My bf of one year just told me he doesn;t like to hold hands or display any physical affection in public and he asked me to accept it. and say maybe just maybe he can change...but don't put hopes on it. So this is driving me a lil crazy. I dont wanna leave my bf just because he doesnt hold my hands. But on the other hand, what couple doesnt hold hands or display public affection that show them they are a couple. Everyone knows we are a couple so it is definitey not because he's trying to appear single. He just had never had a proper gf and never hold any girls hand before. He did try for the past year..but not seldom..just occasionally he'll hold my hand.for a couple of minutes..then he'll let go. And now he completely stop. And when I grab his arm he just shove me off...and we ended up having a big argument bout tat. But anyway the question is how can I accept the fact that my bf would never hold my hands? When I asked him is it for forever? he said no..mayb after we get married we can hold hands.. i think it's just bullshit and if he can hold hands then..why cant he do it now...whenever we talk bout this we just end up arguing..and whenever we go out and see couple holding hands..i just feel really uncomfortable. and make me extremely mad at hime and also really a lil self pity on my behalf

what's ur tot on this guys? Are there any LYN-ers who is doing the same thing as my bf?? I think not.

1st yes..he said it's cos of the hot weather..but then even at night when we're out or when we're in the mall, he doesnt wanna hold anymore..anyway he claimed that "I dont like it" that's the reason so i'm like WTF is this !

you did it in the past..and then u suddenly change .and say u dun like it..and u did it cos u only wanna try it and then end up realising u dun like it and I have to accept it all.

Of course i wanna b**** about it. and then now he see everything i wrote..and hit me! he is damn cool guy

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Added on April 4, 2010, 9:09 pmcool = cold

This post has been edited by MeruChan: Apr 4 2010, 09:09 PM

my boyfriend is korean and he is definitely not a princess lar...can say he is a lil chauvinistfic. but he treats me well in other aspect..sometimes he can be a bit rough on the edges..but he changed a lot compare to last time. So now it's only this problem that's bothering me. But I am not gonna leave my bf just because he won't hold hands with me in public. I am trying to channel this anger and dissapointment to a place... i am human hey i cant bottle my feelings and be all mulia like that.

the shttest part is wen we see other couples walking and holding hands laughing happily...you knwo just not holding hands seem to take the chemistry and the connection away. sighh..what to do? have to accept lor

i am surrounded by koreans most of the time. and they are very heart warming and funny people. I dont know why people have that kind of misconception about koreans or japanese. it all comes down to their individuality.

and thank you for those people with the sarcastic comments. very much appreciated..made my boring easter day sparkle much.