Given ultimatum, hopefully your BF will wake up

You should go outside too, not just being at home.

This post has been edited by Kampung2005: Sep 30 2010, 09:09 PM

Finally someone really understand my situation.
Thank you MAggie.
Thank you so much.
I have friends here but not very close coz different courses.
Im in mechanical engineering where all the ang mo and nerd guys.
They only stayed at home.
I only rely on internet and my books.
Even now, I just broke up with him.
I can only sit here crying alone reading all the comments.
Pity hor.
Thanks a lot MAggie.
I will move on and be very tough.

Do you consider to go out alone, travel alone?

Thank you everyone. I talked to him like 20 mins ago. Telling him I wish he could study harder and not playing 10 hours per day. And I told him I hope he can change his temper. He replied me "Every guys like to play. Im one of them. since im not the type that you want, lets break up." He said it with anger. very angry. I said okay then burst into tears. He walked out of the house. 2 years of relationship just ended. I dont know what else to say. Thank you guys for the replies. Thank you so much. Thank you. Im not a hot woman. Not someone who thinks that im very valuable myself. Its just that I appreciate the relationship and the memories and thats why Im trying my very best to hold on. I dont have much friends here in Perth. Hopefully everything will be okay. Thank you so much for all the advise.

anyone wanna play dota with me? Im very very down now.
lets play gg.

Here's one thing I've learned:

Don't be afraid of saying "I'm lonely and I need friends."

Seriously. It may be humbling to say, but it will help. Most people will respond well. Most people understand that feeling, because most people have felt it before. Most people will help someone who asks for help. Most people are nice.

Go look for your not-very-close friends. Join their gang, join their outings, let them know you appreciate their company. Surround yourself with awesum friends, and forget your DotArd ex.

This post has been edited by n00b13: Sep 30 2010, 09:20 PM

Ticket very expensive bah. somemore no break. Summer break I have to do internship here. CNY probably can only go back home for 2 weeks.
thanks a lot for all the concern.

I see. However, are you the one who always stick with someone when going out?

So? I believe she is stronger than that and not a baby to be cuddled. Where's all the women power? There are quite a few lowyat citizens who are studying in australia meet new friends, get to see the world.

Ermm... not really.
When i got back to malaysia, my friends are not at kk, n my family is busy, then i go out alone.
I used to stick my 'ex bf' a lot. like super glue. When he play basketball, then i sit beside n watch.
Is that sticky?
Then after he told me he doesnt like it, then i stay at home play with my dog or play some uplevel online game.
Last few weeks, I keep going out with my friends.
He told me he doesnt like it and he feel secure with me sitting beside him while he was playing game.

It is definitely very "sticky", i wouldn't say it is necessarily a bad thing, because different guys have different preferences. The only thing, would you be bored, on yourself?

Hah, i am Sabahan too

Go make more friends. =)

Try leave him for awhile,if he really love u,he will come for u,if not its time to get a real bf..

bored? ermm..... sometimes? if bored then play some games? chat with my friends and do some assignments?

hi Sabahan! im from kk. graduated from all saints 2006.

DOTA = Dunia Orang Takde Awek

Thank you.
I really hope he will come back.
If he wont, then I really have to move on very tough.
Thanks.

I see, surely you do shopping as well

You were in KK, much easier for you than in my hometown.

SM All Saints......well, i am from Sandakan....also graduated from school in 2006.

sorry to hear that, i hope things will be good on ur end, and ahhh, im such a lousy gamer, lol! when i was there it was counterstrike, dota, i know nothing, its always my lil brothers generation, lol!

joyceanne back on the market!

joyceanne, dun go back, walk out of this. i recommend you to join lowyat forum kopitiam, will give you alot of laughter. just be careful dun kena bash. if just reading, can be really fun and time consuming haha. =D

although i quit dota long time ago, if u really want i can play wif u later.....

just get out of this shit.

Give her cooling of period, dun adv so fast bro after rebound.