msia army is....

yeah..uneven distribution of males and females.

yeah...he looks so much better in his 40's than in his 20's..

he used to be such a skinny,geeky looking actor..

1. LOOK AT YOURSELF
...in the mirror.
...in random a$$ videos of yourself (on youtube, facebook etc)
...and listen to yourself project your voice to people. Sound confident? Like a wuss? Like a woman :S lol?

2. ASK YOURSELF
Face problem?
Attitude problem?

3. HONESTLY
Has any girls shown romantic interest in you?
Were they of a standard you find acceptable (ie. not beaten-with-an-ugly-stick vomit-if-seen-naked uattractive) ?


4. THINK
Do you stand a chance with the girls YOU find to be acceptably attractive?
Refer #1.


5. KNOW
That beautiful/hot/attractive girls... the ones YOU likely find acceptably attractive have many choices in the game of love... And why would they want to settle for you?


6. BE AWESOME
Take control of your life. Get things straightend out. Healthy body, healthy mind, healthy outlook, healthy career and secure job. Your body reflects your state of health and wellbeing. Your mind reflects how many real friends you have.


7. SOONER OR LATER
Someone YOU find acceptably attractive will show romantic interest in you. THen it's all about reciprocating.


8. TANGO
It takes two to tango... Even then, it doesnt guarantee love will blossom... But hey, you are dating girls YOU find attractive...and LOVE WILL BLOSSOM with someone sooner or later.


9. SETTLE
Even if you cant find someone acceptably attractive in your teens or early 20s...
People get desperate.
You WILL lower your standard.
There are girls in their late 20s who never dated as well.
You know how attractive they will be.
So yeah, most people will settle for someone eventually.

This is reality as I perceive it.

This post has been edited by ezralimm: Oct 11 2009, 11:39 AM

what so rush?

don look down on M'sian army.. seriously, he a chinese and he's HAWTTTT! haha but he's too old for me

did u even look at his face? LOL

sound so cute

he sound so cute? OMG you gotta be kidding haha

wow,this part suck in life if u are physically unattractive, and unattractive to other female in any other way.

that means, all the pretty and awesome girls will be taken away, and leaving u with the girl out of ur standard, but u will take them anyways.

where is the picture?

that is not love. and love doesn't count whether a girl is pretty or not.

his avatar!

lazy debate at this point.

always 2 side will stand

If you ask 10 guys out there that has been through a few relationships, and they will just say what you said above might be bull. I remember having a few guy friends in college that have been through a few relationships. They told me that after a few relationship tries, they realised that there's no such thing as "love doesn't look at how good their looks are". They said that it is because a girl is attractive or pretty or hot, the guy will go near her and starts to understand her. Once he got enuf understanding of the good points, he will go for the chase. This is proven as most "not quite attractive girls" will not have guys approaching them in the first place. The guys will normally be stuck with the more attractive ones and try to know them more. One of men's realistic characteristics.

you still don't understand me. Love doesn't count looks but which dumb S will chase unattractive girls.. get it?? Usually its chase first den go into love =.= kids.

but love seriously doesn't count on looks

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Added on October 11, 2009, 3:37 pmbut love seriously doesn't count on looks

This post has been edited by euphoria88: Oct 11 2009, 03:37 PM

Yeah I understand what you mean but the problem is, if a girl doesn't look attractive enough, the guys wouldn't even try to know her, not even saying love her. Imagine a realistic situation where a guy has 2 female friends, one attractive but doesn't talk much with him, and another that isn't attractive but talks a lot. For any guy out there, the obvious answer is the guy will try and love the attractive one first. That's how we guys are. I can't deny that but I am like this too. However I am hoping to change my perception.

yeap but in the end he realizes the not attractive ones suits him more. Always like this. =.=

You know what you should do: Stop giving excuses on your past failures and do something to fix this,than sitting in the forums whining non stop.

as if he got a past to fail. LOL

Nobody is saying you are wrong euphoria. Read the replies carefully.

LOVE REALLY IS BLIND - LOOKS DONT MATTER WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE.

BUT.
Human beings are damn picky with who they fall in love with.

Guys notice all the nice things and try to get to know the pretty/hot/attractive girls - girls who are fertile, curvy, hot - guys hate falling in love with ugly, disproportionate women.

Girls notice all the nice things about guys with successful traits - good genes that would produce successful offspring - girls hate falling in love with losers.

Not all guys are successful winners in the game of life.
Not all girls are pretty.

Everyone knows where they stand in the game of love. You know who is available to you.

People who are single in adulthood learn to set their standards lower as they approach the age of desperation (eg. 35) and never had been a relationship.

SO yeah, love is blind BUT Look at all the girls who only got into their first relationship in their 30s. Look at the guys they settled for. Look at all the guys who only got into their first relationship in their 30s. Look at the girls they settled for.


I rest my case.