Er no. If you really loved her you won't even want to kongket this china girl. End of.

why does it have to mean that? all of them have been or are in great relationships. maybe you people make yourselves feel better about what you're saying because you tell yourselves that the only possible way a non-virgin can be happy in a sexless marriage is because of a bad first experience? Whose first experience is good anyway?

you guys just want to confirm that your view is correct by giving me examples of people who whine in CC as good examples.

This post has been edited by spunkberry: Sep 2 2010, 05:06 AM

A drowning man will clutch at a straw

Some of your justifications are just - out of this world.

I sense projection lolol

Once you start it's kinda hard to stop (the first 6 months)

When it's ongoing you wished it end faster (the later part, same partner for ages)

mostly yeah. but i do think sex is not that necessary in a relationship.

If you're doing to often with your partner at the early stage of relationship, but lesser as time goes by, I felt that is really offensive to girls. Will girls really think, "early stage love me so much till wanna do it to me everynite, later part of relationship pulak must control control".

Will girls think that way? Will girls actually mind if the guy want it so frequent? 2-3 times a week is it too much?

lol, u kongkeng her or him. lmao

haha true love waits.. if you really love that girl..you shouldnt have sex till you are married coz any unplanned pregnancy or so will effect the future of the both of you.

so if you really love someone..why ot try saying true love waits and u wait and when u get married... u can have all de sex u wan in the world with her..

It's not to say offensive to girls. Let me correct. Usually is the girls' desire that's waning 1st. Naturally both will have reduced libido (after 1st year or further on..)

I've never met a guy who doesn't want sex with their girl at every opportunity they can get. Thats of course unless they are gay.

How is it offensive to girls? Each girl have their own sex drives. Some of my girl friends have a very high sex drive and their bfs are more than happy for it. While as some girls, like my gf, have quite moderate to low sex drive. But I'm not complaining either.

I think if you're doing it too often with your gf, they might think that you're only with them for their body and not for their heart. IMO, that would be quite offensive to some women unless they are doing the same thing. But that might not be the case if both parties understand that they are merely just "FUBU".

In my first year of relationship, I would say I used to get a lot of sex. At least once a month (still too hot for each other and always touching here and there). Second year, at least once every 2 months (starting to get busy with work and don't get to see each other much). Third year, none at all (hardcore busy and a lot of traveling. When I want, she not free. When she wants, she's having period ). Fourth year, so far 3 times since May.

So I would say sex is not a must for relationship to go strong. Its just some added advantages. Though I've seen a few friends who do wish to remain virgin until they get married and some of them had been together for at least 8 years. So yeah, sex is not a must.

Not quite sure why you're contradicting yourself, unless you're saying that marriage is not a relationship.

Well I don't know the kind of people you talk with, but I know a lot of non-virgins (and some virgins) who think sex is absolutely necessary.

Wrong, as women grow older, their sexual appetite increases, all the way up to menopause, after which, it can go either way.

marriage is the licence to have sex??
if sex within marriage is one of many important factors to its lasting why sex within dating period is not one of many important factors to its lasting??

and you are attracted to someone because you want to have sex. That is the whole purpose of attraction my dear.

Also sex is necessary in a relationship, even you agree with that because you said that its essential for marriages to last long. What is a marriage if not a relationship?

OT -- Finally. *grabs popcorn*

When you're in love with someone, sex won't be the 1st thing that comes to your mind. Especially for girls, they prefer more cuddling, kissing, hugging and talking than just sex. Usually, only guys would be all hamsap, which i think deprive the girl of a more wholesome relationship.

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Added on September 2, 2010, 11:40 amMy grandparents, being all white hair and impotent ( almost 80++, no more sex i think..) still are lovely and cuddly. They walk also hold hands, feed each other, and my grandad likes to kiss her forehead too, and smells her hair. They have been like this since courtship, according to my mother. haha...

very happy for them

This post has been edited by jaswong: Sep 2 2010, 11:40 AM

What this guy said...

Surprising!

But when they grow old, shld be less lubrication from her; harder to get wet

Uncle spanker duo duo zhi jiao me!

wah...3X topic

Sweet grandparents
Especially the feed part.

I don't expect to have a f**k when I'm in my eighties, no stamina and my knee with her hips might give way