nyway, its nt entirely the girl's problem as TS u hav put it.. i think its downright degrading..

because if i am a hot pretty girl i wont want u.. ur thinking is that these girls are having some problems with their attitude, their looks, etc.. bt in actual fact, the reason can be just as simple as they dont think guys can actually provide as much to them.. so they focus on work.. and 10 years is short if u are working..

i would say these are the very desirable woman because they are smart (and i assume TS u will be very afraid of them because they are more knowledgable), they got money (TS, again u feel lost because u cant provide wht they want)  their career is much higher then u (as they are usually managers, team leaders, ceo... but TS u will feel low because practically u are jz an executive)...

hahaha... i would say some guys are focusing on their careers and by the time they know it, they are already 30 years old.. whats the difference towards a lady?...

can i say those successful 30 year old man is having problems like attitude, face, etc just because they didnt date before?.. no i cant.. and generally u TS will say no because they focus on their career and they wanna provide more for themselves and the family..

u see the difference o nt?... dun simple label ppl like that.. its UNFAIR..

Dear TS,

I am in my early 30s and still single.
I dont see myself as being a left over as what you have claim, nor do i have a problematic personality.
I enjoy meeting new friends, and keep in touch regularly with the existing ones.
Travel every year and date every now and then.
Being single could be just didnt want to commit or havent meet the right candidates.

Pls stop generalizing. I could ask u the same on single men over 30s.
Cheers 

I wont go after 30s+ single gal because they are definitely having some problem.
Either too choosy (then i am not qualify), attitude problem (i just cant take it) or not that pretty (i cant accept).

I rather go after 30s+ married gal or ppl's gf. Less hassle and easy-come easy-go relationship.

I am 29, and i'm going after a 31 year old woman.
I like her 'cos she's bubbly, very optimistic, never seen her mad, not materialistic, just want a simple life..... and, she's VERY good looking.

I have never met anyone with a total package like her.
If i get her, imma marry her in the next 2 years or so to secure the deal.
I won't find anyone like that again.