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junkeat
post Apr 4 2010, 11:08 PM

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TS, he mention u dun like to hold hand. I think there is a shadow in his heart.

He said he tot u dun like to hold hand. I think something happenning here. If i not mistaken, when he wan to hold your hand but u r actually angry wit him, obviously u dun wan him to touch your hand or anything. So this might cause him start thinking u r the 1 who dun like to hold hand.

I think he is fine wit tat just tat he got a unpleasure shadow in his heart. I suggest u talk to him to clear this out before it is deeply hurt u both relationship.

Good day & Go lucky.
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post Apr 4 2010, 11:12 PM

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if in the park i dont mind, but if in shopping complex..i think about it. twice.
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post Apr 4 2010, 11:12 PM

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just bite his hand. just kidding biggrin.gif

ok... i think he had some sad past which involved holding hands..
or ermm.. what is his religion?
if he is a muslim then this wud be normal..
if he is not then its weird..

last time i was shy and i dun let my bf touch my hands..
until one day he grab hold of it tight and dun let me go..
even when i hit him he dun let go..
so now i LOVE holding hands~~~
seduce him or something..
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post Apr 4 2010, 11:12 PM

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QUOTE(JeromeDubois @ Apr 4 2010, 11:05 PM)
But then again, if your gf/bf hand is sweaty, you should still hold that hand. Who cares if it's sweaty? It's their sweat and it's your sweat. It's just sweat.
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Well if the guy feels misreable when it's sweaty, then let go for awhile, cool down first and resume after that.. fair right
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post Apr 4 2010, 11:21 PM

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QUOTE(sloosh @ Apr 4 2010, 10:54 PM)
Grope Grope always not a problem isn't it...  dry.gif

It's not that we wanna show off.. But the feeling of holding hands is really something that we appreciate.. it's warm, comforting and intimate.. And yes, we do let go when it's hot and sweaty.. not like die die don't let go.
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yeah....wen it is only once a while....
if hold hands everyday...every time......like no meaning edi......
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post Apr 4 2010, 11:21 PM

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QUOTE(sloosh @ Apr 4 2010, 11:12 PM)
Well if the guy feels misreable when it's sweaty, then let go for awhile, cool down first and resume after that.. fair right
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That's why I say guys like this are little boys. A little of your gf sweat also you wanna mind? Come on, are you a guy or a baby? Guys who mind sweaty palms should go check for homosexuality or the princess factor in them might be way too strong. sweat.gif sweat.gif sweat.gif
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post Apr 4 2010, 11:29 PM

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QUOTE(JeromeDubois @ Apr 4 2010, 11:21 PM)
That's why I say guys like this are little boys. A little of your gf sweat also you wanna mind? Come on, are you a guy or a baby? Guys who mind sweaty palms should go check for homosexuality or the princess factor in them might be way too strong. sweat.gif  sweat.gif  sweat.gif
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Hehe.. princess factor.. I thought I'm the only princess in the relationship.. tongue.gif
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post Apr 4 2010, 11:45 PM

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Many guys in M'sia these days are princesses. They lack the ability to behave like proper men. Always whining and complaining over small things like a little girl. Always minding small and insignificant things like holding their gf's sweaty hands... doh.gif doh.gif shakehead.gif
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post Apr 4 2010, 11:46 PM

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QUOTE(JeromeDubois @ Apr 4 2010, 11:21 PM)
That's why I say guys like this are little boys. A little of your gf sweat also you wanna mind? Come on, are you a guy or a baby? Guys who mind sweaty palms should go check for homosexuality or the princess factor in them might be way too strong. sweat.gif  sweat.gif  sweat.gif
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+1.

When guy with girl on going something always will have sweat. So tell me ? R u going to shove him / her off when something going on ?

Obviously not.
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post Apr 4 2010, 11:46 PM

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Your boyfriend could have sweaty palms (like me) and disguise it with false machoness.
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post Apr 5 2010, 12:28 AM

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let him be free to walk around the mall la.. i also i dont like holding hand while walking
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post Apr 5 2010, 12:34 AM

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This again.....
Guy touch the girl girl complain; guy dont touch the girl, girl complain,
so does it matter the guy do it or not?

Anyway, if ur bf got the christian type thinking, nothing weird thru
That guy in the church told me las time,
"When a boy get together with a girl, and touch her last finger after a year, that's the true sigh of sincere. And after the second year, if the boy did not touch more than 2 of her finger, then thats love".
Cant help but big LOL everything remember this


Added on April 5, 2010, 12:36 am
QUOTE(kobe8byrant @ Apr 4 2010, 11:46 PM)
Your boyfriend could have sweaty palms (like me) and disguise it with false machoness.
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Same case as me
I would hold her hand when i feel like really wan to, but would let go soon cause of my crazy sweating palm


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post Apr 5 2010, 02:01 AM

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zzzz.. wtf are such people.
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post Apr 5 2010, 02:18 AM

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last time i hold hand with my ex i always feel my hand sweaty... my ex very thin wan impossible so easy sweat...i aso dun sweat but... (it's hard to know coz it's palm sweat, dunno who's sweating) so always un-hold and and wipe... feel paiseh lo (i thought it was me) until after i hold hand with another ex, totally no sweat... now i know who sweat tat time brows.gif
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post Apr 5 2010, 03:14 AM

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QUOTE(MeruChan @ Apr 4 2010, 07:55 PM)
My bf of one year just told me he doesn;t like to hold hands or display any physical affection in public and he asked me to accept it. and say maybe just maybe he can change...but don't put hopes on it. So this is driving me a lil crazy. I dont wanna leave my bf just because he doesnt hold my hands. But on the other hand, what couple doesnt hold hands or display public affection that show them they are a couple. Everyone knows we are a couple so it is definitey not because he's trying to appear single. He just had never had a proper gf and never hold any girls hand before. He did try for the past year..but not seldom..just occasionally he'll hold my hand.for a couple of minutes..then he'll let go. And now he completely stop. And when I grab his arm he just shove me off...and we ended up having a big argument bout tat. But anyway the question is how can I accept the fact that my bf would never hold my hands? When I asked him is it for forever? he said no..mayb after we get married we can hold hands.. i think it's just bullshit and if he can hold hands then..why cant he do it now...whenever we talk bout this we just end up arguing..and whenever we go out and see couple holding hands..i just feel really uncomfortable. and make me extremely mad at hime and also really a lil self pity on my behalf sad.gif

what's ur tot on this guys? Are there any LYN-ers who is doing the same thing as my bf?? I think not. cry.gif
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somehow this scenario often happens when a boy dun like his mom holding his hands in public


Added on April 5, 2010, 3:15 am
QUOTE(chezzball @ Apr 5 2010, 02:18 AM)
last time i hold hand with my ex i always feel my hand sweaty... my ex very thin wan impossible so easy sweat...i aso dun sweat but... (it's hard to know coz it's palm sweat, dunno who's sweating) so always un-hold and and wipe... feel paiseh lo (i thought it was me) until after i hold hand with another ex, totally no sweat... now i know who sweat tat time brows.gif
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The guy should place the arm around her waist.

this give her warmth and security

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post Apr 5 2010, 04:07 AM

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QUOTE(MeruChan @ Apr 4 2010, 06:55 AM)
My bf of one year just told me he doesn;t like to hold hands or display any physical affection in public and he asked me to accept it. and say maybe just maybe he can change...but don't put hopes on it. So this is driving me a lil crazy. I dont wanna leave my bf just because he doesnt hold my hands. But on the other hand, what couple doesnt hold hands or display public affection that show them they are a couple. Everyone knows we are a couple so it is definitey not because he's trying to appear single. He just had never had a proper gf and never hold any girls hand before. He did try for the past year..but not seldom..just occasionally he'll hold my hand.for a couple of minutes..then he'll let go. And now he completely stop. And when I grab his arm he just shove me off...and we ended up having a big argument bout tat. But anyway the question is how can I accept the fact that my bf would never hold my hands? When I asked him is it for forever? he said no..mayb after we get married we can hold hands.. i think it's just bullshit and if he can hold hands then..why cant he do it now...whenever we talk bout this we just end up arguing..and whenever we go out and see couple holding hands..i just feel really uncomfortable. and make me extremely mad at hime and also really a lil self pity on my behalf sad.gif

what's ur tot on this guys? Are there any LYN-ers who is doing the same thing as my bf?? I think not. cry.gif
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then what's the point of being in a relationship? lol I know it's not the be all and end all, but if he's not gonna hold your hand and walk beside you like he's a friend, then he can't complain if other guys come to chat you up
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post Apr 5 2010, 07:07 AM

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my boyfriend is korean and he is definitely not a princess lar...can say he is a lil chauvinistfic. but he treats me well in other aspect..sometimes he can be a bit rough on the edges..but he changed a lot compare to last time. So now it's only this problem that's bothering me. But I am not gonna leave my bf just because he won't hold hands with me in public. I am trying to channel this anger and dissapointment to a place... i am human hey i cant bottle my feelings and be all mulia like that.

the shttest part is wen we see other couples walking and holding hands laughing happily...you knwo just not holding hands seem to take the chemistry and the connection away. sighh..what to do? have to accept lor
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post Apr 5 2010, 07:28 AM

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QUOTE(MeruChan @ Apr 5 2010, 07:07 AM)
my boyfriend is korean and he is definitely not a princess lar...can say he is a lil chauvinistfic. but he treats me well in other aspect..sometimes he can be a bit rough on the edges..but  he changed a lot compare to last time. So now it's only this problem that's bothering me. But I am not gonna leave my bf just because he won't hold hands with me in public. I am trying to channel this anger and dissapointment to a place... i am human hey i cant bottle my feelings and be all mulia like that.

the shttest part is wen we see other couples walking and holding hands laughing happily...you knwo just not holding hands seem to take the chemistry and the connection away. sighh..what to do? have to accept lor
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poor thing.
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post Apr 5 2010, 08:55 AM

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QUOTE(MeruChan @ Apr 5 2010, 07:07 AM)
my boyfriend is korean and he is definitely not a princess lar...can say he is a lil chauvinistfic. but he treats me well in other aspect..sometimes he can be a bit rough on the edges..but  he changed a lot compare to last time. So now it's only this problem that's bothering me. But I am not gonna leave my bf just because he won't hold hands with me in public. I am trying to channel this anger and dissapointment to a place... i am human hey i cant bottle my feelings and be all mulia like that.

the shttest part is wen we see other couples walking and holding hands laughing happily...you knwo just not holding hands seem to take the chemistry and the connection away. sighh..what to do? have to accept lor
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KOREAN !!! WTF.. this are gay people, they dont even say girl are equal to them. Mostly girls are lower tier than men in their thought. Beside, korean man cant even drink beer or whiskey without going berzerk or crazy after 30 mins.
Krazy Koreans... thats the last time i drink with those noobs. Maybe, if i need entertainment .. i should call them in and have 2 bottle of whiskey ready. hmm.gif rclxms.gif icon_idea.gif

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