I'm 95kg. Just 10kg's short of you but nonetheless i CAN be considered fat. But still i don't find any problems hitting it with women. Looks is not really something women dwell upon but it can be an added advantage for attraction. Then again your personality is the biggest tool. Tell me then how really FAT guys like Fat Joe, Notorious B.I.G or even John Candy are well off with the opposite sex ? It's the confidence and social value they project.

Unless if you think it's BS then you can dwell in your own self-pity.