Fix it instead of whining here, u know ur problem, u have the solution, but u still ask?

what's the point?

be who you are. be genuine and sincere. know your limits.

lazy bum like u dun deserve any girls...

now GTFO....

hahahaha... just an advise b4 comment on others..

"PLEASE DO BELIEVE IN KARMA"

I'm a firm believer that women doesn't necessary look into what you have, but more towards what you're trying to achieve in your life.

Like it or not, guys are always competitive and it's always in our best interest to improve in every aspect of our life. It's part of our evolutionary instinct even though we're moving on from our hunter gatherer ancestors.

Females still have those lingering primitive instinct as well, thus a hawt beefcake is still irresistible.

This post has been edited by Gr3yL3gion: Aug 24 2009, 05:32 PM

You really need to learn how to look at problems to find the cause. If girls of all types are avoiding you, why are you blaming it on your looks? Don't you think you are perhaps lacking something else that's pushing them away?

As many people have mentioned, there are some fat people with hot partners. How can these ppl get partners like that while you can't even approach a woman? There's something missing/wrong with you, and its not the weight. Find out what it is.


Its a good start, but like clutches for a broken leg, it only helps you move around more freely, after a while you'll have to throw those clutches away and stand on your own. You should always start changes from within, women can be the catalyst, but they should never be the reason for the change.

mayb not all hope are lost...

look at this thread and hope u get motivated abit...

http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=1094689&hl=

p/s: u fatter or that dude in the picture fatter??

I'm 95kg. Just 10kg's short of you but nonetheless i CAN be considered fat. But still i don't find any problems hitting it with women. Looks is not really something women dwell upon but it can be an added advantage for attraction. Then again your personality is the biggest tool. Tell me then how really FAT guys like Fat Joe, Notorious B.I.G or even John Candy are well off with the opposite sex ? It's the confidence and social value they project.

Unless if you think it's BS then you can dwell in your own self-pity.

Problem : Fat dude hard to find date
Solution : work out

i don understand what is going tru ur head when they are sooo many gym opening around.

Guys and Girls,

Really thank you all so much giving me positive as well as negative comments. All to all the solution is to slim down and that is all. No point for me to keep whining here since is not going anywhere.

1. Get myself a decent pair of jogging shoe
2. Sign up for a gym nearby my house
3. Cut down on Carbo intake
4. Live a healthy life and make a difference with my life

Thank you all again!

Regards,
MajorArmstrong

EDIT:Well I guess i posted to late. Anyways congratulations to TS for finally deciding to build your own path to a healthier lifestyle. And i i bid you good luck.

This post has been edited by siles1991: Aug 24 2009, 09:17 PM

If you're filthy rich, you're not gonna have any problems

It's not really that hard , it depends on where you look for girls

no advice

Please be consistent!!! out of 100 individuals go for a work out programme, 50% quit in 2nd week and another 30% quit in 2nd month....another 10% cut down their programme or replace with easier ones....Only 10% leftover suceed their whole programme....please don't stop.

Cutting down carbo is really something easy to say but nothing will be harder to cut down carbs....it's one of the hardest thing to achieve in the world.... You succesfully cut down unhealthy carb (i.e: saturated fats and biscuits) for 3 months...man...i will give you a respect.... It proves that you are discipline....you are someone who amde mistakes but force yourself the hardest to correct it.

All the best friend...Remember...Body crunches, squat and dead lift is a must! Don't ever think of body crunch for 30-50 times for every lower body work out....DO it 200 times per work out without hurting your lower back!

just be yourself..

previously i have ex's bf that weight like yours n i am like 1/4 of his weight...

You guys are going to kill TS someday by giving those "Just be yourself" advice.

"Just be yourself" is obviously not helping him in any way.

do something about urself if u know it's the weight that's bugging u

Remember here TS. Previous EX.

so hit the gym

This post has been edited by KirklandLee: Aug 25 2009, 05:29 AM

actually fat guy can be very succesful
give u an example