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Serious Relationship with sex VS Non sex relationship., Boys and Girls, pls comment.

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post Sep 2 2010, 04:55 PM

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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Sep 2 2010, 01:30 AM)
don't know the kind of people you talk with tech, but I know a lot of non-virgins who agree that sex is not necessary.
People who think sex is overrated are just not doing it right. biggrin.gif


Added on September 2, 2010, 4:57 pm
QUOTE(forestace @ Sep 2 2010, 09:53 AM)
haha true love waits.. if you really love that girl..you shouldnt have sex till you are married coz any unplanned pregnancy or so will effect the future of the both of you.
You tau kah apa ini benda?

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post Sep 2 2010, 10:27 PM

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QUOTE(SwooshY @ Sep 2 2010, 10:18 PM)
Sex can be boring too after many sessions of it.. As cuddling holding hands will be too  hmm.gif
Example:
Spanker: (In mind) My pistol is in a cooldown time now, I just can't up it anymore until few more minutes. And yet she is like a monster, she wants it now!!
Your pistol isn't the only thing that can please her laa. brows.gif


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post Sep 4 2010, 09:06 PM

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QUOTE(wilz @ Sep 4 2010, 06:15 PM)
Relationship work out happily only can have these mutual feeling call lust and sex. Rite?
Hell no. biggrin.gif


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post Sep 13 2010, 05:36 PM

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QUOTE(dexterhau @ Sep 13 2010, 05:32 PM)
Coz my GF sucks in sex thingy. Can't statisfy me. T.T Any advise? tongue.gif
Practice. Lots and lots of practice. laugh.gif


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post Sep 13 2010, 06:47 PM

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QUOTE(the_catacombs @ Sep 13 2010, 06:34 PM)
sex is over rated...
As I have previously said on this very thread, people who say sex is over-rated are just not doing it rite. laugh.gif

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post Sep 13 2010, 07:16 PM

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QUOTE(dexterhau @ Sep 13 2010, 06:54 PM)
I asked her before how do she feel and so on. She say don't know how to explain la but I know she is enjoying la. The problem is she said she is too lazy to do other things and just let me play over her body and she just lie on the bed. She only like the man top women bottom position because thats the position that she can lie down comfortably and enjoy. Not fair... Sometimes I do enjoy but not everytime. How ah?
Well, it does sound like she's a selfish lover...

But first, consider improving your own skills first. If you want her to be more proactive, you need to really get her aroused. Then only she'll be semangat. brows.gif It could be that she's never really known how good sex can be - a lot of Asian/traditionally-minded women have that problem.

Learn how to give her an orgasm. And learn how to tell if her orgasm is real. biggrin.gif

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post Sep 13 2010, 08:01 PM

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QUOTE(dexterhau @ Sep 13 2010, 07:24 PM)
How to make her semangat ah? When i aroused her until her orgasm (I supposed), then she say she is too tired to continue. Not even start cucuk sudah wan to sleep... T.T How la, I got semangat... Thats why sometimes I rather watch porn then making love... T.T Where to find a sex partner... HELP ME!!!
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Again - make the effort to learn new things before you give up.

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post Sep 27 2010, 10:25 PM

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QUOTE(Kent3888 @ Sep 27 2010, 09:13 PM)
R u a female? wow... u can accept this?? ur hubby having sex with other hotties??
You dunno how to read izzit? rolleyes.gif


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post Dec 16 2010, 01:05 AM

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QUOTE(mIssfROGY @ Dec 16 2010, 12:54 AM)
I m just saying that there are cases like this n i definitely do not want to die a virgin  shocking.gif
I can help you with that. brows.gif

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post Dec 16 2010, 01:21 AM

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QUOTE(mIssfROGY @ Dec 16 2010, 01:16 AM)
sweat.gif durh not every tom d*** n harry laaaaaaa
But I'm not any tom d*** and harry. I'm good. brows.gif

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post Dec 16 2010, 01:28 AM

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QUOTE(mIssfROGY @ Dec 16 2010, 01:24 AM)
Walau so perasan, is that self claimed or wellknown?
Coming from yourself.......i m doubtful  whistling.gif
I do not simply make claims. I offer free trial. brows.gif

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post Dec 21 2010, 05:11 PM

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QUOTE(evanesence117 @ Sep 4 2010, 04:49 PM)
well I don't know but to me I think a relationship could make do without sex, I feel the other more important factors like communication, shared interest and so on are more important, I feel the emotional connection is more important than a physical one. when a courtship turns into a sex fest that is just plain lust not love
QUOTE(debbieyss @ Dec 20 2010, 10:57 AM)
Finally one of the wise replies spotted.
What makes you think sex is not an emotional connection? biggrin.gif

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post Dec 22 2010, 01:17 PM

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QUOTE(princess_s @ Dec 21 2010, 10:05 PM)
don't give sex too soon. guys just won't appreciate it.
If you give me sex, I will appreciate it very very much. brows.gif


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post Dec 22 2010, 05:14 PM

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Who says men don't appreciate sex? laugh.gif


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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Dec 22 2010, 05:10 PM)
I have never said sex is not an emotional connection, what I mean is it's not of selfish intention. Would you lay down your life for the gal you have just had sex with?
Well, that depends on the kind of sex we just had. It could be joyless, passionless, and barely any different from masturbating. Or it could be mind-blowingly amazing, both physically and emotionally.

No, I have never laid down my life for a girl I've had sex with. But I have had the kind of sex where, immediately afterwards, when we're both lying in bed and she's in my arms and I'm looking in her eyes, I swore I would lay down my life for her.

Yes, that feeling faded. I broke up with her, although I remember her fondly. But life and love is made up of moments. And although moments never last, together they all add up to a happy whole.

Anyway, what I'm saying is that sex can and should be one of a couple's happiest moments together - as long as it is the right kind of sex. Which is why I have always said, people who think sex is overrated are doin it rong. biggrin.gif



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post Jan 12 2012, 05:08 PM

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QUOTE(noonies_naruto @ Jan 12 2012, 04:50 PM)
i agree sex is a whole lotta fun. but a real relationship should be based on long term true feelings with each other rather than based on lust.
What makes you think only one thing can be the basis of a real relationship?

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post Jan 12 2012, 06:18 PM

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QUOTE(noonies_naruto @ Jan 12 2012, 06:00 PM)
alamak why want to go so literal one? of course i meant it as the MAIN one la.
What makes you think there must be a MAIN one? What makes you think lust cannot be a "long term true feeling"?

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post Jan 12 2012, 07:20 PM

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QUOTE(noonies_naruto @ Jan 12 2012, 07:02 PM)
you're a real horny person aren't you  cool2.gif
So is everyone, including you. Difference is, I don't repress it.

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post Jan 12 2012, 08:07 PM

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QUOTE(noonies_naruto @ Jan 12 2012, 07:46 PM)
I didnt mean mind kotor as in if you think about sex 24/7 you are kotor. I'm juz saying in relationship, doesnt necessarily mean NO MATTER WHAT MUST HAVE SEX.. before marriage, can always keep relationship without sex maaa.. some people juz enjoy too much of sex until they forget the MAIN reason for a relationship..
whether u repress or not, im not so interested in your sexual wtever but if that is what has been MAINLY driving your long term relationship, one day your beautiful wife/gf, everyday u hav sex with her one and then one day accident face all become haywire see la u wanna lust some more or not..
Again, you seem to place far too little importance on sex as part of a healthy relationship. You even think having sex every day is a bad thing. Try reading this.



 

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