|
![]() ![]()
Junior Member
213 posts Joined: Sep 2004 From: Seri Kembangan |
rape him XD
|
|
|
Sep 30 2010, 07:51 PM
|
![]() ![]()
Junior Member
207 posts Joined: Mar 2008 |
|
|
|
Sep 30 2010, 08:35 PM
|
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
Senior Member
853 posts Joined: Aug 2008 |
that time TS pm me
|
|
|
Sep 30 2010, 08:45 PM
|
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
Senior Member
649 posts Joined: Aug 2010 |
QUOTE(joyceanne @ Sep 30 2010, 02:16 AM) Well. I will just make it short. You asked for it when you went after him...Me and my bf been together for like 2 years. He is very into Dota. When we were back in Malaysia, when his mom and dad are at home, he didnt play that much. And even if he play, im beside him watching or sleeping. sometimes, i slept on his gaming sofa n he will carry me to room once he done playing. To see him, to spend time with him, I learnt to play. sometimes when i died or feed the game, then he is very unhappy. most of our arguments came from his games. His temper is not that good, that's the problem. We came Perth. and now, its getting worse. He woke up around 4pm, then eat then go campus play dota til 430am. Sometimes i follow him. but sometimes if there are classes next day 8am then I will stay at home. But i feel so boring staying at home. and I dont like waiting the door to be opened. I cried almost everyday. I talked to him. I tried to make him happy. Things are still the same. I even told him "if you continue to behave like that, Im sorry. Im not the girl suitable for you." He continues playing. I couldnt stand it anymore. what else can I do? |
|
|
Sep 30 2010, 08:51 PM
|
![]() ![]() ![]()
Junior Member
431 posts Joined: Mar 2007 |
QUOTE(ace.princess @ Sep 30 2010, 05:50 PM) You should put your foot down harder on him. You don't like the game, yet you're willing to sit next to him and watch him play? Come lets play dota OKay personally, I enjoy playing DotA very much, and I genuinely do, not because some guy pressure me into it. But I also know that not all girls enjoy it. And when I go to Cyber Cafes, I often see girls sitting next to their BFs, watching blindly as he plays, obviously she was bored. And I always think... What the hell? If you don't like it, at least go surf the net or something. I always think it's stupid for girls to blindly watch their BFs play... Cuz it's damn boring to watch other people play DotA wan k, especially if you're not part of the game...! As for your case, you should really put your foot down and tell him how you feel. If he refused to listen still, then it's okay to walk out. Added on September 30, 2010, 8:54 pm QUOTE(joyceanne @ Sep 30 2010, 03:46 PM) He loves me actually just now he loves dota too. I think. All these times I thought I should do something for him. But I'm very tired dy. Very very tired dy. I don't have the courage to let go. Coz he is the only guy I dated before. It's hard to find someone we really fell in love with. Love is not about money, not about the look. It's about the feelings. I think that's the reason I fell into him. I'm afraid if I let go, I wouldn't meet someone. It's hard. Anyways, thanks fr all the replies. I just registered in this forum yesterday and I found that this forum is really a nice place to visit when I'm very down. Thank you. I shall let go. He wants computer. Not a gf. Thanks a lot people. Thank you so much. Inreally appreciate all the replies very much. It's not only the words. It's all about the support and courage you guys gave me. Thank you. Once again, thank you so much. Silly, you'll get your chance to meet lots of people. Well you can try what i do, whenever i'm interested in someone, i'd take months to know the person, know her habits, character, etc. If i'm still interested then we'll see how.That way you avoid situations like these. =) This post has been edited by Tak3shi: Sep 30 2010, 08:54 PM |
|
|
Sep 30 2010, 09:03 PM
|
![]()
Newbie
16 posts Joined: Sep 2010 From: Perth, Australia |
QUOTE(fujkenasai @ Sep 30 2010, 03:55 PM) slipper guy? Definately should dump him, he should work part time to pay you back if he is a human being esp a guy and not play dota all day and night. I wanna see how he walks through the 1st sem? Curtin University.Which uni is it murdoch, curtin, Nottingham or Edith Cowan. Definately not UWA. Im in Mechanical Engineering 3rd Year 2nd Sem. Any friends here? |
|
|
Sep 30 2010, 09:04 PM
|
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
Senior Member
2,201 posts Joined: Mar 2010 |
|
| Change to: | 0.0214sec
0.65
5 queries
GZIP Disabled
Time is now: 1st December 2025 - 05:04 AM |