if i was a female like you, i would slap his face. seriously.
A bf who doesnt like to hold hands
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 Apr 5 2010, 04:01 PM
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i got a friend like your bf there. he said pegang tangan berdosa
if i was a female like you, i would slap his face. seriously. |
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Apr 5 2010, 04:06 PM
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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Apr 5 2010, 03:30 PM) Wait till you watch the korean movie Sex is Zero Sorry happy4ever, I dun understand. can u explain more ?    |
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Apr 5 2010, 04:34 PM
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QUOTE(MeruChan @ Apr 4 2010, 07:55 PM) My bf of one year just told me he doesn;t like to hold hands or display any physical affection in public and he asked me to accept it. and say maybe just maybe he can change...but don't put hopes on it. So this is driving me a lil crazy. I dont wanna leave my bf just because he doesnt hold my hands. But on the other hand, what couple doesnt hold hands or display public affection that show them they are a couple. Everyone knows we are a couple so it is definitey not because he's trying to appear single. He just had never had a proper gf and never hold any girls hand before. He did try for the past year..but not seldom..just occasionally he'll hold my hand.for a couple of minutes..then he'll let go. And now he completely stop. And when I grab his arm he just shove me off...and we ended up having a big argument bout tat. But anyway the question is how can I accept the fact that my bf would never hold my hands? When I asked him is it for forever? he said no..mayb after we get married we can hold hands.. i think it's just bullshit and if he can hold hands then..why cant he do it now...whenever we talk bout this we just end up arguing..and whenever we go out and see couple holding hands..i just feel really uncomfortable. and make me extremely mad at hime and also really a lil self pity on my behalf So.... how old are you again? what's ur tot on this guys? Are there any LYN-ers who is doing the same thing as my bf?? I think not.  |
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Apr 5 2010, 05:33 PM
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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Apr 5 2010, 03:30 PM) Wait till you watch the korean movie Sex is Zero delicious sandwich...... |
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Apr 5 2010, 05:39 PM
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actually...i personally dont really hold my partners hand unless they hold mine
honest answer? well im not comfortable in displaying my love in public heck i love her, but some ppl are shy thou, maybe i was brought up in a conservative household but then again meru, some guyz are arseholes, they might be just making you a showdog or somethin, basically a guy does not reject a partners strong approach. not gonna elaborate much this time, i guess this is enough for you to go figure out what it is happening between the 2 of you welcome back meru, nvr tot i would see you again, gonna post some tits soon? |
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Apr 5 2010, 06:50 PM
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Wth, stop making small matters big kay? Noone is impeccable, accept that! Can't do it in public? Do it privately. Can't stand him? Stop whining and change to a guy who rapes u in public.
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Apr 5 2010, 07:46 PM
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Welcome back meru!
This is just something you'll have to accept about him, if you can't accept it, you might as well leave. Otherwise just try to your best to accept it. Some guys are just really uncomfortable with public display of affection. |
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Apr 5 2010, 08:50 PM
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QUOTE(jimkimjat @ Apr 5 2010, 04:01 PM) i got a friend like your bf there. he said pegang tangan berdosa what's sooo shy and uncomfy abt holding hands?just holding hands, not ask the gal to hold his c*ck in publicif i was a female like you, i would slap his face. seriously. |
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Apr 5 2010, 08:51 PM
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mebbe bf is shy to hold her hand. she u know how she look like right lol
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Apr 5 2010, 11:48 PM
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QUOTE(JeromeDubois @ Apr 4 2010, 11:05 PM) But then again, if your gf/bf hand is sweaty, you should still hold that hand. Who cares if it's sweaty? It's their sweat and it's your sweat. It's just sweat. +100my hand sweats too that's why haha..and sometime i felt paiseh to hold her hand cos its sweaty but she seems ok with me =) that makes me feel grateful btw TS ,dont be sad about it..if he hits you , you will definitely dont go back to him . |
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Apr 5 2010, 11:56 PM
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I only hold my bf hands once. Cant really recall the feeling
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Apr 6 2010, 01:39 AM
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QUOTE(ImUrDaddY @ Apr 5 2010, 12:05 PM) ur man aint a man.. there's no valid fuking reason he cant hold hands...more weirdos each day. thnks lyn for opening up my eyes/mind Apa.. I saw a few holding hands and touch here touch there too.Added on April 5, 2010, 12:08 pm wat u mean is normal for muslim for not holding hands? u from which planet? ffs go out side and see for urself..they dont just hold hands but....too.  even got photos of them xxx. But still many out there say berdosa and all.. must married ady oni can hold hands.. Anyway now TS say her bf is korean.. I fly to and frow from Korea all the time.. The koreans' i know are shy and timid.. But the younger ones.. teenager or younger than me are fun~ |
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Apr 6 2010, 02:44 AM
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Theres always the chance that he might be trying to break up with you easily.
The first few months of coupling with you and he at leasts holds hands but as time passes by he doesn't? Normally people would gain more confidence over time with experience so publicly holding hands shouldn't be a problem here... He could have sweaty hands though, you could try pushing him a little to admit something if there is anything at all. Or.. maybe he wasn't sure with the relationship you and him have from the start and wants to measure the scale a little before coming to a final conclusion. Maybe he does have a problem with holding hands in public, if thats the case I really do feel sorry for you dear . Does he have any problems with hugging/kissing in public and if not then, how exactly does he show his affection for you?Sorry for posting lots of negatives =/ |
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Apr 6 2010, 02:50 AM
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thats why la, next time choose malaysians, not koreans
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Apr 6 2010, 10:45 AM
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Yeah, Korean men tend to beat women. Malaysian women are so naive to think Korean guys are ideal bfs. LOL
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Apr 6 2010, 10:51 AM
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japanese , korean men can be really male chauvinistic.
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Apr 6 2010, 10:55 AM
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yeah, but malaysian women do not find japanese men appealing
edit: with the exception of Takeshi, that gorgeous b@stard  This post has been edited by spanker: Apr 6 2010, 10:56 AM |
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Apr 6 2010, 11:00 AM
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he think ur body temp too high la sometimes he in air con room blow till cold cold then u come hug or hold his hand then ur body heat transfer to him he bu suang ma. or you too cold then he was warm so he aso bu suang lol
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Apr 6 2010, 11:02 AM
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imma dont understand
if your couple doesnt want to hold hand together, is it a sin or a crime? i found out that this behaviour is just like a couple who doesnt want to lip-kiss, only cheek... i donno..maybe because of their budaya or something... |
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Apr 6 2010, 11:02 AM
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some of my gal frens say they find japanese men (fr the movies and music videos) lookin like wimpy girly boys. the hairdo, the clothes, the androgenous thingie. on the contrary, korean men are much more attractive and virile, according to them laaaa...
Added on April 6, 2010, 11:05 am QUOTE(keown83 @ Apr 6 2010, 11:02 AM) imma dont understand i think most gals would prefer their men to show some form of public affection towards em.imagine ur hooking up with this adorable guy and ur all ga ga over him and he pushed ur hand away and tells u to walk behind u???what the f***. i dunno if its the budaya of that country or whatever. but it seems like koreans and japanese are very much more open (i think) compared to other asian groups and why holding hands pun cannot meh?if your couple doesnt want to hold hand together, is it a sin or a crime? i found out that this behaviour is just like a couple who doesnt want to lip-kiss, only cheek... i donno..maybe because of their budaya or something... This post has been edited by BoboTheGrouch: Apr 6 2010, 11:05 AM |
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