Been with my gf for 2 years. Second gf. Am the kind of guy that do not believe at love at first sight but rather when someone naturally comes to your life, it means you're fated. Don't feel the need to go out of my way to ask out a girl. Old fashioned in a sense.

Not that I don't lust for sex but I respect her enough to hold back the desires. In fact we're both virgins. Do I feel ashamed? Not really. Its not like I'm ugly and I have enough self esteem beyond the need to prove to others. I don't really give a shit to the logic of having to have sex while we are young and still capable. Don't need to get peer pressured by the change in societal views.

We're still going strong and more loving than ever. I don't think I'll need sex to maintain my relationship. Not saying it won't just happen, just saying I have proven to myself that being in a relationship does not automatically equate to sex. Of course theres alot of touching etc (you get the drift) but sexual intercourse isn't needed.