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 Will You approach 30+ years old single girl?, Please share your opinion

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soulseeker
post Mar 12 2012, 04:01 PM

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I'm currently dating a 34 year old lady. I'm 27 by the way. We've been together for nearly 2 years. Gonna get married early next year.She doesnt even look anywhere near her age while i look older than her. LOL.

When i spoke to my family about it, they were supportive. My dad said, whoever i marry just make sure i take good care of them & do not hurt them. We bought a house together & we have moved in since.
Well, to me, age was only a number. She had certain characteristics that i really fancied. Understanding, reasonable, thrifty & she's a family girl. Things that i couldnt see with my ex-es.
I'm going to marry this lady no matter what, because i want to make her happy. I want to make sure she will live a good life. As long as she is happy, im sure i will.
Bottom line is, when you love someone, age, outlooks & etc is not something to consider about. Its about 2 people sharing the same kinda love, tolerance & understanding. Its a chemistry. Period.


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post Mar 12 2012, 04:28 PM

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QUOTE(Drian @ Mar 12 2012, 04:17 PM)
Good for you. I can't stand guys who tolerate bad/princess attitude from girls .
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Haha. Thanks! yeah, me too. Cheers mate.

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post Mar 12 2012, 04:51 PM

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QUOTE(phenally @ Mar 12 2012, 04:37 PM)
that's wonderful !! All the best to you and ur lady !
Hope i have your courage  sweat.gif
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Thanks! Haha, it doesnt take courage or guts. Its about feelings & doing what you think is right. Thats the wonder of love. wub.gif
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post Mar 22 2012, 11:35 AM

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QUOTE(sharulzzz @ Mar 22 2012, 02:35 AM)
i have something to say abt you

for now, cfm u will love her

will you love her when she is 40 and you 34?

will you have the same love again when you r 40 and she is 46?

i would say u defnitely regret after 5 yrs

becoz this kind of things will happen
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Who are you to even say anything about me? Who are you to question me? & the last one, base on what are you saying that i will regret in 5 years?
There's nothing for me to prove to you. Its a pledge you make after you marry a person that you will love him/her till the end. Perhaps, you should ask your parents or yourself (since you gone through some crap after 5Years) before you ask me since i'm yet to hit that age.

Not everybody is the same with you & your wife.

Keep your crappy questions & know it all answers to yourself mate.

This post has been edited by soulseeker: Mar 22 2012, 11:41 AM
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post Mar 22 2012, 06:05 PM

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QUOTE(Goodie9730 @ Mar 22 2012, 04:32 PM)
well I'm 32 yrs old and my better half is 46 yrs old...hv been together for 6 memorable yrs...i can see she is getting older by the day but my love for her is stronger by the day too...i love her for who she is...i know she is no longer the young lady she used to be but I would like to spend every minutes of my life with her until either one of us "go" first...knowing the possibility of her "going" sooner then me (14 yrs gap) will only make me appreciated us more and spend more time together...I am still wondering how will i do if she left me first...i really cant imagine
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Good for you bro! That's how its supposed to be. Cheers!


Added on March 22, 2012, 6:07 pm
QUOTE(sharulzzz @ Mar 22 2012, 02:05 PM)
well, based on the age difference that you are having right now

you and your wife have 7 yrs diff. and it will not work.

you can criticize me or say everything bad abt me.

i can accept it. i just give my point of view.

my 2 cent view
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So, 7 years difference would not work? How many years difference should it be for it to work? You are such a hypocrite & you know why i said that.

Keep your 2cents where it belongs.

This post has been edited by soulseeker: Mar 22 2012, 06:07 PM

 

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