My bf of one year just told me he doesn;t like to hold hands or display any physical affection in public and he asked me to accept it. and say maybe just maybe he can change...but don't put hopes on it. So this is driving me a lil crazy. I dont wanna leave my bf just because he doesnt hold my hands. But on the other hand, what couple doesnt hold hands or display public affection that show them they are a couple. Everyone knows we are a couple so it is definitey not because he's trying to appear single. He just had never had a proper gf and never hold any girls hand before. He did try for the past year..but not seldom..just occasionally he'll hold my hand.for a couple of minutes..then he'll let go. And now he completely stop. And when I grab his arm he just shove me off...and we ended up having a big argument bout tat. But anyway the question is how can I accept the fact that my bf would never hold my hands? When I asked him is it for forever? he said no..mayb after we get married we can hold hands.. i think it's just bullshit and if he can hold hands then..why cant he do it now...whenever we talk bout this we just end up arguing..and whenever we go out and see couple holding hands..i just feel really uncomfortable. and make me extremely mad at hime and also really a lil self pity on my behalf

what's ur tot on this guys? Are there any LYN-ers who is doing the same thing as my bf?? I think not.

last time i hold hand with my ex i always feel my hand sweaty... my ex very thin wan impossible so easy sweat...i aso dun sweat but... (it's hard to know coz it's palm sweat, dunno who's sweating) so always un-hold and and wipe... feel paiseh lo (i thought it was me) until after i hold hand with another ex, totally no sweat... now i know who sweat tat time

my boyfriend is korean and he is definitely not a princess lar...can say he is a lil chauvinistfic. but he treats me well in other aspect..sometimes he can be a bit rough on the edges..but  he changed a lot compare to last time. So now it's only this problem that's bothering me. But I am not gonna leave my bf just because he won't hold hands with me in public. I am trying to channel this anger and dissapointment to a place... i am human hey i cant bottle my feelings and be all mulia like that.

the shttest part is wen we see other couples walking and holding hands laughing happily...you knwo just not holding hands seem to take the chemistry and the connection away. sighh..what to do? have to accept lor

Korean ?? I c korea movie also rarely c they hold hand. Is this their culture ? If it is their culture then u dun expect to hold hand already.