Me and 2 of my friends are now 24 and we still don't have / never had a gf before. Do you guys/girls think this could be a problem or do we still have lots of chances in the future? According to some people, girls nowadays are starting relationships early, around during school days 16-18 age and by the time we, 24 -25 age meet them in their 21-24, they're already taken and are in a stable relationship. Do you guys/girls think this is true?

Some girls commented that the 3 of us are a group of too  'husband-looking' guys and girls at 20s do not like to go out with us because we don't like parties/clubbing that much. We are those honest types of guys where, in the outside might look boring (because we dress normal and not very attractive) and girls say that we might get our love only around 30s because that's when girls finally find guys with our character to secure a future. What do you girls/guys think on this issue?

Do give me some feedback on this.

you still don't understand me. Love doesn't count looks but which dumb S will chase unattractive girls.. get it?? Usually its chase first den go into love =.= kids.

Yeah I understand what you mean but the problem is, if a girl doesn't look attractive enough, the guys wouldn't even try to know her, not even saying love her. Imagine a realistic situation where a guy has 2 female friends, one attractive but doesn't talk much with him, and another that isn't attractive but talks a lot. For any guy out there, the obvious answer is the guy will try and love the attractive one first. That's how we guys are. I can't deny that but I am like this too. However I am hoping to change my perception.

Sorry i'm late in replying this, I'm not on the forums on weekends.  Too many stuff to do preparing for wedding dinner.  Anyway what i'm saying is you can't wait too long to get your act together.  The good homey pretty girls that you said you like start working around the age of 22-24 and they are picked up fast by guys because they are hot and marriage material.

best advice so far, I would like to add to that. I'm no casanova myself,but I have had my luck with a few girls and am now with a great girlfriend. Had some past admirers and relationships as well but that did not work out. I gotta say though,24 is not a bad age at all,at least you haven't hit your thirties.

balance of life to be deemed as successful-it's the basic principle,the more "successful" you are in life the more people want to know you. See all stars,movie stars,rock stars,businessman,,they get girls here and there and everywhere. Why? Looks? Fame? Money? Yes,but i'll break it down for you.

i)Health-Eat well,sleep well,workout,no stress,keep out of too much sun,no smoking,junk food etc. You'll look great,feel great,think great! And which mate in this world does not want a healthy other half? Look at how we judge a hot girl or guy,and everyone warms up to her/him. Good skin/good hair/good body/great smile-all about diet,exercise and rest buddy.
ii)Relationships.get out there make more friends...okay i won't be prejudice against your friends but it seems that if you all are together complaining about your age and bachelor hood,,you better best dump your friends. I know this from experience,,I used to hang around nerdy gamers,,,and seriously like in my group,,all 10 of em did not have friends. They just played ps3,read books,games,,etc. Then I started to hangout with "cooler" guys and got more contacts and so on so forth.
A)change your social circle
B)add your social numbers
iii)Money-this is a no brainer. Work hard and get some cash bro.Save as well,always remember..no girl wants a guy with debt in his hands.
iv)Passion-do what you love and the rest will follow. Wanna quick example? Take a guy like beckam,let' say hypothetically he lovessss football(well he does).So the guy eats healthy,sleeps early after training,workouts in the gym,plays football=muscular,good looking,healthy. Health check
Then because of his great talent and practice-he gains respect and contacts. Relationships check
Then because he is a graet player,,all clubs want him-money comes in. Wealth check
So now he is f***ing damn hot Victoria his wife,has all the money to spend on cars and homes,looks good and is heahlthy and all cause he had one aim-his passion.

Are you guys sure that by doing the above, I would leap out of the single bachelor-hood soon? I feel like 24 might be too late to even start first love.

hi..i am 29..i never in relationship before..i got chances of getting into relationship when i was 15-20 but because of immatured that time..the girls hate me the things stop there..between 20-25 i also had chance to get in relationship but also because of still immatured i ruin everything and it ended with grudges..now i am in the finest state with career, fit and and in shape and stability...i am seeing some women with same age with me..i flirt and sweettalk seem like got green light and the response is positive but the problem now is whether i could find much better and younger girl. I am just being honest here