A bf who doesnt like to hold hands
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 Apr 6 2010, 11:05 AM
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QUOTE(BoboTheGrouch @ Apr 6 2010, 11:02 AM) some of my gal frens say they find japanese men (fr the movies and music videos) lookin like wimpy girly boys. the hairdo, the clothes, the androgenous thingie. on the contrary, korean men are much more attractive and virile, according to them laaaa... Korea man attractive i dunno la...but korea is world number 1 hamsap country this i know...following by japan. According to research. |
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Apr 6 2010, 11:10 AM
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QUOTE(junkeat @ Apr 6 2010, 11:05 AM) Korea man attractive i dunno la...but korea is world number 1 hamsap country this i know...following by japan. hai meh? i tot it is the japanese LOLLL...According to research. |
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Apr 6 2010, 11:37 AM
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QUOTE(BoboTheGrouch @ Apr 6 2010, 11:02 AM) i think most gals would prefer their men to show some form of public affection towards em.imagine ur hooking up with this adorable guy and ur all ga ga over him and he pushed ur hand away and tells u to walk behind u???what the f***. i dunno if its the budaya of that country or whatever. but it seems like koreans and japanese are very much more open (i think) compared to other asian groups and why holding hands pun cannot meh? y girl so like public attention?so it would b cool if the bf sing a song about how much he love her (like highschool musical) in public? for me....i like to stay low....... QUOTE(junkeat @ Apr 6 2010, 11:05 AM) Korea man attractive i dunno la...but korea is world number 1 hamsap country this i know...following by japan. but dey hav small d***.....According to research. |
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Apr 6 2010, 11:49 AM
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QUOTE(tech3910 @ Apr 6 2010, 11:37 AM) but dey hav small d***..... big or small then i donno lo...how come u know ? tech ? u try before ??   |
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Apr 6 2010, 11:53 AM
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QUOTE(junkeat @ Apr 6 2010, 11:49 AM) big or small then i donno lo...how come u know ? tech ? u try before ?? porn...... JAV still better..... |
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Apr 6 2010, 11:55 AM
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QUOTE(tech3910 @ Apr 6 2010, 11:37 AM) y girl so like public attention? girls think love = hugs, kisses, sweety stuff. guys prob think love as sumthing more substantial and beyond the lomantik stuff...nopw singing a song to the girl at her window is toomuch laaaa...u could actually embarass her . LOLLLL....holding hands is okaylaaaa....still can maintain ur manliness....but if overboard like kissing,heavy petting amd french kissing and rolling on the beach with ur gf like thise hamsapang moh , then i think its toooo muchhhhhh.....LOLso it would b cool if the bf sing a song about how much he love her (like highschool musical) in public? for me....i like to stay low....... but dey hav small d***..... |
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Apr 6 2010, 12:10 PM
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maybe meruchan digs her nose and no wash her hands, bf see also tulan?
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Apr 6 2010, 12:41 PM
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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Apr 6 2010, 12:10 PM) maybe meruchan digs her nose and no wash her hands, bf see also tulan? Haha...maybe her bf afraid H1N1 ? bring hygiene soup and wash both his n your's hand before holding. Lets see wat excuse he can give ? |
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Apr 6 2010, 12:43 PM
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QUOTE(MeruChan @ Apr 4 2010, 07:55 PM) My bf of one year just told me he doesn;t like to hold hands or display any physical affection in public and he asked me to accept it. and say maybe just maybe he can change...but don't put hopes on it. So this is driving me a lil crazy. I dont wanna leave my bf just because he doesnt hold my hands. But on the other hand, what couple doesnt hold hands or display public affection that show them they are a couple. Everyone knows we are a couple so it is definitey not because he's trying to appear single. He just had never had a proper gf and never hold any girls hand before. He did try for the past year..but not seldom..just occasionally he'll hold my hand.for a couple of minutes..then he'll let go. And now he completely stop. And when I grab his arm he just shove me off...and we ended up having a big argument bout tat. But anyway the question is how can I accept the fact that my bf would never hold my hands? When I asked him is it for forever? he said no..mayb after we get married we can hold hands.. i think it's just bullshit and if he can hold hands then..why cant he do it now...whenever we talk bout this we just end up arguing..and whenever we go out and see couple holding hands..i just feel really uncomfortable. and make me extremely mad at hime and also really a lil self pity on my behalf seriously.. gimme a call.. i dun mind of PDA.  what's ur tot on this guys? Are there any LYN-ers who is doing the same thing as my bf?? I think not.   |
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Apr 6 2010, 01:20 PM
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if you like him, just let him be him
every person got their own fetish & their own weird behaviour you can never understand, and can never explain when u had enough and decided not to take it anymore, just walk away. |
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Apr 6 2010, 03:29 PM
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hahaaha think out of the box la guys,there also ARMS, just wrap ur arms into the partners arms, that's more closer to walk with and talk. hands can sometimes disturb ppl walking e..t..c.
everyone is just sticking to hands..swt... be creative like me~ This post has been edited by shadowglow: Apr 6 2010, 04:06 PM |
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Apr 6 2010, 03:51 PM
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QUOTE(MeruChan @ Apr 4 2010, 07:55 PM) My bf of one year just told me he doesn;t like to hold hands or display any physical affection in public and he asked me to accept it. and say maybe just maybe he can change...but don't put hopes on it. So this is driving me a lil crazy. I dont wanna leave my bf just because he doesnt hold my hands. But on the other hand, what couple doesnt hold hands or display public affection that show them they are a couple. Everyone knows we are a couple so it is definitey not because he's trying to appear single. He just had never had a proper gf and never hold any girls hand before. He did try for the past year..but not seldom..just occasionally he'll hold my hand.for a couple of minutes..then he'll let go. And now he completely stop. And when I grab his arm he just shove me off...and we ended up having a big argument bout tat. But anyway the question is how can I accept the fact that my bf would never hold my hands? When I asked him is it for forever? he said no..mayb after we get married we can hold hands.. i think it's just bullshit and if he can hold hands then..why cant he do it now...whenever we talk bout this we just end up arguing..and whenever we go out and see couple holding hands..i just feel really uncomfortable. and make me extremely mad at hime and also really a lil self pity on my behalf I thought you quit lyn =P. what's ur tot on this guys? Are there any LYN-ers who is doing the same thing as my bf?? I think not. That's a first, a bf who gives the impression that he doesn't appreciate the physical aspects of a relationship. I don't know, it's a rare case. Maybe he's just insecure? You need to find the reason behind him not holding hands perhaps get a guy friend to ask him subtlety, other than not wanting to be seen in public with you.... |
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Apr 6 2010, 09:11 PM
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why is this issue becoming so common in CC?
dont hold hands cannot? you love him or u want to look for someone to hold your hands? |
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Apr 6 2010, 10:26 PM
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wahhh...i love to holding girls hand...
in my opinion... ur bf maybe, just maybe ashamed to go out wif u ler... |
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Apr 7 2010, 09:28 AM
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wtf, dont like to hold hands? O.o
I understand some people dont like to do it much it public,,but then shoving u off when u try to hold his hands? U sure he loves u? |
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Apr 7 2010, 02:39 PM
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consider this person is very discriminating between pretty and not so pretty people, so if the girl/guy, not so pretty... the bf/gf dun wan to be seen by public... maybe...
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Apr 8 2010, 03:00 AM
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Lol, this world really big and any type of people also got.
Well, it's true that not worthy to break up because of SUCH minor things. but try to ask, is it because he need some time to adapt to it? or because holding hand is tiring or sweating? If he don like to hold you hand, you can hug his arm what, isn't it? |
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Apr 8 2010, 03:19 AM
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Lets just assume hes conservative up to the extend. If that's the case, you prolly wont get ANY excitement out of your love life. He would even avoid physical contact with his own gf, what the heck is this? He either thinks its embarrassing being seen with his gf that he wants to keep his "manly mojo" or whatever, or your hand consists of unknown radioactive underwater wasted compost that he would generally would not touch. XD Or better yet, he might think that "Eww girls! their saliva is poison and body is contagious! Boys galore! ", some random kiddie like thoughts.
Anyhow, being conservative = not productive, First law of thermodynamics --> nothing will come out of something. Dont expect progress if he persists  This post has been edited by Keith321: Apr 8 2010, 03:21 AM |
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Apr 8 2010, 11:27 AM
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suddenly i thought of that gay korean movie thats coming out.... >_<
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Apr 8 2010, 10:33 PM
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I would hug my girl and tell the world that she's mine.... if I were a Man
Added on April 8, 2010, 10:34 pmMan = guy This post has been edited by g r a p e k e y: Apr 8 2010, 10:34 PM |
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