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 DOTA and LOVE, DOTA and LOVE, which would you choose??

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Tak3shi
post Sep 30 2010, 09:18 AM

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QUOTE(joyceanne @ Sep 30 2010, 02:16 AM)
Well. I will just make it short.
Me and my bf been together for like 2 years.
He is very into Dota. When we were back in Malaysia, when his mom and dad are at home, he didnt play that much.
And even if he play, im beside him watching or sleeping.
sometimes, i slept on his gaming sofa n he will carry me to room once he done playing.
To see him, to spend time with him, I learnt to play.
sometimes when i died or feed the game, then he is very unhappy.
most of our arguments came from his games.
His temper is not that good, that's the problem.

We came Perth. and now, its getting worse.
He woke up around 4pm, then eat then go campus play dota til 430am.
Sometimes i follow him. but sometimes if there are classes next day 8am then I will stay at home.
But i feel so boring staying at home.
and I dont like waiting the door to be opened.
I cried almost everyday.
I talked to him.
I tried to make him happy.
Things are still the same.

I even told him "if you continue to behave like that, Im sorry. Im not the girl suitable for you."
He continues playing.

I couldnt stand it anymore.
what else can I do?  sad.gif
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He's addicted to Dota, it's his life. As said before his priority is Dota over you, way over you if even breakup doesn't bring a reaction.

I don't think you will be able to change him, so it's either you accept being 2nd to Dota or leave him.
Tak3shi
post Sep 30 2010, 09:31 AM

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QUOTE(eruannwen @ Sep 30 2010, 08:51 AM)
Ur guy has determined his priority, from what u've shared.

Isn't it about time u determined ur own priority?
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Tak3shi
post Sep 30 2010, 02:40 PM

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QUOTE(lindaraof @ Sep 30 2010, 02:35 PM)
find anor game to play and then become addicted like him...

that way, you'll think less about him..
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I hope this is said in jest because i feel like slapping you. laugh.gif
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post Sep 30 2010, 08:51 PM

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QUOTE(ace.princess @ Sep 30 2010, 05:50 PM)
You should put your foot down harder on him. You don't like the game, yet you're willing to sit next to him and watch him play?

OKay personally, I enjoy playing DotA very much, and I genuinely do, not because some guy pressure me into it. But I also know that not all girls enjoy it. And when I go to Cyber Cafes, I often see girls sitting next to their BFs, watching blindly as he plays, obviously she was bored. And I always think... What the hell? If you don't like it, at least go surf the net or something. I always think it's stupid for girls to blindly watch their BFs play... Cuz it's damn boring to watch other people play DotA wan k, especially if you're not part of the game...!

As for your case, you should really put your foot down and tell him how you feel. If he refused to listen still, then it's okay to walk out.
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QUOTE(joyceanne @ Sep 30 2010, 03:46 PM)
He loves me actually just now he loves dota too. I think. All these times I thought I should do something for him. But I'm very tired dy. Very very tired dy. I don't have the courage to let go. Coz he is the only guy I dated before. It's hard to find someone we really fell in love with. Love is not about money, not about the look. It's about the feelings. I think that's the reason I fell into him. I'm afraid if I let go, I wouldn't meet someone. It's hard. Anyways, thanks fr all the replies. I just registered in this forum yesterday and I found that this forum is really a nice place to visit when I'm very down. Thank you. I shall let go. He wants computer. Not a gf. Thanks a lot people. Thank you so much. Inreally appreciate all the replies very much. It's not only the words. It's all about the support and courage you guys gave me. Thank you. Once again, thank you so much.
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Silly, you'll get your chance to meet lots of people. Well you can try what i do, whenever i'm interested in someone, i'd take months to know the person, know her habits, character, etc. If i'm still interested then we'll see how.

That way you avoid situations like these. =)

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post Sep 30 2010, 09:31 PM

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QUOTE(yeohmaggie @ Sep 30 2010, 06:26 PM)
Don't walk out. Talk to him out of this.
you guys don't understand she got no friends and relative in Perth.
If she really walk out she'll be lonely.
I know she will make friends in no time but still she'll be loner and it looks pathetic
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So? I believe she is stronger than that and not a baby to be cuddled. Where's all the women power? There are quite a few lowyat citizens who are studying in australia meet new friends, get to see the world.
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post Sep 30 2010, 09:33 PM

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QUOTE(joyceanne @ Sep 30 2010, 09:31 PM)
Ermm... not really.
When i got back to malaysia, my friends are not at kk, n my family is busy, then i go out alone.
I used to stick my 'ex bf' a lot. like super glue. When he play basketball, then i sit beside n watch.
Is that sticky?
Then after he told me he doesnt like it, then i stay at home play with my dog or play some uplevel online game.
Last few weeks, I keep going out with my friends.
He told me he doesnt like it and he feel secure with me sitting beside him while he was playing game.
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Go make more friends. =)
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post Sep 30 2010, 09:49 PM

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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Sep 30 2010, 09:46 PM)
joyceanne back on the market!  rclxm9.gif
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Give her cooling of period, dun adv so fast bro after rebound.
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post Sep 30 2010, 09:51 PM

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Added on September 30, 2010, 9:52 pm
QUOTE(n00b13 @ Sep 30 2010, 09:51 PM)
Not advancing laa. Just announcing.  biggrin.gif
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Buayas will flood no steve irwin to halau lol

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post Oct 5 2010, 12:47 PM

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QUOTE(zstan @ Oct 4 2010, 10:31 PM)
she's from sabah la u buaya
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+999 KV buaya, i resurrect steve irwin to tangkap!

 

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