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i am surrounded by koreans most of the time. and they are very heart warming and funny people. I dont know why people have that kind of misconception about koreans or japanese. it all comes down to their individuality.

and thank you for those people with the sarcastic comments. very much appreciated..made my boring easter day sparkle much.

From a male point of view: Yeah maybe he's not used to holding hands and all and showing public affection but he should know that his gf is different.

As a man I think he shouldn't fret much about things like this. If a girl wants you to hold her hand then damn it just hold her hand. What the hell is your big hang up?

If you're a guy and you have complex an complicated feelings about holding hands then you might as well grow a pu$$y. I'm sorry but you are dating a boy bordering on becoming a spineless baby. Find a real man. What are men becoming these days

just bite his hand. just kidding

ok... i think he had some sad past which involved holding hands..
or ermm.. what is his religion?
if he is a muslim then this wud be normal..
if he is not then its weird..

last time i was shy and i dun let my bf touch my hands..
until one day he grab hold of it tight and dun let me go..
even when i hit him he dun let go..
so now i LOVE holding hands~~~
seduce him or something..

i am surrounded by koreans most of the time. and they are very heart warming and funny people. I dont know why people have that kind of misconception about koreans or japanese. it all comes down to their individuality.

and thank you for those people with the sarcastic comments. very much appreciated..made my boring easter day sparkle much.

Yes, some of them are fine.  Some are a bit cold and distant.  Or perhaps they are just the quiet type. 

Not stereotyping but it could be a cultural thing.  Do you see other Korean couples holding hands?  Ask him if his parents held hands?

PS

Go Google for - koreans public display of affection

my boyfriend is korean and he is definitely not a princess lar...can say he is a lil chauvinistfic. but he treats me well in other aspect..sometimes he can be a bit rough on the edges..but  he changed a lot compare to last time. So now it's only this problem that's bothering me. But I am not gonna leave my bf just because he won't hold hands with me in public. I am trying to channel this anger and dissapointment to a place... i am human hey i cant bottle my feelings and be all mulia like that.

the shttest part is wen we see other couples walking and holding hands laughing happily...you knwo just not holding hands seem to take the chemistry and the connection away. sighh..what to do? have to accept lor

1st yes..he said it's cos of the hot weather..but then even at night when we're out or when we're in the mall, he doesnt wanna hold anymore..anyway he claimed that "I dont like it" that's the reason so i'm like WTF is this !

you did it in the past..and then u suddenly change .and say u dun like it..and u did it cos u only wanna try it and then end up realising u dun like it and I have to accept it all.

Of course i wanna b**** about it. and then now he see everything i wrote..and hit me! he is damn cool guy

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Added on April 4, 2010, 9:09 pmcool = cold

Korean ?? I c korea movie also rarely c they hold hand. Is this their culture ? If it is their culture then u dun expect to hold hand already.