Well. I will just make it short.
Me and my bf been together for like 2 years.
He is very into Dota. When we were back in Malaysia, when his mom and dad are at home, he didnt play that much.
And even if he play, im beside him watching or sleeping.
sometimes, i slept on his gaming sofa n he will carry me to room once he done playing.
To see him, to spend time with him, I learnt to play.
sometimes when i died or feed the game, then he is very unhappy.
most of our arguments came from his games.
His temper is not that good, that's the problem.

We came Perth. and now, its getting worse.
He woke up around 4pm, then eat then go campus play dota til 430am.
Sometimes i follow him. but sometimes if there are classes next day 8am then I will stay at home.
But i feel so boring staying at home.
and I dont like waiting the door to be opened.
I cried almost everyday.
I talked to him.
I tried to make him happy.
Things are still the same.

I even told him "if you continue to behave like that, Im sorry. Im not the girl suitable for you."
He continues playing.

I couldnt stand it anymore.
what else can I do?

DOTA > you

GG

This post has been edited by HuorEarfalas: Sep 30 2010, 02:43 AM

Addiction in games will distract someone from reality.

so you should pawn him back by choosing love and leave him.

I thought those who are going overseas are smarter?

where got. this is wrong concept.

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Added on September 30, 2010, 3:11 ambut its a 2 years relationship. Its hard to let go and forget.

This post has been edited by joyceanne: Sep 30 2010, 03:11 AM

is ur bf started addicted dota since way back in high school life?

I want to ask, how did he celebrate with you in important happenings such as birthday and Valentines day?

I doubt anyone can help you if you're reluctant to bring him back to reality. Games are really addictive and once he's stuck, he's really stuck ( just like me ) . Nonetheless, if you aren't taking any action, what we can do is just to comfort you. Think about it. You must talk to him and let him know games and gf are two different thing. He must have balance or lose one.

Two years relationship and he can start to treasure his games more than you? Does it look like 2 years relationship worth less than a game which will get outdated in a few years to come?

He forgotten our anniversary.
Valentines day? ermm.. we had dinner then back home dota.

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Added on September 30, 2010, 3:29 amYupe. very very addicted.

This post has been edited by joyceanne: Sep 30 2010, 03:29 AM

im sorry but......



if its like this, leave him

Doesn't seem to be healthy.

Dinner, then DOTA...makes things that happened beforehand looks insignificant compared to DOTA.

You must really talk to him about this.

This post has been edited by Kampung2005: Sep 30 2010, 03:32 AM

We actually broke up many times. then he came n get me back.
Last semester, when i really didnt want to get back to him, he flew to perth and get me back.
I was touched then get back to him.
But things didnt change.
It get worse.
I treasure this relationship a lot.
you are addicted as well?
Then what do you choose?

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Added on September 30, 2010, 3:35 amI did.
talked nicely, talked with tears, sms, talked on the pillow.
everything i tried.
He told me he loves me and I have to tolerate his hobby if I love him too.
But its really suffering.
If i dont play with him, im like no bf.
If i dont watch him play, whole night i wait at home.
If i dont let him play, he said that i dont love him.
If i follow him play, Im like wasting my parents money here in Perth studying.

This post has been edited by joyceanne: Sep 30 2010, 03:35 AM

You seem to have BF more in terms of "name" than function.

well,hardcore dota kaki i must say....old habits die hard.....
try talk wit him....get things work out wit patience...
diversed him wit some other activity....mayb outdoor/indoor...

sry to say ur bf still not that mature yet...

your bf is so stupid la =.= sorry to say tis

the term 'bf' is better not?
If i post his name later he lost his dignity.
I have to respect his face?
keke.

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Added on September 30, 2010, 3:43 amThank you. =)
I will try.
But whenever i told him to go shopping with me. His face so dark.
Its like we go shopping once a month ony.
He sleep til 4pm. how to go out oh?
Perth everywhere including supermarket close at 5pm.
fuhhhh......

This post has been edited by joyceanne: Sep 30 2010, 03:43 AM

It is no use for you to keep him around..
I know that us guys want personal space and all but totally not giving a damn when you are in a relationship is unforgivable..
I suggest that you leave him for good..
I have a lot of friends who are DOTA addicts but not as bad..all of them got dumped because to them DOTA>sex

My reply has nothing to do with person's name.

I mean, "You are in relationship, but looking at your BF who spends more time on DOTA...sometimes, you are not getting the full benefits from a relationship".