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post May 17 2010, 12:39 AM

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why girls (and boys) today are so desperate...?
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post May 17 2010, 12:45 PM

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QUOTE(kukubisu @ May 17 2010, 10:26 AM)
Because love is wonderful...
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yeah, love is indeed wonderful...but IMO no need to rush, else it would only break one's heart....mature love is highly wonderful, compared to...i dunno, love for suke-suke?
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post May 17 2010, 10:52 PM

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QUOTE(slenz @ May 17 2010, 04:50 PM)
22 is still young.... enjoy ur time.... you'll find the one when ur fate comes
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agree...when fate come, you want resist also cannot, lol ^^
like my case, it just happened like that...and before that, i tak adalah desperate or purposely go and look for bf...haha



QUOTE(gundamsp01 @ May 17 2010, 05:06 PM)
23 this year and alre passed the "desperately-need-a girl-friend" stage last year, currently totally dont need anyone in my life,
so, practically, my "heart" has died since last year tongue.gif , and "closed shop", now focus on money and being materialistic. Soulmate-matter... hmm.gif
maybe next life la~
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23 also young lah...summore you are a guy, better work hard to earn a lot money first....when you have a lot money, u scare no gf meh brows.gif
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post May 18 2010, 10:01 AM

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QUOTE(gundamsp01 @ May 17 2010, 11:21 PM)
first of all, i dont want to use my wealth to find my other half, it is like the person likes me because of my wealth, and makes me like an atm machine, which i dislike...it makes the whole relationship becomes...contract-based...and the statement "have money, have amoi", what's the point of having a gf that admire u coz of ur money?...what is the different between this and a pet (why pet? coz...u can give food to the pet...and the pet will start clinging to u...so it is an similar example to the above situation)?

secondly, age is not a matter here, the matter is, i totally not interested anymore, few years back, i rather looking forward to have one, but now, not really, well, one thing that i noticed the girls around me are:-
bf type(for those girl who have bf around my age):-
1) very tall (180cm and above)
2) very handsome (taiwan/jap/korean star looks)
3) rich? not really

then? when working? most female (not all...) will look for fat wallet...which makes me feel so fake for a relationship to happen...haha, it is just what i noticed, so practically, i want to find a gf? it is not a matter of old or young, just that i'm not interested in "contract-based" relationship:)
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i think this is an insult to all girls around you because you think they are
1.) only like tall guys
2.) only like handsome guys
3.) only like rich guys...
if that's the only quality you think a girl is looking for in a guy, then i'm not surprised you didnt have a gf...

when i said, "work hard first, earn money, then only look for gf", i meant to say focus on your job, build your career then only look for life partner....but if you think i meant to say "have money, have amoi", then again, it's not surprising you didnt have a gf...
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post May 18 2010, 12:53 PM

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QUOTE(babe_himesan @ May 18 2010, 10:45 AM)
First bolded part: then again, is because you dont know what love is!

when woman fall in love, she just wont mind whether you are rich or poor..

she will just love you the way you are!
second bolded part: well, indeed some girls dont buy that idea but i tell you most of the will! dont ever judge because you havent meet one! is not fair!
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agree agree!!

you just can feel it when she is the one, love you fully not because of ur money...if you can't feel it, then i think you haven't met 'the one'...

on the other hand, why you guys always think that girls fall for only "tall, handsome and rich" guys? i know plenty of guys who just want "pretty, cute and preferably rich" as their girlfriends...feel very blek blek because the guy's quality is not even up to my mark (and i'm not a choosy type)...should buy them a mirror...and what a shame to those guys that like girls because she's rich....or have rich family...euwww....
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post May 18 2010, 01:39 PM

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QUOTE(gundamsp01 @ May 18 2010, 01:23 PM)

Added on May 18, 2010, 1:25 pm

yes, i agree, girls are not always fall for  "tall, handsome and rich" guys, as u said, they like capable guys...
well, for one of my case, a few years back, i'm good in studies(well, just being ok), strong in assignment presentation, u know what is the girl told me? i feel so  shocking.gif ...

"u r just too capable, good at everything, i'm not suitable for u, i feel pressure around u, just like i'm standing beside a high status person like president of USA, do u understand the pressure?"

well, i really don't understand what is a girl criteria...really complicated... biggrin.gif
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wow...u r surely attractive to ur coursemates thumbup.gif

see? no need to be tall, handsome and rich...just being yourself will do...

 

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