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Serious Relationship with sex VS Non sex relationship., Boys and Girls, pls comment.
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happy4ever
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Jan 12 2012, 11:54 PM
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QUOTE(noonies_naruto @ Jan 12 2012, 07:46 PM) I didnt mean mind kotor as in if you think about sex 24/7 you are kotor. I'm juz saying in relationship, doesnt necessarily mean NO MATTER WHAT MUST HAVE SEX.. before marriage, can always keep relationship without sex maaa.. some people juz enjoy too much of sex until they forget the MAIN reason for a relationship.. whether u repress or not, im not so interested in your sexual wtever but if that is what has been MAINLY driving your long term relationship, one day your beautiful wife/gf, everyday u hav sex with her one and then one day accident face all become haywire see la u wanna lust some more or not.. you should try sex with another man. opens up your perception of sex to a whole new world of excitement and heaven
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noonies_naruto
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Jan 13 2012, 12:46 AM
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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Jan 12 2012, 09:07 PM) Again, you seem to place far too little importance on sex as part of a healthy relationship. You even think having sex every day is a bad thing. Try reading this.and you were just putting SEX as the MAIN element of a relationship.. I said a relationship should be based on true feelings towards each other. Even a guy mati pucuk also can still love someone if that partner can sacrifice sex to love him. and what the heck.. i never said sex everyday is a bad thing. Please la dont simply misrepresent. SEX is never the main thing in a relationship. "Why u love me??" "oh becoz i wanna have sex with you everyday" "......."
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happy4ever
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Jan 13 2012, 01:17 AM
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QUOTE(noonies_naruto @ Jan 13 2012, 12:46 AM) and you were just putting SEX as the MAIN element of a relationship.. I said a relationship should be based on true feelings towards each other. Even a guy mati pucuk also can still love someone if that partner can sacrifice sex to love him. and what the heck.. i never said sex everyday is a bad thing. Please la dont simply misrepresent. SEX is never the main thing in a relationship. "Why u love me??" "oh becoz i wanna have sex with you everyday" "......." dey, mati pucuk can still provide sex to partner la. never heard of the tongue tornado before? unless he tongue and fingers also don have la.
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silverhawk
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Jan 13 2012, 02:54 AM
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Eyes on Target
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QUOTE(noonies_naruto @ Jan 13 2012, 12:46 AM) and you were just putting SEX as the MAIN element of a relationship.. I said a relationship should be based on true feelings towards each other. Even a guy mati pucuk also can still love someone if that partner can sacrifice sex to love him. and what the heck.. i never said sex everyday is a bad thing. Please la dont simply misrepresent. SEX is never the main thing in a relationship. "Why u love me??" "oh becoz i wanna have sex with you everyday" "......."
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Cottoncandyclouds
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Jan 19 2012, 05:17 PM
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Its a form of bonding. If we peer in a little deeper, there's is non penetrative and penetrative intercourse. Does that matter to you?
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SUSDeadlocks
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Jan 19 2012, 10:18 PM
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LOL.
Do people not understand that SEX, is the best, tangible, physical way for couples to experience love? While there are matters of the heart, that it is more of the feelings than the intercourse, it does not mean that the intercourse should be pushed away completely. It simply means that BOTH are equally as important where the SEX-less part (feelings) of the relationship must both come in terms with the SEX, physical way of experiencing love.
There are no NON-sex relationships. Only relationships which could not go on because there are no SEX, not because it is about SEX, but it's because it's about not coming in terms with the physical need to express affection. Just because females have less libido than a male, it DOES NOT MEAN that you have no libido. Get that straight.
This post has been edited by Deadlocks: Jan 19 2012, 10:20 PM
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Cottoncandyclouds
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Jan 19 2012, 11:35 PM
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@dedloks
Thats why sex is labelled as the part where a relationship is consummated. heh
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Walla07
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Jan 21 2012, 07:10 PM
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like QUOTE(spunkberry @ Sep 2 2010, 01:08 AM) sex is not the point of a relationship, rather it is the bonus. it is not necessary for a relationship, in fact, it is a good test to see if he's only in it for the sex or not ... but sex within marriage is one of many important factors to its lasting.
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