is yee sai zou or not, now talking about this is still far, winner.

it seems suffer if any girl becomes ur loved one.

u have ur pride and trainnned to be a winner at all times. cant accept any single risk or loss. i bet ur dad faced some major loss or anything previouslyt, so now he tried to train u become a perfect man and not to repeat ur dad's mistake or weakness. Frankly speaking, this kind of attitude will suffer those around you and yourself.

mostly businessman in the end also marry Miss World, Top Model or watsoever who can dressed up nicely, perform polite in public and can behaves good in everything.

门当户对 is the marriage life you want? or not so pushover to ur loved one next time would be best. if u r perfect, then you cant force anyone to be as perfect as u r. the stress in u not lesser than ur loved one i can say.

u know u r selfish, arrogant, etc... but what is ur step to change urself? or u will still keep remain the same person as u r till u find someone can understand u and do watever u want and become a perfect person like u.

just advice, what comes around, goes around. life is short, enjoy it and not restrict urself in every single little thing u in. u wouldnt want ur son to become the person in ur shoes now as well.

yee sai zhou is Justin's song! good song! Hahaha!

Cheers Winner!

omg ts u r 28, get a life..at dis age i suppose ur parents can only giv advice, not dictating what u shud do..to b a filial son is not necessary to follow all d things ur father say..

n i think 28 is nt tht young anymore for a gal..usually those who r financially stable edi get marry at dis age i suppose..i pity ur ex have wasted so much time on u..

fear leads to pain,
pain leads to suffering,
suffering leads to hate,
hate leads to darkness..

Winner..u must break free from ur dad! but if you do that, u may lose everything, well at least on the financial side...

however, im sure with your PHD and skills and attitude, u can be better off? Prove to the world!

Be your own MAN! Cos ur the MAN!

he is an obedient boy, how can u just ask him to step out from his dad in no time. he wont accpet and do it, i bet u RM 1K. haha...

There is no wrong in following his father or proper word is obey all the requirement set by the father.. without our parent we are nothing now.. as for TS case what he need to do is think in his gf's shoes rather than just want his gf follow his way blindly n at least voice out to his daddy when he think something is wrong.. i believe as a only son in the family n even in a rich family it's much stress than our normal one.. jz by watching those taiwanese/tvb drama u will get the idea..

lets bet Mr LeeHom! hahaha!

Winner....ru fearful of your dad despite being aged 28?

i had already moved out at the age of 25 because i disagreed with my parents...it's peace for all....

actually the stress is coming from themselve. we also same with them no matter we rich or poor!

I don't think his father is the one that controling his way. I don't see any problems with it that his father has high hope on him.

I would say it's Winner's responsibility to master his time management skill intead. And yeah, be more considerate to her EX.

hahahahaha..........taiwanese/tvb drama? ur too dramatic lah..

if there's the BEST tvb drama ever..it is n must be Chong Sai Gei~

for Taiwanese...it must be Express Boy! Really really missed the late Xu Wei Lun....RIP...

Not only that, he did his PhD in ENGLAND!!!
No wonder his england so england...

ing-ger-land! Cheers!

i am ms. haha.

u sounds like challenging him! hehe. he is already poisoned too deep. takes time to recover.

hi Miss Lee Hom....nice to know u...i once had a teacher called Miss Lee...ru the same one?

must get him the elixir to detoxify!

maybe being a girl, you are the cure for him...!!

i think TS is 死板板 person. must concentrate and finish one task at a time. like me... very kesian de. he wants to achieve the goal and want multitasking but when he does one thing he will temp ignore others first till the first thing done and approved by others, then onli can proceed the next.

Not really. His dad got family business. Can't disagree too much or else he won't get it. PhD so what? More money the merrier.

hi. nice to know ya too. i definitely not that old. i am younger than u.

haha. i am not lovely as the GF. hard to cure. hard to say anything from one side story we heard and we were not involve in the things happened.

how do u know my age?

i beg your indulgence for my ignorance...for im still relatively new here....heheh!

n i cant read chinese.....so care to translate?

i sort of understand how it feels like when Winner is facing his father. at this point, i sympathize TS's situation.

as a son, you cannot just do whatever you like. as a son, you cannot just run all out just for a girl. it's very hard to make a decision. those who never have this experience before of course can talk very easy.

on the other hand, there's no single father/mother in the world will make use of the son like a machine or tool. i believe, deep down in TS father's heart, he just want him to not make a failed step in his life. not the best way to show his love, but nevertheless, he's trying to give the best to his son.

Winner, at this point, i can't give you definite suggestion on the "correct" path. things might or might not work out, and you might spend another few years and end up nothing. but most important thing is, if you truely love her, you shouldn't feel regret whatsoever.

hehe. u mentioned it :"i had already moved out at the age of 25 because i disagreed with my parents...it's peace for all...."

i am quite new in here too.

translate which 1? 死板板？ it means like ppl say ‘kayu’ aka bookworm? (doing things follow rules onli. example, ppl ask he/she start with A, then do B, then C and so on. When he or she stucked in B, he or she doesnt know how to change other route or solution, no matter how must do B before going to C.)