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Bishop
post Nov 30 2009, 11:22 AM

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TS wants a trophy wife. End of story.

Girl not a trophy that he can flaunt around his dad and his friends = REJECTED!!!


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post Nov 30 2009, 12:07 PM

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QUOTE(theWinner @ Nov 30 2009, 11:50 AM)
No. I didn't really know, but it seemed to me she was too tired to talk, and I didn't want to argue with her.


Added on November 30, 2009, 11:57 am

Why can't you think both of us are victims?

I know I'm wrong in this relationship.

Please don't say I DO NOT LOVE her, especially debbieyss. I LOVE her. Please look at the shades of grey, rather than black and white.
 
Sometimes, I think I'm 身不由己! But, I tried in full force to make it happen.

I'm sad with the ending!
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How are you the victim?? blink.gif

You only "love" her when it is convenient to you. Or rather when it fits your schedule. mad.gif

No where in this whole thread was there any indication that you loved her. You accomodate her but you dont love her. I am sorry but your perception of love is still of secondary school level. So please stop asking for sympathy. You think that you are rich and that she is of a lesser level than you then let her go and stop b****ing. I really pity her.


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post Nov 30 2009, 12:26 PM

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QUOTE(ConquerorX @ Nov 30 2009, 12:21 PM)
Oh, speaking of you got mad at her about the intention of "testing" you. Apparently, you've studied so much of engineering dummies for 101 and business dummies for 101, you haven't really got yourself a book, relationship dummies for 101? ( not the real book titles ), but you can perform some "research" on what actually the definition of "make love" meant in a relationship smile.gif

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http://www.amazon.com/Relationships-Dummie...s/dp/0764553844

but I think he really need this more...

http://www.amazon.com/Sex-Dummies-Psycholo...p/dp/047004523X whistling.gif


Added on November 30, 2009, 12:30 pm
QUOTE(theWinner @ Nov 30 2009, 12:20 PM)
You all scolded me like nobody. I'm actually very sad of the past, I wanted to get back her!  cry.gif

No, I respect her all these while, I never take her for granted. I was just doing things from my perspective. How I wish I could get advice from you all right from the beginning. I want to propose her!
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NO. You feel that you are a failure that you got dumped. It is you ego that is making you want her back. Note that you have never before this claim that you want her back. All you write is to justify how you are better, richer, smarted, etc than her that is why she no more with you...

After 8 years together only AFTER you break up do you want to propose to her??! vmad.gif Please, think of it as a failed investment cut your losses and leave the poor girl alone.



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post Nov 30 2009, 12:39 PM

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QUOTE(santaclaus @ Nov 30 2009, 12:32 PM)

most important ... wat if ur "didi" is really malfunction?
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I believe that is already rosak... due to lack of usage.

So I recommend that you do not propose to her cause you will only show your short cummings to your dad and his business friends when you cannot bear a child...



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post Nov 30 2009, 12:51 PM

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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Nov 30 2009, 12:31 PM)
Winner, please accept and agree of the comment I give you, please admit that you do not love her. Please do not make me being harsh to you as all this while I have been so gentle to you in words.

Ok, now you said you want her back. But from the way, steps and procedures you have got in mind to approach her back is really really childish. You are not a mature man, mentally immature.

Have you ever thought of sitting down, stay calm and reallly think which to go first, who to talk to and what to do, list down the sequence of your plan?

And yeah, I don't think you'd still love her and want her back. You're saying that you want her back is because you feel guilty and you want to patch back to compensate or restart the relationship or something like that.

You are an idiot in love.
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like I said before, secondary school EQ in realtionships. Probably due to lack of didi use... laugh.gif

(in retrospect, he is still a virgin therefore still a child, so cant blame his childishness)



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post Nov 30 2009, 12:55 PM

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QUOTE(theWinner @ Nov 30 2009, 12:49 PM)
Thanks for the ray of hope. I know I was wrong in the past, but I loved her more than anyone else, for this I could guarantee, at the bottom of my heart.

I would just go empty handed, probably rent a proton wira or waja from friend, and get everything as simple as possible.   

She is always my lover. I love her dearly. I'll change my attitude, never angry and abusive, never get drunk and talk stupid thing.

No, education level has nothing to do with love. Rich or poor, all are the same.
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PLEASE DONT. vmad.gif

Leave her alone. She has suffered enough. You will not change.

Change is from within. You are still concern with money and appearence.

"go empty handed"??!
"Rent a proton or waja"??!!

You are still thinking that she is acting like this because you are rich and educated but she is not.

So please, please, please LEAVE HER ALONE.


Added on November 30, 2009, 12:59 pm
QUOTE(Hammond Tan @ Nov 30 2009, 12:53 PM)
please post constructive replies rather than o0o him....
don't keep telling him he's wrong, suggest how he can improve = )
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I am sorry, but there are times when you must know when it will not work and cut your losses. It is hard, very hard, but it is something that must be done rather than to prolong the suffering.

Perhaps telling him how to improve his next relationship but not this one anymore. After a while he will revert back to his old abusive, drunk self. So the girl have suffered enough for 8 years. Let her be happy for the other 50 years left...

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post Nov 30 2009, 01:10 PM

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QUOTE(theWinner @ Nov 30 2009, 01:01 PM)
Didn't you hear stylish had been there? She said my GF still love me! She cares about me, sending me wishes during my birthday.

Yes, I'm not perfect. But, I'll be the best for her!
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Whether she loves you or not is not relavant. She needs to be LOVED. You are not able to do that. Your definition of love is too juvenile. So please if you really love her. Let her go.


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post Nov 30 2009, 01:29 PM

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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Nov 30 2009, 01:15 PM)
Again, here shows how idiot you are. I mean the way you think. You want other's words to assure you that she'd still love you?

Again, we have just said you are too selfish. I know your intention to patch back is out of good will. BUT, have you ever tried to first figure out if she wants to patch back?

Seriously, you're immature.
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He has no EQ. I seriously dont think he understands what is being debated here. He is an egoistical man who thinks that his wealth and status is what women are intrested in. He forgot that she loved him when he was a nobody.

Dont think we can do much here. He dont listen, just hears what he wants to hear...


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post Nov 30 2009, 04:30 PM

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QUOTE(kienu @ Nov 30 2009, 03:28 PM)
Dear Mr Winner,

R u the Real McCoy?

for a rich man's son n PHD holder...ur english is a bit....lah..no offence...cheers!
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Not only that, he did his PhD in ENGLAND!!! whistling.gif
No wonder his england so england... brows.gif


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post Dec 1 2009, 09:56 AM

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Address your inner demons before running to try to fix things with her. Changes start from within. Not from external forces. Right now you dont seem to be clear nor know why you want her back other than some emotional withdrawal.

A relationship is a lot more than just love. Right now you dont seem to understand that.

Take this time out and understand yourself and your situation/family/her better. Then you will understand what needs to be done.
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post Dec 2 2009, 04:01 PM

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QUOTE(santaclaus @ Dec 2 2009, 02:31 PM)
TS has no balls ... how to talk to his dad ....

proof > eight years oso no *** .... coz no balls ... scared will make the gf shocked ...
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That is why TS GF dump him. thumbup.gif

balls not working...
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post Dec 15 2009, 06:29 PM

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please close. TS still not getting it...

Deb, stop feeding him.

FTW he calls himself...
STL we think!
(Sure To Lose)


 

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