Mind to share what is you opinion for single girls which over 30 years old. Will you approach these girls?

Most said these girls are left over, normally very passive & very choosy to their partner. Or may be have some problem in their personality. No offense, just share you opinion.

If you are at the age around 30.

This post has been edited by jacktai: May 31 2010, 10:11 AM

why not? will definitely approach if you are a men in 40s or 50s and still single...

hey! don't say lah left over, have some respect to the ladies.

This post has been edited by leanman: May 31 2010, 10:10 AM

don't mind as long as they don't look and act like my mother.

of coz i will..as long as she is slimm, sexy and cun....

If there's something wrong with their personality then don't want loh.

if they have big boobs and hot body... why not?

They are desperate and horny and if you're a young and sexy boy, they will ravage you to no end.

Respect your mum and sisters, they are not left over.

Seem no body really experience in meeting or dating these girls...
Which only give very general answer

Personally, I meet few of these colleagues, for some although look ok, but seem they have some problem in personality or very choosy. Especially those never had relationship before...

This post has been edited by jacktai: May 31 2010, 10:25 AM

if like jolin tsai, whynot?

i'm 29 y/o myself, and a feng shui sifu told me that my zodiac (rooster) is match with dragon (5 years elder) so i dun mind mating with a 34 y/o girl if true love exists between us.

hmmm i dun have actual dating experience with 34 y/o ladies at my current age.

regarding your case, if all of them are indeed "have some problem in personality" or "very choosy" then if i were you, i would just not bother with them at all.

too much hassle.
too troublesome.

the older of a women, more mature, y not ~ if men are around that age and single also, y not match

they being chosy coz they don want to waste their time experimenting

if she has few houses, profittable business and cars, why not.

they have their issues but much much better than dating young girls who always clingy and not independent

generally, if they are 30+ and still single, maybe they have not met the one they wanted yet. you would be surprised at how much pretty 30+ single girls there are in churches....

not necessarily.
most of the time they are choosy because they are asking for way too much.

Or because they have had enough of men failing them, they focus on careers instead.

Seem most replier didn't really experience dating/meeting these girls.

Remember most girls at this age probably success in career & money minded, very knowledgeable & experience, or else maybe not good in look or etc.

BTW be in mind girls start aging from age 30's...

well, they could be divorced.
in my current gf's there is a dragon lady, age 34, she's pretty. she's slim. she has a son.

she's currently dating a perodua viva salesman.


those "success in career & money minded, very knowledgeable & experience" probably thinks they are very "qualified" and "deserves better" etc.

+1

Probably they will end up like my ex-Company few managers, 35-40, still single.

y not??? most 30+ gal all r hot .. know wat they wan .. n caring ...
now i personally dating a 31 yrs old lady wit 3 children... ^^

Just do it....

Wow.. you impress me.

But I mean those never had relationship before girls, seem troublesome to be get together.

i never date 30+ year old lady so no comment on it.
depend on fate. i don't care much about finding a relationship.
finding or become desperado will end up hurt ownself.

let everything come in naturally. no rush in everything would be better.

Please dont use such harsh words like leftover, some people just never have the fate to meet their loved ones in a life time. Maybe it could happen to you or your children too.

Why not give people a chance and give yourself a chance? If you just wanna approach her to 'mount' her, even then is no loss to you. If you want to get into a serious relationship with her, then dont stereotype her before you even know her.

agreed,

we can't expect anything that might happen in the future.

Can give comments about the issue to be with singl woman over 30+
but dont have to sounds like it must be some problem with them like face problem, high expectation, attidude problem....possible but not compulsory

Probably most haven't really meet or date this girls.

And really sorry if had offended some of you.
It just open discussion, no offense to other.

BTW think again, gals most valuable time to get bf is during 20-30 years old. 10 years is really a long period, if still never get a bf before, then the problem fall under who?? And sure everyone had their own problem and also their right.
Too bad that the world is cruel, most nice guys with good quality will get attach or married at 30's, and intend to choose younger gals at 25-30.

Well, one of my sister is more than 30yo.. n yes she is kind of choosy bcoz she is kind of independent girl so she is looking for guy who can match her.. own her own car, travel oversea for holiday at least 1 in a year with her own money, n etcs..

n she is shy too

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Y SEEMS TROUBLESOME??? ALL GAL JZ NEED SUM1 TO CARE FOR...
IF U DUN CARE.. HOW TO B HAPPY ??? RITE?

wow..u impressed me too

if you are talking about girls who never get a bf before during that 10yrs ,girls are not at fault sumtimes.it might be guys nowadays are shy dun even dare to approach the girls they like..cannot judge them just becoz they are single in their valuable time..alot of other factors to look at..i find myself admire these girls on the other hand coz they know what they really want in life..have a relationship or not is not a big deal..alot of ppl nowadays coupled up and breaking up or divorce and stuff like that.. what can u say about them???

what can u say to a guy who is at their 30-40 y/o and never had a relationship before??
All this creates a debatable issue here..

This level of female usually look very elegance & mature. Will definitely go for them as compare to 18 yo which look like a lala.

Trust too much on sifu. If you believe so much on feng shui, then take note that dragon ladies either marry very early or very late. And roosters are auto-quarreling type of people.

So, to younger guys below 30: is she, the 30+ ladies and you, willing to start jie-di lian? I think most ladies above 30 might dismiss younger than her age guys and thus trying eagerly to find a guy around 40's or same age with her. She would be insecure too, younger guys yet to explore with ladies and have higher tendency to dump her for younger girls..

But honestly, if she's unmarried, inexperienced with a guy, shy 30+ lady, introduce to us
Guys should grab the chance to know them instead of letting them (and their limited eggs) go to waste

(Tried before with older than me ladies..)

This post has been edited by SwooshY: Jul 10 2010, 04:05 AM

I disagreed with you , totally. Just because your shallow experience telling that that were the causes.

My 3rd ex-gf was a single mother with kids, 30+

Things like :
- matured and understand
- very caring
- obsessive of cleanliness
- dress very elegantly
- successful in her career
- can be a real Friend, share of information wealth
- knows what she want, be very precise of it
- support you all the way where it seems appropriate

the list can goes on... much better than chic of 18-25 years old. At the end, due to work etc, I failed to carry on and feels I dun lap her lesser n lesser. So I ended the relationship. We - still talk or sms regularly until now. She's really something. I always hope she will find a better replacement than me.

definitely YES!! why not??

nyway, its nt entirely the girl's problem as TS u hav put it.. i think its downright degrading..

because if i am a hot pretty girl i wont want u.. ur thinking is that these girls are having some problems with their attitude, their looks, etc.. bt in actual fact, the reason can be just as simple as they dont think guys can actually provide as much to them.. so they focus on work.. and 10 years is short if u are working..

i would say these are the very desirable woman because they are smart (and i assume TS u will be very afraid of them because they are more knowledgable), they got money (TS, again u feel lost because u cant provide wht they want) their career is much higher then u (as they are usually managers, team leaders, ceo... but TS u will feel low because practically u are jz an executive)...

hahaha... i would say some guys are focusing on their careers and by the time they know it, they are already 30 years old.. whats the difference towards a lady?...

can i say those successful 30 year old man is having problems like attitude, face, etc just because they didnt date before?.. no i cant.. and generally u TS will say no because they focus on their career and they wanna provide more for themselves and the family..

u see the difference o nt?... dun simple label ppl like that.. its UNFAIR..

its 2010 now, the 21st century.... 30s is like the new 20s now....u r never too old unless u feel u r old inside... besides, many wimin are still hot and attractive in their 30s... they are more mature & more financially able to take care of how they look.

I have to say, I see those single ladies at big 3 0 are all about moving ahead to marriages, just by taking it easy and not choosy, and most important, knowing what they want and can give. It is that they already know better, run ahead and grab the opportunity.

This are success stories upheld rather than really being viewed impeccable . Bear in mind, to gain in marriage decision and progress requires a minimal 2 years in relationship where man can do that while it is not fair for Women to do that.

definitely i will
damn love em ... most of them know how to dress well

You got the wrong thought that girls over 30 years old are left over. They just haven't found the "right" guy yet.

at the end of the day..they r just choosy and judge by face...

majority i would say...

exclude those divorce...or something...i would say most is just choosy...

+9
True.

Because they didn't choose you izzit?

why not? when i was 26 i choose a 32 year old (6 year older) and now she's my wife and mother to my 2 kids for 4 years now!

wao...many ppl here are either quite judgemental and simply assume things why the girls are still single after 30, or they are thinking with lust in mind...

various factors played here...too many till i lazy to list it all out...but from wad i have seen from my frens, most of them are very insecure...some feels they are not pretty enuf, some are scared the guy is playing them, and there are girls who prefers a guy owning a car or a house or both (they call these guys "very secure and safe")

try to talk to some of the single ladies above 30s...u'd be surprised how nice they are and how they view themselves...

sadly i am not a psychiatrist or doctor..so i can ask them to hv more confidence all of a sudden. all i can do is to listen to their woes and try to cheer them with comforting words...

If she can buy me a BMW and sponsor me go cheong... why not?

kinda agree with this...
one of the best part about the older ladies is that they know what they want in life and from their experiences, they are so much more understanding...
this and so much more comes from maturity which most teenage girls do not possess...
if u are matured enough and be on the same wavelength as them, hanging out with them is quite a good time as well as compared to teenage girls...

Dear TS,

I am in my early 30s and still single.
I dont see myself as being a left over as what you have claim, nor do i have a problematic personality.
I enjoy meeting new friends, and keep in touch regularly with the existing ones.
Travel every year and date every now and then.
Being single could be just didnt want to commit or havent meet the right candidates.

Pls stop generalizing. I could ask u the same on single men over 30s.


Cheers

Why not?

If they have attitude problem, just leave them.
If they are richer than you, woohoo, more money to spend together.
If they they are choosy, then just say bye and consider them as an acquaintance. If they're choosy, it's their problem not yours and you can shoot them back if they start whining about how they cannot find guys.

It's no big deal really.

Walao, girls approach 30 mean they are leftover ?

+1

Are we a 'stock'?

Left over.....

+10

leftovers?

do understand that some women have higher priority in their career than having a partner when they are in their 20s.

dont stereotype them

TS approach means for serious relationship rite?

Dpds on individual... some prefer younger age girls, some prefer mature girls.

If me...i prefer younger girls with good attitude and personalities.

Very well said!!!

I wont go after 30s+ single gal because they are definitely having some problem.
Either too choosy (then i am not qualify), attitude problem (i just cant take it), too independence & smart (difficult to satisfy cause usually they wont someone who is not as smart as them and i am definitely not qualify again) or not that pretty (i cant accept).

I rather go after 30s+ married gal or ppl's gf. Less hassle and easy-come easy-go relationship.

This post has been edited by luvimp: Mar 6 2012, 05:22 PM

High 5

But somehow i noticed our society changes a lot, relationship getting complicated, more gays and affairs...would it also be one of the reasons why there are so many singles?

If that's your attitude towards relationships, 30s+ single gal also don't want you.

LOL!
I thought we are talking about 2nd relationship?

If you mean you want a steady relationship and getting marry then i see no problem with 30s+ single gal.
Since most probably we as men are also at least 30-40+ ady.

Come on...really? That explained why FUBU so popular nowadays

Sorry, please enlighten me.
FUBU = ??

Nothing wrong with that, as long as it's dua-dua sama suka.

I am 29, and i'm going after a 31 year old woman.
I like her 'cos she's bubbly, very optimistic, never seen her mad, not materialistic, just want a simple life..... and, she's VERY good looking.

I have never met anyone with a total package like her.
If i get her, imma marry her in the next 2 years or so to secure the deal.
I won't find anyone like that again.

All the best ya

fuuiyo, good for you man.

nice..shy is

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Added on March 6, 2012, 7:45 pmidk abt TS perception; but saying above 30s are left over r really labelling that they cant find some one then got to be despos.

Idk where you get such idea; but it really show your immaturity in term of saying others such.

Good luck with finding young chick that think you are handsome but not UNCLE =D

This post has been edited by KVReninem: Mar 6 2012, 07:45 PM

hmm izzit if reach age of 30...

the chance of "birth defect" getting higher?

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Added on March 6, 2012, 8:53 pmjapanese gal?

This post has been edited by Terence573: Mar 6 2012, 08:53 PM

The birth defect is actually related to down syndrome of the child. This risk is higher as women age especially from the age of 30 onwards.

yes tats why...

so its advisable to not exceed 30 years old if wanna give birth.

some people get married before 26 also no kids... many of my friends are facing this problem.....

If she is a doctor, then why not =)

Ya, agree..

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Added on March 7, 2012, 12:40 pmWhat u said is totally correct. they really have problem in personality / choosy... they always think perfect perfect perfect perfect...

This post has been edited by Mickey C: Mar 7 2012, 12:40 PM

no

choosy and mind have big problem too...

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Added on March 7, 2012, 12:49 pmya, 30 still can give birth, 35 start difficult already, 40 can say no hope already....

A lot of women don't know this...
Most of the 30 + women without marry have mind problem and choosy, this is the fact and women must accept this problem....

This post has been edited by Mickey C: Mar 7 2012, 12:49 PM

Once again, they're not choosy, they just didn't choose you.

maybe u don't understand.
if they are not choosy, msia man no need find foreign wife. Look at Singapore, the situation is become very worse. Singapore man find that very difficult to accept SG women... That's why no choice they have to find vietnamise wife...

They choose me no choose me, that is not a problem... The general of women over age is choosy .... I am talking about general.

You're putting the all the blame of females?

From the way I see it, a large percentage of guys are choosy as well, wanting just pretty, slim gf, or model-look. Don't even want average-looking females.
Man who wants foreign wife is mostly going for the looks.

seriously would u choose a hole to enter ?

there are a few categories of single women over 30s

(1) unattractive ( by men standard) and reserved - if one is both, then abit difficult to meet people.

(2) attractive and reserved (or protective parents) - so never go out much tats y never meet that many people and still single

(3) attractive and has personality - these are normaly ppl with expectations, so nv met the right one yet

(4) attractive and bad attitude - most guys don go out with gals like that regardless of age rite?

so which one is your gal?

Wrong.

i know of a guy who is like you, are u my friend?

is your gal a divorcee with a 10 yr old son?

rose6580... sounds very familiar name..
hmm...

This is only my opinion. Male and female is not the same, u can't put them into same level. female have age limit, when ur age is getting older and older ur value is drop, u can't give birth anymore. But a male over age, he still can get children. That is the difference. Therefore, female chance to get marry is less, if u don't act fast bcos the age have limit.

Man look for foreign wife simply bcos local girl don't like them don't accept them. Going for the look is very hard to say. Bcos this man using lot of money to buy something, sure this man want to buy good thing.... is very hard to say also... maybe u can ask urself, i have lot of money but i want to buy CRT TV. .. CRT TV is box TV in case u don't know...

Everyone has an age limit not only female. Women are never a stock , please don't use value or non-value to describe them.To be fair, Both women and men are waiting for their right person. Nothing wrong/ related with the age.

This post has been edited by cutiepooh: Mar 7 2012, 04:35 PM

just because you have a d***, it doesn't mean you don't age.

I'm a man n its absolutely wrong to judge women like this! Pls guys.. Be more matured!

nothing wrong with the 30+ women by herself,
just that by nature, these women would have higher risk in pregnancy..and probably menopause earlier

See, right there is the reason why Asian women are staying single longer. Women want to find the right man. They believe a life partner must be someone special, someone unique, someone who completes them in a way no one else in the world can. They believe that if they're going to spend the rest of their lives with this man, they'd better choose very very carefully.

But if Asian men are willing to buy a wife from Vietnam, that means their thinking is "can cook + can clean + got vagina = good wife". And if they have such low standards for themselves, how could they possibly meet the average Malaysian women's standards? If their entire attitude towards love and marriage is like this, obviously they have nothing in common with more modern and forward-thinking women. So no, I don't think it's right to say Asian women are too choosy. Because from their point of view, Asian men are lousy.

That's their problem, not yours. If they're choosy, then they too must meet the expectations of the men that meet their expectations, so at the end of the day it's all about meeting each others expectations. It's not one way.

i`m 27, woman 30+ age nice lo.....

better than `most` 18yr old that dont know what is reality.........



should say point of view between male & female are different..........

if a male get a younger female as partner, he feel esteem...........mom & dad also feel OK,

& normally if female get younger male as partner, she feel ashame 1st.......mom & dad say not OK


Hail to reality

This post has been edited by raijin_z750: Mar 7 2012, 09:25 PM

Maturity is attractive and sexy An older woman knows what she wants, and wastes no time for sh*tty drama. She's seen more of life, and is usually more confident and self-assured of who she is. Different from young small chiku college kids who are still trying to figure out what they want.

Yeap, no need to pening kepala because less drama compare to young girls.

Should end this thread. What's the point? Women are independent...

+10

TS, what's the point of this thread? To humiliate urself by showing others how irrespective you are to woman just because u weren't chosen by them???

It's time to grow up and face the reality that woman nowadays can be as independent as man and the only thing we don't have is the little bro in ur pants... talking about birth? Pregnancy? Yes, never doubt the fact that as woman age, the chances are lower but what makes u guys think so that u hav a d**k and can be a father anytime u like? I seen many married couples.... hardly could conceive nowadays... even when they're in their 20s... so don't use that as a reason to misjudge us as left overs or rather remainders...

May all the leftover guys and leftover girls with leftover mindset be the leftover for the rest of their life.

As far as I concern, been rigid and all arrogance won't do any of you any good, whether you're a guy or a girl.