it's better u get married first..
then u know...

This post has been edited by gjohn: Mar 16 2011, 11:52 AM

sorry i skipped quite a number of pages, just my opinion, i've been with my current gf for 3 years now and we're already planning marriage so i'll go on to say that sex shouldnt be the deal breaker in a relationship. I admit sex does make a relationship stronger but if the relationship is built solely on it then no point calling it a relationship la, might as well call it a regular F-session with your usual F-buddy. My two cents la! hope no one offended.

+1

So true.

lol spanker

ask a woman to describe what she wants in a man, and she describes another woman

It's like this:

Guys who aren't virgins will always say: I NEED SEX NOW
Guys who are virgins (Part 1): I NEED SEX RIGHT NOW
Guys who are virgins (Part 2): I think secks should be okay...
Guys who are virgins (Part 3): Sex after marriage

Girls who aren't virgins will say (part 1): I NEED SEX NOW
Girls who aren't virgins will say (part 2): Sex is normal
Girls who are virgin will say (part 1): Maybe...No.Sex after marriage
Girls who are virgin will say (part 2): Sex after marriage

Conclusion: It depends on the individual.

If your partner is a virgin and doesn't want to have sex, don't be such d***/vag heads by pestering them into having it. It's all about respect for one another.

No music = no life
No sex = no life

End of story.
U dont give we go DIY or go curi makan then come back with mouth wiped clean.

why relationship all must be kotor one?

juz have after marriage la.. if have before, afterwards get pregnant lah, sudah bekas org la, saham jatuh la, kena label x virgin la, all bawak masalah only.

i agree sex is a whole lotta fun. but a real relationship should be based on long term true feelings with each other rather than based on lust.

what is it that u love about your partner? they as themselves or, their umm ummm only?

What makes you think only one thing can be the basis of a real relationship?

Why must sex always be associated with kotor? It is such a beautiful thing.

i didnt say sex is kotor. minds of people is kotor. wanna have sex like theres no other way around it when it comes to relationships.

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Added on January 12, 2012, 6:02 pmalamak why want to go so literal one? of course i meant it as the MAIN one la.

This post has been edited by noonies_naruto: Jan 12 2012, 06:02 PM

What makes you think there must be a MAIN one? What makes you think lust cannot be a "long term true feeling"?

I heard somewhere that your reality is wat peoples perceive about u.
When everyone says that u r dirty. I guess u r dirty regardless wat u think.

sex b4 marriage is good. coz u can guage if he/she gonna satisfy you after marriage.

if after marriage found out he/she dungu/starfish liddat, die lo. sex therapist gonna cost a bomb.

thats why men go cheong to release tension, no strings attached. now high class cheong place 200bux with good clean hotel environment all products tested to be clean and smell nice also.

you're a real horny person aren't you

malaysia have sex therapist ?

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Added on January 12, 2012, 7:13 pmthere is no such thing as mind kotor.......its how human body function

let me give you some science so that you can dekotorized yourself.......man usually if not always at constant arousal...little bit or alot...n that trigger something in the prostate bla bla bla....when that prostate is full or something like that.....it's like ur bladder full... wanna pee, but for this instance....sex or to ejaculate sperm

either man masturbate or sex or wet dream or massage your prostate with a specialized stick to stick in the man anus to milk or drain the prostate fluid, relieve the prostate or something like that....

just general info...correct me if im wrong

This post has been edited by dr2k3: Jan 12 2012, 07:18 PM

So is everyone, including you. Difference is, I don't repress it.

Been with my gf for 2 years. Second gf. Am the kind of guy that do not believe at love at first sight but rather when someone naturally comes to your life, it means you're fated. Don't feel the need to go out of my way to ask out a girl. Old fashioned in a sense.

Not that I don't lust for sex but I respect her enough to hold back the desires. In fact we're both virgins. Do I feel ashamed? Not really. Its not like I'm ugly and I have enough self esteem beyond the need to prove to others. I don't really give a shit to the logic of having to have sex while we are young and still capable. Don't need to get peer pressured by the change in societal views.

We're still going strong and more loving than ever. I don't think I'll need sex to maintain my relationship. Not saying it won't just happen, just saying I have proven to myself that being in a relationship does not automatically equate to sex. Of course theres alot of touching etc (you get the drift) but sexual intercourse isn't needed.

I didnt mean mind kotor as in if you think about sex 24/7 you are kotor. I'm juz saying in relationship, doesnt necessarily mean NO MATTER WHAT MUST HAVE SEX.. before marriage, can always keep relationship without sex maaa.. some people juz enjoy too much of sex until they forget the MAIN reason for a relationship..
whether u repress or not, im not so interested in your sexual wtever but if that is what has been MAINLY driving your long term relationship, one day your beautiful wife/gf, everyday u hav sex with her one and then one day accident face all become haywire see la u wanna lust some more or not..

Again, you seem to place far too little importance on sex as part of a healthy relationship. You even think having sex every day is a bad thing. Try reading this.

There's no harm mate, likely cause your girl has the same mindset as you, and that's a good thing There's compatibility. Having sex is between you and her, no one else really. There's nothing to prove.

The fact is though, sex is a motivator in a relationship (why do you think no-premarital-sex cultures have people marrying young?) and also something a relationship needs as you grow older. You'll hardly find a couple that is between 25-30 that's not having sex and also not planning for marriage. As your relationship progresses and sex is not in sight, problems start to happen.