Not playing around. A female friend of mine was discussing this topic with me recently. A relationship with sex will last longer than a relationship without sex? What do you all think? Sex is needed in maintaining a relationship or sex is just a part of a relationship?

Advice? Comments?

Just try to get some comments bout the topic. Nothin to with my thoughts. Let me clear the air. Cos the feedback from my female friend was too outstanding to come out of a girl's mouth.

I said to her, for some individual sex could be another type of communication bringing a boy and a girl to the closest point with minimum barrier. Its more like seeing through what's under the skin rather than seeing what's under that piece of cloth. Haha..

But she told me, without sex she just thinks that there's limitation to her relationship. Love with a capping could make feel not enough love. Therefore, sex is needed to maintain a relationship. I was so surprise with that line from her mouth.

Give me an urge to tell her you're outstanding!

How to be sure right partner or not? Even after married could divorce. Nowadays, to non virgin pls do whatever you think is right and to virgin, hold on to your virginity till the last. Follow your heart as long you're happy. Nothing to be proud of or shame of. Hehe..

If you're doing to often with your partner at the early stage of relationship, but lesser as time goes by, I felt that is really offensive to girls. Will girls really think, "early stage love me so much till wanna do it to me everynite, later part of relationship pulak must control control".

Will girls think that way? Will girls actually mind if the guy want it so frequent? 2-3 times a week is it too much?

This topic aroused cos she ask me am I a virgin still or been sleeping around with a lot of girls. Then she said her parents advised her million times not to do it with her bf. But she was like, I'm staying with him. How not to do? Then only come to this topic. Told me her past bf, complained bout him and etc.

But pls don't ask if she go back with me after the drink. I send her back only. Hahaha..

Emotional connection, not physical connection. Hmmm.. Phone sex but not physically? Haha.. Joking.. I believe 2 individual able to get to gather is really difficult. Not easy at all. It is important to have emotional connection, interest, compatible believe, attitude, love, understanding and etc to make a relationship work out.

Relationship work out happily only can have these mutual feeling call lust and sex. Rite?