Because they didn't choose you izzit?

If that's your attitude towards relationships, 30s+ single gal also don't want you.

Nothing wrong with that, as long as it's dua-dua sama suka.

Once again, they're not choosy, they just didn't choose you.

Wrong.

See, right there is the reason why Asian women are staying single longer. Women want to find the right man. They believe a life partner must be someone special, someone unique, someone who completes them in a way no one else in the world can. They believe that if they're going to spend the rest of their lives with this man, they'd better choose very very carefully.

But if Asian men are willing to buy a wife from Vietnam, that means their thinking is "can cook + can clean + got vagina = good wife". And if they have such low standards for themselves, how could they possibly meet the average Malaysian women's standards? If their entire attitude towards love and marriage is like this, obviously they have nothing in common with more modern and forward-thinking women. So no, I don't think it's right to say Asian women are too choosy. Because from their point of view, Asian men are lousy.

Men do not need to be low confident animals. That's the thing I just don't understand. If you have confidence, if you are willing to approach all kinds of women whether young or old, mature or not, you make yourself available to a much wider range of women. Why limit yourself?

Tell your sister that these two things are not necessarily related.

Sounds like her attitude is "what's his is mine, but what's mine cannot be his."

Who the hell gave you the right to disrespect them??

I don't know what it is about people who are unhappy like to imagine other people are also unhappy.